First, guide the wife's emotions. Debby gets along with her mother-in-law and father-in-law, and naturally has some emotions when she is just a mother. However, Debby has always controlled his emotions and only released them when he met GAI. Personally, I think Debby is still a reasonable girl, and GAI has really paid a lot to coordinate the relationship between Debby and her parents and constantly adjust Debby's mood.
In fact, emotions are very important for newborn mothers, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also an indelible topic around China people. GAI can naturally avoid problems by controlling Debby's emotions. I think GAI did the right thing. In the end, his practice was hotly debated by netizens.
Second, communicate with parents in advance. In the program, GAI actively communicates with her parents, hoping that their parents can tolerate Debby. After all, everyone is a family, and GAI's tone is not particularly tough. This is a normal state of communication with parents, so I very much agree with GAI's approach. Debby's first wife really has a lot to tolerate, and GAI can keep communicating with her parents, hoping they can get to know each other.
In real life, husbands like GAI are actually very scarce. Most husbands are embarrassed when they are between their mother and wife. For them, neither mother nor wife can offend them. Many times it was very difficult, but GAI did it and handled it well. Palm and back of hand are all flesh, so it is impossible to take sides. I think many newlyweds need to learn from him. GAI's peaceful settlement must show that he is very emotional and others may not be able to do it.