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In order to build a harmonious and happy family, this husband and wife contract is specially formulated. Based on the principle of equality and voluntariness, we hope that both parties will abide by it.

Husbands and wives should live together based on the principles of mutual respect, mutual trust, and mutual care.

Husbands and wives should be honest with each other, communicate regularly, and do not hide or cheat.

When encountering problems, couples should put their family first and never do anything that would hurt the family or each other.

It is strictly prohibited to make phone calls, write letters, meet in person, go online, or any other contact with an old flame. You are not allowed to meet, call, or text messages with netizens, and you are not allowed to have intimate chats with netizens. Simply talking to friends is strictly prohibited.

Do not quarrel in front of your parents, relatives, friends, or neighbors. Do not quarrel in front of the other party in public places. (When giving face, one party can twist the other's arm with his hand to imply that he is giving face.)

No matter who is right or wrong, as long as there is a quarrel, the man must first coax the woman gently, and then the woman can Calm down immediately and do not refute immediately. You should comfort the woman until she calms down, then speak out your thoughts, and then listen carefully to the woman's thoughts. Otherwise, when the woman sees the man, she won’t be able to help but wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. Once serious consequences occur, the man will be responsible for them all.

If you quarrel at home, you are not allowed to just walk away. If you really have to leave, you are not allowed to leave the community. You are not allowed to take your mobile phone with you or turn it off. . (Do not turn off the phone under any circumstances. If the man finds the woman, he should hug her affectionately. The hug should not be perfunctory. He should gently press the woman’s head with the palm of one hand and do not criticize.)

Respect, Treat each other's parents and elders kindly. Don't be rude to your parents when you are angry or unhappy.

The party at fault should take the initiative to apologize, and the party without fault should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the party at fault apologizes and makes amends.

When both parties make mistakes, they should review each other. After recognizing the mistakes and apologizing, the man should take the initiative to take the woman out to relax.

If you want to vent your anger, you are not allowed to hit anything, you can only eat. If your hands are itchy, you can only hit the pillow.

Try not to quarrel overnight. The man must take the initiative to hug the woman when she is sleeping at night. The man cannot give up when the woman is angry and pushes her in every possible way, but it cannot exceed 3 times. If it exceeds 3 times, the man can choose to give up, but The next day, neither party was allowed to mention the matter again.

We have to give each other a massage once a week, because we often quarrel and it is very hard. If the man is not good at craftsmanship, he can learn from the blind master, but it is strictly forbidden to learn from the female hair salon!

The man is not allowed to hang up the phone during an argument. If he hangs up, he must call her back immediately and apologize. If the woman hangs up the phone during an argument, the man must call her within 1 minute. If the phone is unavailable, call her on the mobile phone. In short, you can't be angry and hit him repeatedly, but the woman should also give the man face. The number of hanging up the phone should not exceed 3 times at a time. If the number exceeds 3 times, all the responsibilities will be borne by the woman.

When quarreling, men and women must not threaten each other with topics such as divorce and suicide. Strictly prohibited during quarrels: swearing at mothers, elders or other serious personal attacks.

When quarreling, neither party should involve the children, nor should they beat, scold, abuse, or insult the children at will. They should think more about their children in everything.

When quarreling, one party must not use harsh words, dirty words or other provocative language to irritate the other party to avoid causing domestic violence.

When there is no quarrel, both parties must reach an agreement. When there is a quarrel, regardless of male or female, whoever says "123" first, the other party must say: I'm sorry, no matter you are right or wrong, in order to ease the relationship between the two. .

If the woman runs away from home, the man must try to retain her as soon as possible. Not only must he retain her in person, but he must also comfort her with words. If he does not retain her in the first place, the man shall bear full responsibility. .

Going home at night without the other party’s approval must not be later than 11 o’clock. You should tell the other party exactly why you are not going home after get off work.

Monthly wages, bonuses and all income must be turned over to the wife in full, no resistance to payment is allowed, no omission is allowed, and private personal treasury is strictly prohibited; daily smoking should not exceed half a pack a day, and drinking should be no more than once a week. No drunkenness! (During pregnancy preparations, you must not smoke more than 3 cigarettes a day, and you are not allowed to drink alcohol!) The money will be allocated by the wife on a monthly basis, and overdrafts or advances are not allowed for any reason. The wife has the right to know and audit this expenditure. Business trip expenses will be calculated separately, and you will be responsible for all expenses when you return!

No gambling. Friends who do not know each other are not allowed to participate in gambling (no more than once a week), such as social gambling with the boss (no more than 2 times a week)

Establish the same aspirations and have a positive attitude toward life. Be full of confidence in love and love; have noble pursuits, keep learning, and improve overall quality and accomplishment;

What you want to say to the man’s family must be said by the man, and you must think of the woman! Any conflict between a woman and her husband's family is because the man did not handle it properly! The things that the woman tells the man to deal with must be dealt with immediately according to the priority of the matter! If there is a delay, explain the reason when you get home!

The man must accompany the woman for walks every week (at least 2 times, at least 5 times during pregnancy) and must spend one day with the woman every weekend.

Suppers after 8 o'clock (no more than 3 times a month)

After marriage, the man must take the initiative to share the housework with the woman after marriage. Remember that the wife is not a mama, the wife announced When you are tired, ask your wife to take the initiative to take care of the housework.

Both parties voluntarily abide by the above terms. If one party violates it, the other party will take punitive measures against the offending party, and the offending party shall not object. The terms of this treaty currently include the above-mentioned articles. If there are any changes, they will be revised after negotiation between the two parties. This treaty is made in duplicate and shall become effective upon signature by both parties.

Man (signature): Woman (signature):