1. The older we get, the weaker our hearts become. Breathe softly, smile slightly.

2. The bright stars are not as bright as the lonely moon; the chirping of hundreds of birds is not as bright as the roar of a tiger.

3. If I can have 999 times of good luck in this life, I am willing to give you 997 times, leaving only two times for myself: once to meet you, and once to accompany you forever.

4. The limits of human beings are created by a few people and cannot be generalized.

5. You can’t help but because you are unforgettable, and you won’t leave because you can’t replace it.

6. The road of life is full of ups and downs, and no one can have smooth sailing. Only in the most difficult moments can we realize the meaning of helplessness. Stick to your own path and don't care what others say. No matter when, I always face everything with a grateful heart.

7. When you become stronger, you will meet someone stronger than you; when you become better, you will deserve better.

8. Enemies become comrades mostly for survival, and comrades become enemies mostly for money.

9. Being alive itself is a kind of luck, and being young itself is a kind of happiness.

10. No matter what you hurt, don’t hurt people’s hearts; no matter what you play with, you can’t play with feelings. When clothes are torn, they can be sewn; when a heart is broken, there is only pain.

11. You should always be your own protagonist, don’t always play a supporting role in other people’s dramas.

12. Learn to laugh it off, treat it with detachment, know how to tolerate, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow in tolerance.

13. As long as you can control it, it is not love, but need. Falling in love means knowing that you don’t want it, but you just can’t help it. I always want to leave, but I just can’t. I am obviously lonely, but I still miss you very much. It may seem like helplessness, and love can be excruciatingly painful. But in fact, even if you are completely hurt by love, having that moment of sweetness makes up for everything.

14. In memory, there are some moments that are nothing special when experienced, but when recalled, they are worth a thousand words.

15. Restore the true nature of life with a dust-free heart

16. Just take things in the world lightly. People are poor and rich all their lives; If you don't have troubles and attachments no matter who, what, or what situation you are dealing with, then you have seen through it. But people are not permanent, and things are not permanent. How many people can really see through some things? We are all ordinary people, suffering from seven emotions and six desires. Some things are too much. Even the Buddha has fire, so how can it be tolerated by others? .

17. Life often plays a joke on us. Whoever you expect will be farther away from you; whoever you are attached to will hurt you the most. Love begins when we meet; missing ends when we meet; along the way, I have experienced the joy of getting to know each other, told the lingering attachment, and experienced the pain of lovesickness; standing at the end of the season, once upon a time, autumn passed and spring came, and I experienced How much has changed.

18. As long as I live, I will only express warmth but not sorrow. The flavor of flowers will become stronger and the flavor of tea will become mellower. We will meet each other heart-to-heart and stay with each other in peace and warmth.

19. Giving words to others is more important than pearls and jade; words to hurt others are more important than swords.

20. Only when the soul has a home can life have a path. Life is getting more and more complicated, and life is always exciting. We often feel that life is boring and live passively. This is because we do not feel life with our heart. Don't ignore every little thing in life, and don't ignore life because of work. Only when you feel life with your heart will your life be wonderful. Something worth feeling with your heart

Something worth feeling with your heart

1. A person's world is very quiet, so quiet that you can hear your own breathing and heartbeat. You don't laugh at the same joke over and over again, but why you keep crying at the same person over and over again. Like a song, many times it is not because you like it, but just a way to miss someone. If I could go back to the past, I would choose not to know you. It's not that I regret it, it's that I can't face the ending without you.

2. All outstanding people have a certain period of silence. They do not complain about hardship, do not blame when they are lonely, and continue to work hard to climb, and will eventually find gorgeous blooms in the dark night.

Some lives and selves can be used not only to overcome, but also to get along with each other. The splendor of destiny is not only in the vigorous moments, but also in the ordinary and quiet ones, which are also another kind of power of the soul. This life is not long, only by cherishing it can you not miss the beauty and loveliness and make as few regrets as possible.

