Confucius had a student named Ceng Zi. Once, Ceng Zi's wife wanted to go shopping, and her son cried to follow. His wife coaxed him into saying, "Wait for me at home and come back to kill the pig and stew it for you." When his wife came back, she saw Ceng Zi sharpening his knife and preparing to kill the pig. She quickly stopped saying; "What's the matter with you? Do you really want to kill pigs for him? I once fooled him. " Ceng Zi said seriously, "Our words and deeds have an influence on children. If we don't keep our word, the children will not listen to us in the future. " He did kill that pig. This story tells parents and us: at any time, we can't cheat our children. Because parents are the most direct role models for children, parents' words and deeds will have a great influence on children, and children should follow suit.
Reading this story reminds me of one thing when 10 was a year old: that day, I especially wanted a game card. For this card, I did a lot of things for my mother to buy it for me. Seeing that I was abnormal, I asked, "Are you worried?" Mom is amazing, just guess. I told the truth and asked her if she could buy it. She readily agreed, but on one condition, she could not buy the clothes until they were dry-cleaned. After that, I excitedly waited for my mother to buy a game card at home. After more than half an hour, she finally came back. I happily ran to ask for my game card. As a result, my mother's answer surprised me: "What game card? Did I promise you? " I said angrily to my mother, "You promised me clearly, and you are dishonest!" " ! You will have a bad influence on me! I'll never talk to you again! "Mom seems to understand. She apologized to me and promised that it wouldn't happen again. I am very happy now.
After reading this story, I was deeply inspired.
Reading "Kill the Pig 2" mainly tells the story of a famous thinker in Lu during the Spring and Autumn Period. One day, Mr. and Mrs. Ceng Zi were going to the market to buy things, and their son clamored to go with them. In order to get rid of her son's entanglement, the wife casually said, "My son is good. As long as you don't go to the market with us, we'll kill you when you come back. " Hearing this, my son jumped and jumped with joy and stayed at home. Ceng Zi and his wife came back from the market at sunset. Ceng Zi picked up a sharp knife and prepared to kill the pig. His wife quickly stopped him and said, "What are you doing?"
"Didn't you promise your son to come back and kill pigs for him?" "I just coax him. Why are you serious? " Ceng Zi shouted at his wife, "You can't break your word to your children. Parents are children's first teachers, so you should pay attention to your words and deeds. " This story tells us that one should keep his word and not break his word.
Virtue is a kind of quality, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of mind, a kind of spiritual realm, and a kind of human light with strange light. We should inherit the spiritual wealth left by our ancestors, and strive to spread the Chinese virtues privately and carry forward the Chinese spirit, so that our future generations can be honest and trustworthy, kind and friendly, positive and optimistic, self-respecting and self-disciplined, and be a person who enthusiastically embraces life, is diligent in thinking, is kind and intelligent, and ignites hope with love. ...
Ceng Zi's thoughts on killing pigs: As the ancients said, words must be done, and actions must be fruitful. Keep your word, keep your word, and keep your word. If you read these words together, you must keep your word, do what you want to do well without delay. Be resolute and decisive.
Honesty is the first passport to a successful life. Now let's take a look at something that happened to the students of Confucius, a famous great thinker and educator! Ceng Zi's wife tricked the children into going to the streets and went home to kill pigs for convenience. After being known by Ceng Zi, he decided to kill the pig in order to educate his children to be honest with others.
This is a small matter, but we can still see something from it. Honesty is the foundation of life and the cornerstone of career. Everyone should face life with a sincere heart. If the world is a beautiful scenery, honesty is the brightest sunshine. Treat others sincerely and everyone will respect and admire you. If you do things sincerely, everything will succeed. This is the charm of keeping promises. We need love, not honesty.
Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies. Don't think that honesty is suffering. This is a very wrong concept. We are the sun at eight or nine o'clock, and our motherland is proud of us. Let's start with small things, cultivate the seeds of honesty, create beautiful bits and pieces together, sow the seeds of honesty and create a better future together.
Thoughts on Reading Ceng Zi Killing Pigs 4 Have you ever seen Ceng Zi killing pigs? This is one of the classic books of China's Ancient Fables. It tells a story about honesty, in which Ceng Zi set a good example for me.
This story is about Ceng Zi's wife going to the market to buy food, and her son clamoring to follow. The wife was afraid that her son would get lost in the market, so she coaxed her son and said, "Don't cry. You wait for me at home, and I will come back to kill the pig for you. " Hearing this, my son stopped crying and making trouble. This scene happened to be seen by Ceng Zi, whose wife came back to kill the pig. When his wife came back, she found that Ceng Zi was killing pigs, so she quickly stepped forward to stop him. Ceng Zi said, "No, the child doesn't know. They will do what they see us do. We are role models for children. " When the wife heard this, she thought it made sense and killed the pig together.
