In fact, after getting to know these people, you will find that these people with negative energy and garbage emotions are poor.
Some people are full of negative energy for the following reasons:
1, childhood shadow
Some people's childhood experiences are extremely unpleasant, leaving a strong psychological shadow. When she grows up, these shadows will continue to have a negative impact on her interpersonal communication and emotional control.
Look at Andy in Ode to Joy. When I was a child, my mother wore a red flower on her head, which greatly stimulated Andy, causing her to reject the intimate actions of others and lose control like a madman at the critical moment.
In fact, the TV series has beautified Andy and shaped her into a genius with high IQ. Only by touching her pain point will she have a negative energy attack.
If Andy is a living person in real life, under the torture of such a childhood shadow, his psychology is likely to be fragile and inferior, timid in interpersonal communication, extremely sensitive to life, and become a person full of negative energy.
2. Psychological trauma
Some people suffer from psychological trauma because of accidents and fail to intervene in time, which leads to post-traumatic stress disorder and negative energy in personality psychology.
For example, a girl was raped by a thief in the school dormitory when she was in junior high school. Although the rape was attempted, the girls suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder.
She can't sleep well, she can't hear all kinds of noises when she falls asleep, and once she hears them, she will be hysterical; I can't have normal contact with men and have prejudice against all men in the world. Once I have to get close to them, I will be as aggressive as a hedgehog.
3. Parents are at odds.
This is probably the most influential factor among all negative energy people.
Do you still remember the incident on 20 15 when a young mother who had just given birth went to eat hot pot and was severely burned by the waiter's hot soup? The waiter's parents divorced when they were young. Born in a single-parent family, he is introverted and extreme, and tends to go to extremes. He thinks right is right, and he thinks wrong is wrong.