First, cultivate your hobbies.
It is also important to cultivate your hobbies. The so-called hobby is to do something you like on the one hand. Having some hobbies in life is also very helpful to improve your love for life, at least to make you feel that there are some things you like to do in life. When people are young, they always have many hobbies, such as singing, drawing and dancing. But when they grow up, many people have few hobbies.
Since childhood, many hobbies are worth cultivating, such as playing guitar, cycling, street dancing, roller skating and so on. Try something you haven't done before. If you like it, it will gradually become a hobby. If you have many hobbies in your life, you will definitely love life more. A friend around me is that I didn't love life before and played games in the dormitory all day. However, after he came into contact with cycling once, he gradually fell in love with it, bought mountain bikes and cycling equipment, and then rode 30km every night, which made him more active in life. I think this is the power of hobbies.
Second, I feel that life has to go on, so it is better to live well.
I remember that year when I took the college entrance examination, because the topic was too simple and careless, I didn't get good grades. I cried all night after I knew the result. I think life is really cruel. The previous 12 years' efforts were all in vain. My parents must be very disappointed. I am disappointed in life, too. Crying all night, I saw the birth sun the next morning and told myself that life had to go on, so I might as well make myself feel better. Later, when I met my parents, I apologized and told them my grades. My parents didn't blame me either, saying that I had to rely on myself anyway.
In my later life, when I encounter difficulties and have no hope for life, I will say this to myself. I will change my pessimistic thoughts at that time and cheer up a lot.
Third, do some volunteer activities.
In my college days, I joined a youth volunteer association. The association often organizes us to participate in some volunteer activities. For example, during the Dragon Boat Festival, we were organized to go to nursing homes to pack jiaozi for the elderly, chat with them and help them clean up. I will also sign a contract with the hospital to donate blood for free. I have been there once, although I was disappointed with the hospital before, and I felt bored and dark. But after donating blood, at least I think my blood can help others a little. Take part in more volunteer activities, and you will find that you have become more enthusiastic about life.