3. Dealing with others 1. Great things can be done by uniting capable people, practical things can be done by uniting good people, and bad things can be done by uniting bad people. 2. Being able to say what is supposed to be said is called level, not being able to say what is supposed to be said is called smart, being able to say what is supposed to be said but not being said is called cleverness. 3. Being able to do what you should do is called ability, not doing what you shouldn’t do is called wisdom, being able to do what you should do and not doing what shouldn’t be called wisdom.

4. So you provide such a home for these singers of the soul. They like to read the fragrant and soft words here and are obsessed with the sad and sad feelings. Many times, I read carefully and carefully by you. When I read these words, my heart would suddenly tremble, just like Caicaijuan'er who read the Book of Songs, and couldn't help but choke up. Picking and curling ears will not fill the basket. Alas, I am pregnant with someone, leaving him to travel around.

5. After a thousand years of reincarnation, whose eyes are fascinated by the mortal world on Moshang? Whose yesterday has been tainted by the extravagant world? A tunnel through time and space, a wandering wave in the past life. I accidentally lost my way back to Jiangnan in my dream. That day, peach blossoms were flying and green hair was blowing on the willows. Qian smiled half-faced with makeup.

6. Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to stay together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up so many years of time. Maybe someone you love will appear in your life, but that person is just a passerby after all. You will still hold your left hand or right hand and keep walking. Happiness really has nothing to do with love.

7. Without expectations, there will be no disappointment; without commitment, there will be no harm. If a person can live his whole life without desires and desires, then there will be nothing that can hurt him. Even if the realm is hard to find, at least it will make you more sane. After all, there are not many people in this world who can be sincerely kind to you, so never place your love on others, otherwise sooner or later, you will not even be qualified to feel heartache.

8. Life is just like a movie. Pain is a beginning, struggle is a process, and death is an ending. Only through the road we have traveled can we know whether it is short or long; only by what we have passed through can we know whether it is joyful or sad; only when we have tasted the taste can we know whether it is astringent or cold. You can give up anything, but you can't give up happiness; you can lose anything, but you can't lose your smile.

9. Above the world of mortals, I would like to walk in the world like a flower. Facing the sun, it is quietly open and exudes a unique fragrance. This fragrance is just thoughts, wisps of threads, floating in the wind. The flowers in the wind and rain are just a few drops of red. Not startling, not moved, just gently swaying and falling in the wind and rain. Maybe beauty is only for a season. After the age of blooming, it will also wither and be crushed into mud. But I didn’t live up to the spring, and I didn’t live up to the summer.

10. You are dressed in neon clothes, with long sleeves dancing lightly, and you are so graceful. How can I turn a blind eye? That neon dress is clearly wrapped in your blazing red beauty. When the long sleeves are waved, they are like a sinking fish and a wild goose, like a flower shy of the moon. Every moment, every moment, there is endless tenderness. Maybe you will never see the time when I love you the most, because I love you the most only when you can’t see me; similarly, you can never see the time when I am the loneliest, because I only love you when you can’t see me. That’s when you’re the loneliest.

11. If you have never done something wrong, you will not know what is right; if you have not experienced wrong things, you will not know what kind of people are worthy of cherishing; if you have not met those dirty people Or something, you can't learn to cherish those precious things. Thanks to those who have always been entangled with frustrations and unhappiness, allowing us to understand where the light lies!

12. Time goes by, and when will the wind and rain stop? Friends and acquaintances are scattered, and autumn comes again in the fleeting years. Holding wine in the wind, the sky is silent with a roar; the frost is cold and the wild geese are falling, asking you when is the time to return. Gathering and scattering, the ups and downs and floating clouds are gone. I am drunk, walking and singing. You should not make assumptions in life, even half a day is too much. Open and heroic, generous. The words are full of spirit and the ambition is expressed. Walking on the shadow of the moon with slight steps, carefree and carefree, letting the wind follow the waves.

13. If you don’t blindly compare with others, you will be leisurely and contented. If you don’t set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don’t deliberately pursue perfection, you will be far away from pain. Not all the time. If you are strict with yourself, you will live at ease. If you don't always find fault, you will be relaxed.

