So should her mother-in-law take care of her during confinement?
They say this:
@ Xiaohua: In short, it is not easy for pregnant women to conceive in October, and it is not good to refuse to take care of that month. I will treat you as you treat me. My mother-in-law was also a daughter-in-law. Although the law stipulates that in-laws should take care of confinement, they should also take care of cleaning up. When you are old, you also need our children to take care of you. Of course, if you have money, you can also ask for a new moon.
@yuyao55520: If the conditions are tight, please have a new moon! There will be much less trouble! Because I didn't invite anyone for the Spring Festival. The so-called mother-in-law has come, and now my whole body is really miserable!
@ Flower: I am my stepmother. My husband and mother serve me. My stepmother will serve me. I don't need it, because I think my own mother will serve me better. I can say anything without getting angry.
Ma Bao @92: The whole family is mutual. No problem. My mother-in-law has always been very kind to me. My mother and mother-in-law took care of me when I was a child. If the daughter-in-law doesn't want to take care of the children, she can only say that her mother-in-law can't be a person, and thinking about being with others is two different things. After all, a woman in confinement is very weak and has many taboos, so she must have personal care. This does not need to be asked, and a good mother-in-law will naturally take care of it.
@ Yang Yang: I advise all the sisters who are about to have a confinement. Don't let your mother-in-law wait on your confinement. Even if you spend more money, please take a new moon or a nanny, at least you don't have to suffer. Just pay, or you and your child will suffer when you return the milk.
So, what should we do?
0 1? Raising children is a matter for both husband and wife. A baby is the product of two people and has little to do with the elderly. In terms of care, your husband is the one who should take care of you the most. If the economic conditions are met, of course, please take a new moon. There's nothing to say. My mother-in-law and mother-in-law will come and have a look when they are free, and it's a happy kiss.
02? It is naturally good to let your mother-in-law come and her mother-in-law is willing to take care of you. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mainly that your husband plays a role in the middle. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, it is inevitable that they disagree. In this case, the smart woman's approach is to talk to her husband and let him coordinate, instead of dragging her weak body and arguing with her mother-in-law during confinement.
03? If you really can't, let your mother come. Why? The difference between mother-in-law and mother taking care of for two months. Mother-in-law comes to see the children, and mother comes to see herself. Weigh what is right and wrong for yourself.