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Zheng Jun: I loved and hated Sun Feng in 18. I had 1 daughter, but why did I turn around and marry Liu Yun, who was 15 years younger than me?
How can I fall in love with you? I am asking myself. This is the lyrics of Zheng Jun's classic song Cinderella. It is also a love letter that Zheng Jun wrote to his college classmate Sun Feng 33 years ago. Deeply moved, Sun Feng agreed to Zheng Jun's pursuit, and they "drifted north" together and pursued their dreams together; I fell in love 14 years, got married for 4 years, and had 1 daughter, but this relationship finally failed to rival time-Cinderella did not become a princess!

After that, Zheng Jun turned and married Liu Yun, a Hunan girl who was 15 years old.

During the period of 1987, rock pioneers such as Cui Jian, He Yong, Dou Wei, Tang Dynasty and Black Panther poured into Beijing one after another, and the whole country was filled with the breath of spiritual liberation, artistic exploration and enlightenment.

In Hangzhou Institute of Electronic Technology, a young man majoring in industrial foreign trade is obsessed with European and American rock music: Beatles, Rolling Stones, The Doors, Led Zepplin, bob marley and Bruce Springsteen. ...................................................................................................................

Over time, the young man played the guitar by himself and longed to be a great musician like Bob Dylan.

A person had a bad time, and he brought some classmates to form a band called gunpowder.

1989, Cui Jian's first rock album was released, which opened the door to Chinese rock music. At the same time, Tayu Lo and other early songs with rebellious flavor also "surfaced".

At that time, boys generally had no resistance to this kind of music, and girls worshipped the singers who played rock.

A guitar, long hair, a bright chain and a pair of ripped jeans were the standard of many girl idols at that time.

At that time, the young man and his band were all over the university campus in Hangzhou.

In a performance at Hangzhou Normal University, a female classmate shyly asked the boy for his autograph.

"Hey, you sing Tayu Lo's songs so beautifully!"

"Hey, you look good when you smile!"

"My name is Sun Feng!"

"My name is Zheng Jun!"

From 65438 to 0976, Zheng Jun was born in an intellectual family in Xi. My father is an engineer and my mother is a university professor. His family situation is somewhat similar to that of another Xi rocker, Xu Wei.

At the age of seven, Zheng Jun's father died of illness, which was a great blow to Zheng Jun. After many years, he has been rethinking whether he can be a good father, which is probably related to the lack of fatherly love in his childhood.

Zheng Jun also has a brother. After the father died, the mother dragged her two children with difficulty.

At that time, Zheng Jun's mother hoped that Zheng Jun would be admitted to a better university, become an engineer like his father, or become a university professor herself.

At first, Zheng Jun obeyed her mother's expectation, studied hard and was admitted to a better university.

But unfortunately, Zheng Jun failed to enter his favorite university twice, and was admitted to Hangzhou Institute of Electronic Technology for the third time.

During my study, I used Zheng Jun's later words: "I have no idea what industry trade I studied and what I can do in the future!"

In fact, not only in Zheng Jun at that time, many young people were confused about the future.

But there was a light in the chaos and suddenly it came out!

1992, when Zheng Jun, a senior, was preparing to study abroad, he met Guo, the manager of Red Star Production Society.

After listening to Zheng Jun's songs, the other party praised him greatly, suggested that he join the Red Star Production Society, and told him that rock and roll has a future!

Guo's words are like a light, which makes Zheng Jun see hope. Originally, "I can give up everything, but I can't leave today", Zheng Jun started her original song creation.

During this period, Xu Wei also came to Beijing, but after he released an album "I only have two days", the sales volume was flat and the response was very small. Later, after Tian Zhen sang it, he returned to Xi 'an disheartened.

Zheng Jun, who stayed behind, became the object of support, but he had to wait for two years.

1994 65438+February 17, Zhang Chu, Dou Wei, He Yong and the Tang Dynasty Band held a concert called "New Rock Forces" in Hung Hom Gymnasium. At the same time, this year's "Black Panther band" opened China's "Puncture Action" concert, and this group of rock veterans played the strongest sound of Chinese rock.

