A person's self-cultivation is hard to hide. He can convey it through the whole person's mental outlook, which may reflect its connotation and self-cultivation between gestures. Zhu Yilong is very measured when he takes people and treats things, and uses his hands when handing things to people. This is a proof of self-cultivation. In real life, we should also be a cultured person like him.

A person's self-cultivation is mostly reflected in two aspects: propriety and respect. Let's talk about propriety first. For example, when taking care of others' feelings to restrain one's behavior in public, one can't go his own way and obey the order. This is the most basic self-cultivation. When someone older than oneself stands up and gives up his seat, ask the other person when someone is next to him. Can I smoke? This is a manifestation of self-cultivation.

A cultivated person knows how to respect others better. A cultivated person will not look down on a person because of his position or whether he has money. Maybe he is just a beggar, but he still treats him with due respect. In his eyes, everyone is equal, which is the most cultivated character.

I have heard a saying that others respect me not because of my noble status, but because the other person has self-cultivation.