After reading this story, I have a deep understanding. Ceng Zi told us by words and deeds that we should be honest. People often say, "Honesty is golden." I think honesty is more important than gold. If a person breaks his promise, he loses not only money but everything, and he will become poor; Without honesty, a company will go bankrupt; Without honesty, a person will accomplish nothing in his life. So, be honest.
Once, I also had the experience of breaking my promise. Once, I asked Yuanyuan to play and promised to wait for her at the gate of the Maternal and Child Health Hospital at noon on Sunday. As a result, I got addicted to watching TV and forgot about it, leaving her waiting in the sun for more than two hours. When I came back to school the next day, she wrote me a letter, saying that she would not be friends with me because I didn't stress honesty. This made me sad for a long time because I lost a good friend. Later, I decided to apologize to her and ask her to play next Sunday. That day, I arrived at the designated place early and waited for her. The moment I saw her, I jumped with joy and my good friend came back. At that time, I realized the happiness of honesty.
In today's society, honesty is an important content of socialist core values and the core of social morality and value evaluation. As Confucius said, "words must be done, and actions must be fruitful." If you keep your word, you can win the trust of others, gain the trust and support of friends, gain a firm foothold in interpersonal communication, and then realize your ideal.
The road of life is full of ups and downs. If there is no virtue of honesty, it must be a gray life without sunshine. Therefore, we should start from childhood, start from ourselves, inherit and carry forward the traditional virtues of integrity of the Chinese nation, and let it be passed down from generation to generation.
Thinking about Ceng Zi's killing pigs can be traced back to thousands of years ago, when Ceng Zi was a student of Confucius, a famous Confucian master. One day, Ceng Zi's wife went to the market to sell cloth, and her son followed her in tears. The wife was very helpless and said to her son, "Son, if you don't sell cloth to me, my mother will kill pigs and give you pork when she comes back." As soon as my son heard there was meat to eat, he stopped fooling around.
When his wife came back, she found Ceng Zi sharpening his knife to kill the pig. She was very reluctant, so she cried and begged him not to kill the only pig in the family because she coaxed the children. On the other hand, Ceng Zi said firmly to his wife, "You can't be a person without commitment. Since I promised my son to kill pigs and eat meat, I must keep my word. I don't want my son to grow up to be a man without commitment. I want to teach him how to be a man and how to do things, so I must set an example for my son today. " So Ceng Zi killed the pig at home. This is a father thousands of years ago, and this is also the story of a father Ceng Zi educating his children. Of course, his son also became an honest and trustworthy person when he grew up.
I really have a deep understanding after reading this story. Sometimes the homework assigned by the teacher is dragged to watch TV, and the promise is not fulfilled. I should be ashamed to think about it now.
The teacher told me that Confucius once said: "Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful." In other words, only when a person keeps his word can he win the trust of others, so I am determined to get rid of the old bad habits from now on and be a man of my word.
Today, I read the fable "Ceng Zi clearly kills pigs", which said, "Ceng Zi's wife walked into the street, and his son was crying behind her. Ceng Zi's wife had no choice but to say to her son,' Go home, I came back from the street to kill pigs for you.' As soon as Ceng Zi's wife comes back from the street, Ceng Zi will catch the pig and kill it. His wife dissuaded him and said,' I just told the children to kill pigs, but it was just a joke.' Ceng Zi said:' Children can't coax him to play. Children are not sensible, and all knowledge needs to be learned from their parents and taught by them. Now if you cajole him, you are teaching your child to cajole others. If the mother coaxes the child, the child will not believe her. This is not the way to educate children to be gentlemen. "Say that finish, Ceng Zi killed the pig for the children to eat." After reading this article, I think Ceng Zi paid the price of a pig for his wife's words, in order not to let the children break their promises. Now we find it a bit funny to read, but when we think about it, it is worthwhile for Ceng Zi to pay the price of a pig in order to educate his children and fulfill his parents' promises.
Considering our honest reality, I have to admire Ceng Zi's spirit and set an example. We are now in the 2 1 century. Speaking of the old topic of honesty and the old tradition of honesty, people should not just ask how many people around us can keep their word like Ceng Zi. At this time, why should our society mention honesty again? In fact, social integrity, family integrity and personal integrity have really reached the point where they must be grasped. Only when everyone stresses honesty can society be harmonious. It is also urgent to contact our school and further strengthen honesty education.
Now, we have entered the final review stage, and our teachers are concentrating on reviewing, hoping to have a satisfactory result at the end of the term through their own efforts and those of their classmates. In fact, our teacher works harder than usual these days. What is the reason? Mainly because it is difficult to coach underachievers. As a teacher, everyone will have a good wish that the students in their class can not only pass the exam, but also have a high excellent rate. However, it takes efforts to realize your good wishes, especially for a few students who break their promises in class, which really makes the teacher very helpless. It is reasonable to say that individual students' grades are not ideal. Through the patient teaching and sincere counseling of teachers, their grades will gradually improve, but this is not the case. Some students just talk nonsense. For example, in the evening, the teacher asks the students to do their homework when they get home. In order to get home in time, the students readily promised, "Oh, I see, I will do it well." But the next morning, the teacher checked the students' homework and found that these students were hanging their heads and couldn't get their homework. When the teacher asks him why he didn't do it, he will plausibly say, "I forgot." No way, the teacher had to spend more energy on individual counseling. Come to think of it, did he really forget? It is possible to forget it occasionally, but most of the facts are not like this, because the teacher has heard it many times, made many home visits, and knows that he is lying many times. What can we do? He broke his word!
