2. A truly intelligent person is confused in minor matters but wise in major matters, and keeps a low profile and keeps an open mind. Be a man like water, be soft and tough. Only those who strive for success can have the last laugh and become real winners. Low-key people are more likely to get things done, no matter how capable they are, they must not show their abilities. Only by learning to keep a low profile, knowing how to hide others, being wise as a fool, and keeping a low profile can you win life.
3. You mistakenly think that things are constant, so you suffer. A flower withers, you won't be too sad, because you know that flowers bloom easily and fade, which is impermanent. But you can't accept the death of your loved one, so you are very sad. Impermanence is a good thing, every door is open for change, and we don't complain. If you see through the essence of impermanence, you will try your best to make yourself happy every day, and you will know how to cherish it and become positive and wise.
4. Learn to be lonely in the crowd, and don't tell others immediately if you have any ideas. In addition, never take what others say too seriously. Don't expect too much from others, whether morally or ideologically. We should cultivate an indifferent and indifferent attitude towards other people's views, because this is the most practical means to cultivate commendable tolerance.
5. The people who are most likely to succeed are generally not talented people, but people who can give people a good impression with a kind attitude. A person can't change his image, but he can change his temperament; A person can't reach the ideal height, but he can improve his level. In interpersonal communication, kindness and enthusiasm are more likely to give people a good impression. A heartfelt smile is more cordial than politeness and will give people sunshine-like warmth.
6. When talking to people, learn to be calm. Even if you are angry, don't shout, because your loud voice can't make things better except disturbing your mind. Hysterical yelling can't conquer others, but it will only make you lose your mind in madness.
7. Everyone has his own way of living, and there is no need to copy other people's lives. Some people have superficial scenery, but secretly they don't know how many tears they shed; Some people seem to be living in distress, but in fact they live a chic and happy life. There is no standard answer to happiness, and there is more than one way to happiness; Take back the envy of others and look back at your heart. The day you like is the best day; The living method you like is the best living method.
8. People can really live, but don't be too serious. When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people look at it, there is no disciple. The greatest sorrow of perfectionists is that they live unreal. In the real world, there are joys and sorrows, and there are joys and sorrows. The greatest pleasure of living is to find happiness from pain. Pursuing everything is a positive thought, but it is not the best way to live. You are easygoing, and life is easygoing.
9. Life is doomed to suffer many grievances. And the more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to make your life valuable and colorful, you can't care too much about grievances, and you can't let them grip your heart and disturb your life. Learn to laugh it off, learn to be detached, and learn to transform potential energy. A wise man knows how to forbear, forgive those around him and strengthen himself through tolerance.
1. We were eager for the waves of fate, and finally we found that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner calmness and calmness; We had expected the recognition of the outside world, and finally we realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others. We used to care about the return we paid, but in the end we realized that everything we got would eventually be lost, and we could only leave a floating name. To be true to yourself is to resolutely take the road you choose instead of the one less of a haul.