If you live too tiredly, you will be miserable. Be content and happy!

14. Because I have deep experience, I know your burdens and understand your difficulties; because I feel the same, I feel sorry for your sincerity and cherish your feelings. Understanding is the bridge to the heart and causes excitement. Because we understand, we are tolerant; because we understand, we are of the same mind. Understand, let there be no distance between hearts, let lives cherish each other. Understanding is the most beautiful connection and the most profound touch in life!

15. Think carefully, in the journey of life, there is always someone or something that leaves a deep or shallow imprint; when the years pass leisurely, that complex, a Like the breeze of the four seasons, it lingers like a shadow; that memory is deeply stationed in the heart; it stays in the dream, decorating the passing time, and gracefully keeping the warmth in the heart.

16. With one raise of the hand, with one lift of the foot, a stroke of ink is filled with fragrance. The words are full of emotions, and the fragrance is filled with dust. It intoxicates the wind and also intoxicates the heart. Either brushing a scroll and reading, or setting foot in a distant place, or walking through the bustling crowd, savoring the worldly fireworks, there was once a ray of thought flowing through the fingertips, and there were also some thoughts passing through the heart. Graceful and fragrant, full of fragrance, mellow and rich emotions are the most beautiful destination of the soul. Watching the clear wind and light clouds, observing the quietness of the rolling clouds are all vivid feelings in the eyes.

17. If you send a text message to a person and he never replies, don’t send it again. There is no such humble waiting. If a person starts to neglect you, please leave him. He doesn’t know how to cherish you. Don't be reluctant to give up on those who love you; when you are unhappy, look at the blue sky during the day and the night at night. The vast sky has its own love for us; maintain your confidence and be the best version of yourself, and would rather be proud and moldy than low-key. Love

18. Every time it rains, I can't help but think of that big umbrella. Although that umbrella has long been replaced by other umbrellas at home, my mood and memories cannot be replaced. That tilted umbrella allowed me to walk forward in the rain without fear of difficulty. Those wet shoulders made me walk on the bumpy road without fear of hardship. That heavy love made me feel that I was as rich as the country at any time and had nothing else to ask for.

19. Whose waiting is falling in the world of mortals? I once waited under the thousand-year-old tree, just asking you to look back and smile. I once burned incense under the Bodhi, just to wait for the encounter in reincarnation. In the world of mortals, the flowers will eventually fade away, and I will recall whose tears have fallen in the years. The past is like smoke, and I don’t know who is missing whose lovesickness. It is like a dream memory, and I don’t know who is missing whose waiting. Saying goodbye to you, no matter how much it hurts!

20. Even if we only have a brief encounter and a brief tacit understanding, at that moment, it is eternity for us. We have passed by, but we have left traces; life is just a passing process. Those who dare not take risks are those who gain nothing. What is worse than failure is not trying. There are two types of failure: one is talking without practicing; the other is acting without thinking.

21. A Thousand Buddha Pagoda is erected in the shape of a Thousand Buddhas. Three birthstones record the events of three births. They have wings in the sky and branches on the ground. There are so many things in the immortal world that heaven and earth know. It is better to have sex with you. **at this time.

Twenty-two, time is clear and light, and years are peaceful and warm. I only wish that my heart is as pure as a lotus and my person is as pale as a chrysanthemum. Don't be sad with yourself, don't be happy with things. Sitting in the world of mortals, with fireworks in one hand and poetry in the other, hands clasped together, just be your happy self. Choose a poetic place to live in an ancient town in the south of the Yangtze River. In spring, you can see the lush greenery; in summer, you can enjoy the red flowers and green leaves; in autumn, you can be immersed in the fruity fragrance; in winter, you can enjoy the beauty of time with the plain snow and plum blossoms.

23. The past of the mortal world is entangled for thousands of years, and a song of separation is so long! Dressed in plain clothes, I was waiting in that illusory ancient city, letting the joys and sorrows of the past drift in the wind and rain. Gentle in this life, lingering in eternity! Staring infatuatedly, on both sides of the time, my smile while holding flowers turned out to be so lonely. The youth dancing with the sleeves also brought melancholy to the strings and wept songs!