This is the best year for Chinese rock music. This year, Zheng Jun finally came out. His first solo album Naked, including classic tracks such as Back to Lhasa, Cinderella and Elysium, was inserted in the Chinese music scene like a banner.

After listening to Zheng Jun's songs, Cang Tianshuo bluntly said: "Except for Zheng Jun, this group of people newly created by Red Star should be exiled to the desert!"

When Zheng Jun went to Beijing, he was struggling.

On the one hand, I don't know where the future lies. On the other hand, I have to leave my girlfriend Sun Feng.

However, this stubborn girl tore up the contract when she got the job opportunity and resolutely started a "drifting north" with Zheng Jun.

Like most couples who drifted north at that time, they worked hard while doing odd jobs and continued their musical dreams.

1998 One day, Sun Feng cooked a good dish, and they chatted over coffee.

After a full meal, Sun Feng said to Zheng Jun excitedly and mysteriously, "I'll tell you a good news!"

Zheng Jun was puzzled and had to wait for Sun Feng to answer himself.

"You're going to be a father!"

Zheng Jun was shocked and waved his hand again and again: "No! You can't have it! I'm not ready. "

Disappointed, Sun Feng went to the United States alone in a rage.

Although Sun Feng walked away angrily, she was still waiting for Zheng Jun to take her back.

In 2003, Zheng Jun arranged Sun Feng's wedding when her daughter Zheng Chuyi was 4 years old, and they became a formal couple.

Unfortunately, however, this love-hate relationship that has been entangled for 18 years still failed to come to the end.

In 2007, Zheng Jun and Sun Feng divorced.

After the divorce, Zheng Jun completely "let go of himself": "Every afternoon at two or three o'clock, friends are waiting at the door. In the evening, they are always in the bar. I was drunk in the morning and hung my head, and I recited it every day. "

Gao has a wonderful description in his book Regret for the Past: "At that time, Zheng Jun and I were drinking day and night. Once in a bar, the three of us got drunk. Zheng Jun pointed his tongue at the girls in the private room and said, I am better off here with them! The old wolf suddenly woke up with a complicated face. "

Zheng Jun, who is obsessed with parties, has a sober side at this time.

He said more than once: "I am a bad boy, I am an asshole, and I don't deserve her!" " "

But the water under the bridge, the past has passed, and the lost can never come back.

After the divorce, Zheng Jun was negative and decadent, which attracted the attention of friends in the circle.

In 20 10, Mr. and Mrs. Pu Shu invited Zheng Jun and Liu Yun, a 5-year-old Hunan girl, to his house for dinner.

Sometimes love is so strange, but people will look at you more.

Zheng Jun and Liu Yun took one look at each other and fell in love.

At this time, Zheng Jun changed the image of a prodigal son, gave up smoking and drinking, and rarely attended friends' dinners.

For Liu Yun, he affectionately called her "Sister Yun" and sprinkled dog food: "She is happy is the most important thing!"

When they were dating, Liu Yun was questioned as a mistress, and Zheng Jun wrote a blog post "Liu Yun is not a mistress, but an angel" directly on the social platform, which angered netizens.

It turns out that Zheng Jun's Cinderella is not Sun Feng, but Liu Yun!

20 10 on may 25th, Zheng Jun and Liu Yun got married; On August 5th, 20 13, Zheng Jun arranged Liu Yun's wedding in Maldives.

On June 6th, Zheng Jun updated her social dynamics. Words are no longer sharp and rebellious.

Combined with his own life experience and emotional experience, this arrogant rock prodigal son finally put away his edge in front of his wife and children.

Someone commented on Zheng Jun: his ex-wife taught him to grow up and take responsibility, and Liu Yun gave him love and happiness.

This sentence seems unreasonable, but it seems very reasonable.

But how can we see clearly the love and marriage of others?

Now, after Zheng Jun in Qian Fan, to be honest, he doesn't want to go back to his boyhood.

As a man, taking responsibility and returning love with love is the most "rock" thing.

Although-

There is music in the world, and then there is rock; Rock is common, but singers are not.