Then, from your narrative, hehe, in fact, I also saw a little shadow of my parents. You're not that old now, are you? In fact, parents will quarrel at this age, but there used to be a neighborhood Committee to persuade them. No one advises them now, so the divorce rate is high.
Your mother said that your father had a woman outside, hehe, it may not be true. The relationship between a man and a woman is not necessarily pure, but it is not easy to be evil, especially at your age. You can't say that your father has no feelings for you, can you? Your father and your mother probably had a little disagreement at first, and then they quarreled. Once again, he happened to meet a friend and asked him out to play, so he went out, then came back to quarrel, and went out to play to avoid quarreling. Later, he got used to it. However, not seeing anyone all day will inevitably make your mother suspicious. This is a vicious circle.
Your mother doesn't really want a divorce. No woman wants to leave a man after giving birth and living together for so many years. No. She is just angry, and even the divorce request now is a sign of love. If she doesn't care about your dad at all, why divorce? Why not let him go out to play?
So is your father. He is afraid to talk to you more now, because he thinks he is wrong and doesn't know how to face you. Besides, both of them are really angry, and people can't take what they do when they are angry seriously.
Sister, it's your turn to play next.
First, adjust yourself. Chat more, read jokes and adjust your state. Only when you get better can your family be saved! Make yourself optimistic and happy, and then infect your mother.
Then, tidy up your room and tidy up this home. It's not hard to imagine that your home is not as tidy as before, is it? This kind of environment is very annoying. You should spend more time on snacks, clean your room, and then clean up your parents' room and living room, so that parents can look comfortable and maybe calm down. After all, they are attached to this family.
Then, do more housework. If you have nothing to do, you can talk to your mother about housework, such as cooking and how to cook. Your mother should be happy to teach these things. In this communication process, your mother may vent some dissatisfaction. You don't want to fight her. You let her talk, for example, she said that your father was not good this time, you can let her talk, even if she stops talking. Doesn't he have other advantages? Just let her think about it, and then, consciously or unconsciously, you can also talk about the good things your father did, such as cleaning windows. You can say that it would be good if there were a man for this kind of manual work, so that your mother can remember that it would be very useful if your father were here!
For your dad, I suggest you communicate with him directly, or go to the place where he plays, otherwise you will pester him to take you somewhere to play. You can also cooperate with the class teacher to ask your father to go to school, and then talk to him about your study, so as to arouse his concern for you, which can increase his reluctance to the family, especially when the teacher says that "this child needs more concern from both parents" or "this child is emotionally unstable recently, so parents should take more care of him", which will make his heart throb and it is impossible not to feel.
Then, ask for help. For example, your grandparents, such as your grandparents, uncles, aunts and uncles, or other relatives, can let them be lobbyists, which is very special. They are good friends of your parents. When you asked them to do these things when you were a child, they couldn't refuse, and what your parents said to them was the most acceptable. Let them give you more advice. And that lawyer, you can also find his contact information and ask him to persuade your mother.
If you can do the above, there is basically no problem. Sister, don't be sad. Everybody's here. Please let me know if you have any questions. There are opportunities for change everywhere, especially if you really file a divorce lawsuit. Please ask me again. I am studying law.