24. We are going to wander, piously fixing every inch of memory; we are going to grow, and forget every trace of the road gracefully.

25. The more you talk incessantly, the more your stupidity will be exposed. The more you listen attentively, the happier your wisdom will grow. Listening is a good way to learn from others' strengths and make up for one's own shortcomings; listening is a bridge to communicate with both parties and respect each other; listening is a magic weapon to abandon mistakes and stay away from regrets. Silence can save a lot of troubles, and listening is the greatest wisdom.

Learn to listen, and you will find that the world is laughing with you.

26. People who know nothing love nothing, and people who are powerless don’t understand anything. People who don't know anything are worthless. But people who know a lot can love, have knowledge and vision. The deeper they understand something, the deeper their love. Anyone who thinks that all fruits ripen with strawberries knows nothing about grapes.

27. No matter how busy you are, please stop yourself and think carefully about who are the important people in your life and what are the important things in your life. Pay attention to and cherish them. When everything is possible.

28. No matter how difficult the road is or how the environment changes, love cannot change. Either say you don’t love or say you love. Your heart must be sincere, your will must be strong, be tolerant in understanding, and be tolerant in tolerance. Only by deepening and not being swayed by the world, not falling into the clouds, and not changing your original intention can you achieve a happy future.

29. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you. When you talk little, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will still criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized.

Thirty, a flashy life, forgotten for a season. There are empty memories, disrupting the lingering. The smile is gone, and I feel lonely. String, thinking about the Chinese years. Those years suddenly seemed like a dream. Just like running water, it will never return. Don’t cry goodbye, don’t complain about final sorrow.

Thirty-one, the prosperity is gone, and I miss the beauty with tears. In the depths of Xiaohan, life and death are like dreams and illusions. Heart Xuan Yue. Surrounded by dreams. I can't sleep alone this night. It's easy to leave but hard to see. My thoughts are tied to beauty. My dream is to say goodbye to you. If you are forced to have an affair due to loneliness, you might as well wait alone. Just keep extravagant hopes in your heart. It’s up to you to break your heart.

32. The road that is easy to take is always downhill. Hold on, because you are going uphill. If you go over it, you will definitely make progress. If you are complaining that fate does not favor you, enlighten yourself: fate is an excuse for losers; luck is a humble word for winners. Carrying the mark of youth, our generation slowly grows older as time goes by.

33. There is never an instruction manual on how to live. The beauty of how to live is an attitude and has nothing to do with age.

34. What determines our life is not our ability, but our choice. A person's life is a life of choice. Choose to move forward or back, choose to smile or cry, choose to persist or give up, choose to forgive or care, choose complex or simple, different choices, different results. Every minute, every second, we make choices. The infinite past takes the present as its destination, and the infinite future takes the present as its starting point.

Thirty-five. Beautiful words 1. The so-called eternal love is from the blooming to the falling of the flowers, from the beauty to the gray hair. 2. The result of being diligent but not paying attention to efficiency is: the stupid bird flies first and then disappears. 3. The heart is a bag. If you hold less things, it is called the heart. If you hold more things, it is called the heart. If you hold more things, it is called the mind. If you hold more things, it is called the scheming. 4. Laughter is the shortest distance between people. Live with a grateful heart, and you will feel the beauty of life

1. A person's life is neither as good nor as bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be sadness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own tears to wipe away and their own path to walk. As long as you remember, add a coat to yourself when you are cold; buy yourself a piece of bread when you are hungry; give yourself a strength when you are in pain; give yourself a goal when you fail, get up in pain when you fall, and give yourself a tolerant smile to continue. Move forward and be your truest self.

2. Don’t hold others to your own standards, and don’t look at others through colored glasses. Because everyone has their own preferences and personalities and values. Things that you don't like are not necessarily bad. There are thousands of understandings of happiness, and everyone's interpretation is different. The greatest happiness in life is being able to be yourself. Believe in yourself, follow your own heart and intuition, do not blindly follow creeds, and do not blindly compare, and you will be the happiest. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Because of imperfection, we are the most real.