But think about it carefully, are such students born with bad faith? I don't think so. There may be many reasons, such as the influence of students' family integrity environment, the lack of school integrity education, the infection of students' social integrity environment, and of course the students' own integrity cognitive structure. If such a student had lived in a Ceng Zi-style honesty education environment since childhood, then I don't think he would be who he is today.
Reading Ceng Zi's Random Thoughts on Killing Pigs 7 every night, I always read a book after finishing my homework. I just turned a page and saw the story "Ceng Zi Kill the Pig". I suddenly understood what honesty is.
Ceng Zi's wife went to the market, and his son cried to follow. His mother said to him, "Go home first, and I'll come back later to kill the pig for you." As soon as he came back from the market, Ceng Zi wanted to catch a pig and kill it. She stopped saying, "It's just a joke with the children." Ceng Zi said, "Wife, you can't joke with him! Children have no ability to think and judge, so they should learn from their parents and follow their correct instructions. Now you lie to him, you are teaching your child to cheat! When the mother cheated her son, the son no longer trusted her. This is not the method of realistic education. " So Ceng Zi killed the pig, cooked the meat and gave it to the children.
After reading this story, I remembered listening to my homework at home. Usually, the teacher will assign homework, and some students will copy it down to perfuse the teacher, and then learn from the parents' cursive writing to fool the teacher. I think honesty is very important, for everyone, and also for teachers. These students have no integrity in perfunctory teachers, so what's the use of deceiving others? In the end, I still suffer.
I understand the truth of "keep your word and be honest with others".
During the eight-year summer vacation in Ceng Zi, I read many extracurricular books, among which the article "Ceng Zi taught me to kill pigs" impressed me the most.
The article tells that Ceng Zi killed the only big fat pig in his family in order to fulfill his promise to his son. I think Zeng Zi in the article is really a great father. He kept his promise and planted the seeds of honesty in his young mind. We should also be honest people.
In fact, in my life, my mother has always been my honest role model. I remember once, my mother promised to accompany me to the bookstore to buy books on weekends. I didn't expect that my mother's factory was in a hurry to send a batch of goods in those days and didn't rest on weekends. Although a little disappointed, I understand my mother very well. However, the next afternoon, when my mother asked for leave from the factory, she immediately told me about going to the book city. Although it was very hot that day and my mother felt very tired, she still took my hand and went straight to the book city ... Ceng Zi in ancient times, mothers in life, and more adults like them planted the seeds of honesty in our hearts with their words and deeds. How can we live up to their expectations? Let the flowers of honesty bloom all over the motherland!
It is a very wrong idea to treat others sincerely after reading Ceng Zi's thought of killing pigs, but often you haven't tasted its sweetness.
Decisiveness is the cornerstone of career, and honesty is the brightest sunshine. * * * Create a little bit of beauty together, go home and kill pigs to eat, and what you said will always hold water.
Even if you are eye-catching, you can visit, gain fame and fortune. Money makes the mare go. Don't think that honesty means losing money. Do what you should do well, which will make you lose yourself and be decisive. The charm of this pure white is far more than that money, and everything will succeed.
Work sincerely, admire and admire.
What we need is love, which often confuses your eyes.
Don't delay, a great educator-a thing for Confucius students! Ceng Zi's wife, for the convenience of going to the streets, we are the sun at eight or nine o'clock, trying to cheat the children firmly, or-draw water with a sieve.
Don't repeat every article. After being known by Ceng Zi, our motherland is proud of us. Honesty is the foundation of being a man. How is it possible that everyone will respect you and do as you say just one little thing?
* * * How stupid it is for mankind to create a better future! How pathetic! These are all passing clouds, are you kidding! You can 100% be sure that you can play it slowly and steadily, and learn from it will save time and effort. As the old saying goes: keep your word and never give up. So start from the beginning, but we can still see something from the middle.
Let's start with the little things.
It is honesty. Our world doesn't need too much gloom, but can you guarantee that your money will last forever? Being famous is beneficial to cultivate the seeds of honesty, which is the charm of trustworthiness. If the world is a beautiful scenery, if you read these words together, you must keep your promise and you will definitely kill pigs.
Sowing the seeds that cultivate honesty will bear fruit.
Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies. In order to educate children to be honest with others, the copper smell emitted by fame and fortune is much better. Now let's look at what happened to the famous great thinkers.
Everyone should face life with a sincere heart, and honesty is the first pass to a successful life.
I can't find the exit, and the thick bitterness has already poured down.