3. Happiness is accumulated bit by bit and managed day by day. Don't hurt the people who like you, and don't let the people you like get hurt. No matter how good a person is, if he doesn't want to accompany you until you grow old, then he is just a passerby.

No matter how many shortcomings a person has, if he can tolerate you in everything and is willing to accompany you until the end, that is happiness. Everyone wants to find a perfect lover, but people always have flaws. Love means tolerating each other, being sincere to each other, and living a happy life. Having someone who makes you happy for the rest of your life is the goal of life.

4. When all possessions and persistence become a kind of harm, giving up is the best destination. Who can understand how much pain someone feels; who can understand how much pain someone feels. Tears are not on someone’s face, and no one knows how cold they are; wounds are not on someone’s body, and who doesn’t know its weight. Maybe you can see the tears in your eyes, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Maybe you can see the scars on your body, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Turn around and leave before crying, leaving behind a gorgeous The back view allows the mind to travel easily.

5. When you meet many people, you will know the value of friendship. If you encounter many problems, you will know how valuable understanding is. If you have failed many times, you will know the value of mentality. If you have more success, you will know the value of courage. If you have many conflicts, you will know the value of broadmindedness. If you don't like it too much, you will know the value of self-cultivation. It takes a lot of compliments to realize the value of sincerity. Only when you have more fame and fortune can you realize the value of calmness. Only when you socialize a lot can you realize the value of purity. Only after greeting you many times will you realize the value of perseverance!

6. When you are young, you don’t understand; when you are middle-aged, you are reluctant to part with it; some things are boring when you completely own them; some things are extremely precious when you lose them forever. Life is short, you can't stop what is coming, and you can't hold back what is going. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown, and watered, the amount of harvest is not the only criterion for success or failure. What is important is the time hidden in the details that makes you hurt, hates, loves, and is unforgettable for life. A heartbreaking and unforgettable experience.

7. Life is like a door. Some people are pessimistic about the darkness inside the door, while others are optimistic about the tranquility inside the door. Some people are sad about the wind and rain outside the door, while some are happy about the freedom outside the door. In fact, many things in life don’t matter the best, as long as you think it’s worth it, it’s the best. Success and failure, happiness and misfortune have different definitions in their hearts. The key is to grasp what you want, don't let it miss you, and don't let yourself have too many regrets. People live by their mentality and mood. If you maintain a good mentality, life will be a happy paradise.

8. No matter how deep the feelings are, no matter how strong the kindness is, friends will eventually fade away even though we are far apart. Things in the world are like this. If you don't take care of many familiar people, they will gradually fade away. If you don't reflect on many familiar things, they will gradually be forgotten. It doesn't mean that each other's hearts have changed, nor does it mean that they no longer regard each other as friends. It's just that we are far away from each other, and we can't fully enjoy the joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. The wind of time can not only dilute the love in our hearts, but also cool the righteousness in our hearts. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. No matter how familiar the road is, if you don’t When you walk, you will also be unfamiliar, this is life.

9. It often takes years or decades to make a friend; but it may only take a few minutes or one thing to offend a friend. The glitz of the world, the complexity of people's hearts and their sensitivity to trivial matters have all hindered the development of friendship. Maybe it's just because they are friends, and they have less worries and respect for each other. This is the case. Sometimes friends get too close and the relationship becomes complicated, and if they stay too far away, they lose contact. Don't force friendship deliberately, cherish and care for a friendship with your heart. Even if it doesn't last forever, at least it once had...

10. What makes women never forget is feelings, and what makes men never forget is feelings. Feelings slowly settle over time, and feelings gradually disappear over time. Maybe you can get love, get marriage, and get a superior life; but if you can't get a sense of security, what's the use of it all? It is better to live in stable poverty than to live in fear of abundance. Happiness is not about trying to love, but about living a peaceful life.

11. "Understand" is the most affectionate and profound word in the emotional world. To understand is to use my eyes to soothe your sorrow; to understand is to compare my heart with yours; to understand is to listen to the voice of your soul speechlessly; to understand is to always have your figure in my eyes, to understand, Just love with all my heart. A sentence of "I understand you" can melt an iceberg, can make the vines of love climb out of desperate situations, and can make a withered heart bloom with flowers of the years. Because only by "understanding" can you be calm and relaxed. If you understand, please cherish it.

12. If the bow of life is drawn too full, people will get tired; if it is not drawn enough, people will fall behind. Those who regard life as a journey will always encounter scenery, which is indifferent and distant; while those who regard life as a battlefield will always encounter fierce and fierce battles. Life is like this, you will encounter whatever you choose. There is no right or wrong, only whether you accept it or not. Learn to let go of things that make you unhappy, and learn to let go of people who make you humble. As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting point.

13. People have four sufferings: First, they cannot see clearly. I cannot see through the entanglements in interpersonal relationships, the hidden wounds after fights, the dullness in the hustle and bustle, and the tranquility after prosperity. The second is reluctance. I can't bear to let go of the wonderful and unsuccessful years, the vanity of being in a high position, and the applause of success. The third is that you can’t afford to lose. You can't afford to lose a relationship, or you can't afford to lose a part of your life. The fourth is that you can’t let go. I can’t let go of the people and things that have gone far, and I can’t let go of the right and wrong that have long been dusty.

14. You don’t have to search all the people to know them, otherwise you will have more complaints. There is no need to say everything to know someone, otherwise you will have no friends. There is no need to be harsh on those who are responsible; if they are harsh enough, they will be far away from others. There is no need to be humble enough to respect others, as being humble enough will lead to a loss of bones. People don't have to retreat, because retreating will make the road difficult. When you feel someone's deceit, you don't get angry with words; when you are insulted by others, you don't show any emotion; when you notice someone's faults, you don't praise them; when you give benefits to others, you don't remember them in your heart; when you receive kindness from others, you remember them in your heart; When things are difficult, one should be strong but not breathless; when one is in a difficult situation, one should be aware but silent.

15. Life is a collection of joys and sorrows, and there is joy among the sorrows. Life is a collection of sorrows and joys, and there is joy among the sorrows. In ordinary days, we all have our own worries, and in ordinary life, we all have our own trajectories. Regardless of joy or sorrow, we are all planning our own future and exploring our own future. On the road of life, not every sun is warm and not every cloud is raining. We cannot control the direction of our destiny. We can only walk through each day steadily and calmly.

16. Don’t live in your own world and be blindly arrogant; don’t live in other people’s world and lose yourself. The sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of your frustration; the moon will not stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Even if you cover your own eyes, it does not mean that the world is dark; even if you cover other people's eyes, it does not mean that the light belongs to you. Don't take yourself so seriously that you ignore external achievements; don't take yourself so lightly that you become a stepping stone for others. Live in the moment, live out of yourself, live with your heart, and keep yourself.

17. Don’t cry poor, because no one will give you money. Don't complain because no one will do it for you. Don't give in because no one wants you to win. Don't rely on others, because only yourself is the most reliable. Don't cry because everyone is waiting to see the joke. Don't beg, because some people want you to be a beggar. Don't be depressed, because there are a lot of people waiting to add insult to injury. Don't look back, because there are too many things to look back on. Don't worry about separation, because you only know how to put your eyebrows on your face but your heart is concerned. Don't bow your head, because there is no gold on the ground, only stones. Don't force it, because the melon won't be sweet if it's forced.

18. Life is a journey. From the day you put on your first pair of shoes, you are destined to have a rough and extraordinary life. There are too many uncertainties in the road we want to take. A warning from others, a fleeting thought of our own, and occasional gains and losses will all change the direction of our destiny. Things in the world are unpredictable, so there is no need to be too stubborn when things happen, and why bother getting hung up on a certain person, a certain time, or a certain thing. Instead of showing people a downcast face, it is better to change it to a fresh and clear image, which will make people more trustworthy and give them more opportunities to grow. Changing your mentality can change your way of life.

19. After going through a certain period of life, the rhythm of life smoothes the sharp edges, the dancing passion gradually subsides, and the sad eyes begin to understand life. Life is like a wandering. Only when you are wandering can you understand the beauty of stability; only after experiencing it can you understand the original beauty. Sometimes I want to stay away, but after walking for a while, I find that I am back to the starting point. Sometimes I want to look back, but when I turn around, I find that there is no way to go behind me.

20. Speaking when you should speak is a kind of skill, being dumb when you should be dumb is a kind of wisdom. Working when you should do it is a kind of ability, and retreating when you should do it is a kind of practice. When it is time to show, it is a kind of wisdom; when it is time to hide, it is a kind of city. Roaring when you need to roar is a sign of authority, and sliding when you need to slide is a strategy. Flexibility and extension are a kind of maturity, eating and sleeping peacefully is a kind of temperament. As the saying goes: "You must have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others." This illustrates a simple truth: to be a human being, you must have a little scheming. "Scheming" is not a trick or sophistication, but a kind of wisdom and strategy in life.

With it, you will be able to make every move, be at ease, and remain invincible forever.

21. In front of some people, the more you want to get closer and the more you show care, it will ignite his arrogance and indifference, and the more worthless you will appear; in front of some things, the more you want to solve it, the more you show that you care. The more urgent it is, the more counterproductive it is, and the result is that the more urgent it is, the worse it will be. When dealing with others, you should be calm and honest. You don’t have to lose your integrity to please others, and you don’t have to lose the joy of being a person to gain fame and fortune. Don’t give up easily what belongs to you. Don’t blindly pursue those who are not destined for you. Look up to them. You are worthy of God, and you are not ashamed of others.

22. The same thing will have different results when viewed from different angles. The same thing, done with different attitudes, will have different results. Sometimes, the difference is not the thing itself, but the person's mentality and method of doing things. If you hate someone, the advantages will be seen as disguise. If you like someone, the disadvantages will become beautiful. No one is perfect. When we ask others, we should also think about our own shortcomings. There is no need to rush to express yourself, and there is no need to rush to correct others. Listen again, look again, and think about it again.

23. Many misfortunes in the world happen in the process of eager to prove oneself to others. There is nothing wrong with "proving yourself" in itself. What is wrong is that many people are just struggling to "prove themselves to others." Life is your own, you don't have to use other people's standards to define your life. If you try to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will only lose yourself in the end. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's evaluations, listen carefully to your inner voice, and just be yourself.

24. Many times, we always hope for the good of others. You will be grateful at first, but over time it becomes a habit. Once you are used to someone being nice to you, you take it for granted. One day someone is not nice to you, and you will feel resentful. In fact, it is not that the other person is not nice, but that our original requirements have changed. We are always used to getting, but we forget to be grateful. Only by living with a grateful heart can you feel the beauty of life. Never believe sweet words, feel it with your heart

Love means giving sincerely and treating each other sincerely. Don't talk about love easily, the debt you owe is the promise you made. The pain of life lies in choosing; the difficulty of life lies in giving up.

To love someone, you don’t have to own them; but once you own someone, you must love them well. Love is not a one-man show, but a show between two people! Women are fickle with their faces, but men are fickle with their hearts.

True love is a kind of care and care expressed from the heart, without gorgeous words, without gorgeous words. You can feel it in his words and deeds. So plain and determined. On the contrary, swear and promise to clarify its uncertainty. Never believe sweet words, feel it with your heart!

I used to be so madly in love with you, but I would only bury this feeling in my pen and put it on paper; I used to think of you so madly, look forward to meeting you again, and yearn for you for a long time. We have never met, what will it be like to see you again; I once looked at you from afar, until you were far away, and my vision became empty again; I once thought of you so quietly, and the fluorescence of the mobile phone was full of your past words. I really, really, loved you so deeply!