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It was such a pleasure to watch the drama "Please Advice for the Rest of My Life". I was smiling with my eyes squinted the whole time. Yang Zi and Xiao Zhan completely fit my heart. The expectations for Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei, in addition to the looks of the male and female protagonists, the storyline is also quite exciting.

It was under the guidance of her best friend Sansan that Lin Zhixiao, the "straight girl of steel", discovered that Gu Wei's feelings for her were unusual. Gu Wei's feelings for Lin Zhixiao had already dawned on her. It was determined before.

It is also clearly explained in the original work that Gu Wei was sure that he fell in love with Lin Zhixiao after the medical incident.

Doctor's handwriting: Girls, don't rush up so stupidly in the future. But that night, I did figure something out.

The encounter between Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei in the play is actually a bit bloody. When a man and a woman who start to dislike each other meet, the emotional line begins.

Gu Wei is a young and promising doctor who was taken to a bar by his cousin Gu Xiao; Lin Zhixiao, a junior music student, was taken to the same bar by her best friend, and her retired The dean's father is a typical "old antique". In order to avoid his father's search, Lin Zhixiao "covered his ears and stole the bell" from Gu Wei, who was alone.

When Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao met for the first time, both of them left the impression of being "not serious".

As the saying goes, there is a narrow road between enemies. When Lin Zhixiao followed his mother to the hospital to see his father's case, he happened to be bumped into by Gu Wei.

In line with his people-oriented professional philosophy, Gu Wei asked Lin Jianguo to do another examination. However, Lin Zhixiao had a bad impression of Gu Wei and went to the hospital to inquire about it and overheard something about Gu Wei. Naturally, he didn't believe Gu Wei even more because of the gossip that the dean's daughter had come to power.

Later, under the introduction of his best friend, Lin Zhixiao met the expert doctor his best friend said was Gu Wei. Gu Wei followed his younger brother Gu Xiao and heard Lin Zhixiao's prejudice against him, but he remained silent.

The reason why Gu Wei tolerated Lin Zhixiao at this time was not because he had any special feelings, but because he was a calm person and must first listen to other people's opinions before prescribing the right medicine to eliminate misunderstandings. .

Our opinion of a person often depends on what he says and does.

After Lin Zhixiao rationally listened to Gu Wei’s explanation of her father’s condition, her attitude had changed slightly. She also learned that Gu Wei donated money to the patient Qiuqiu, and Xiao Due to Dr. Du's evaluation of Gu Wei, Lin Zhixiao finally agreed to the examination proposed by Gu Wei.

If it weren't for Gu Wei's persistence, they wouldn't have known that Lin Jianguo had gastric cancer, which would have only delayed his illness. It can be said that Gu Wei was their benefactor. Lin Zhixiao's mother and daughter also completely believed in Gu Wei, his medical skills and character, and wanted Gu Wei to perform the surgery himself, because compared to Dr. Yan's total gastrectomy plan, Gu Wei's distal gastrectomy was , can make Lin Jianguo's life better after surgery.

The most important thing for a patient is his/her psychological quality. Although Lin Zhixiao and his mother tried to hide it, Lin Jianguo still knew the fact that he had gastric cancer and chose to escape. At this time, Gu Wei was eating at home. After receiving a call from Lin Zhixiao, he immediately returned to the hospital and drove Lin Zhixiao to the train station to pick up his father.

Gu Wei's behavior at this critical moment has gone far beyond the scope of a doctor's duties. His treatment of Lin Zhixiao is different from that of all patients and their families. What he did, It proves that he is a reliable and responsible person.

Lin Zhixiao had a stomachache during the trip, so he took the initiative to go to the convenience store to buy girls’ supplies, which was so considerate; after Lin Zhixiao found his father, he cried bitterly outside, and Gu Wei, who was not good at comforting others, could only talk about some medical science He used his knowledge to stop Lin Zhixiao from crying. The next hug made his heart melt. He felt so safe!

On the day of the operation, Gu Wei knew that Lin Zhixiao and his daughter were worried, so he came out immediately after the operation to report that they were safe. He did this on purpose because he cared about Lin Zhixiao, and such medical skills , how can you not trust people? Lin Zhixiao's parents are also very grateful to Gu Wei.

As a surgeon, hand tremors are really a fatal blow, which is why Gu Wei refused to operate on Lin Jianguo at first.

Gu Wei once performed an operation on his teacher, but the teacher passed away shortly after the operation. Gu Wei suffered severe psychological trauma. As soon as he picked up the scalpel, he remembered the death of his teacher. He couldn't stop shaking when he saw the picture, so he kept applying to transfer to another department.

In order to keep Gu Wei, Gao Xi suggested that Lin Zhixiao, as a family member of the patient, directly communicate with Gu Wei about the surgery. Lin Zhixiao didn't know Gu Wei's secret, so he first bought gifts and then gave him money, and then blocked him at the bathroom door, but was rejected. Gu Wei was chased so hard that he finally revealed the real reason why he didn't want to have surgery.

I like Gu Wei’s directness. If everyone was like him, there would be no misunderstandings in the world.

The biggest difference between Lin Zhixiao and Gao Xi lies in the way of comfort. She will not directly poke at the other person's pain points, nor will she blindly preach, but will find another way. When Gu Wei said that he would no longer perform surgeries on people because of the teacher's incident, Lin Zhixiao was shocked...

"So it's not that you don't like the gift I gave you. "Don't you want me to bring it back for you? That anti-hair loss product is really useful, really."

When everyone simply questioned or comforted Gu Wei about the teacher, he He will only become more and more guilty and distrust himself less and less, so the best way is to divert his attention, because it is not that he is unwilling to undergo another operation due to lack of medical skills, but that he has never been able to overcome the psychological barrier. He is too responsible.

Not everything that is broken cannot be repaired. Of course, Gu Wei can pick up the scalpel again and break through psychological barriers, but he needs to open his heart, and Lin Zhixiao is the one who can open his heart. The key to the door.

"If you trust me, you can talk to me. Of course, if you don't want to talk, I won't force you."

Originally, Lin Zhixiao was a student due to academic reasons. Lin Zhixiao's optimism and cheerfulness infected Gu Wei. There was nothing he couldn't handle. Gu Wei told her about the incident that happened a month ago.

In fact, when Gu Wei can calmly talk about the psychological harm he suffered in the past, it means that he has been able to let go.

"Then there should be many people comforting you. This is not your fault, right? Why do you still have mental disorders? Is it because you are not sure about these three words? Because you are not sure, just There is no way to judge whether there is really a problem with your surgical plan, which is why you have a mental disorder.

I guessed it right, that’s it. I saw you in the ward that day, rescuing people. , I knew that you must be the kind of talented player who has everything under control.

People like you feel that you can change the whole world with your own strength, so when When problems arise, your sense of responsibility will be greater, and your feeling of powerlessness will be stronger than ours.

In fact, after you cross that hurdle, looking back, it really doesn’t matter. It’s a big deal.”

Now that Gu Weidu has fully told the truth, we need to help him find out the root cause of his psychological trauma, instead of just staying on the surface of the problem of the teacher’s death, comfort and encourage.

Gu Wei must have heard a lot of the same words, but Lin Zhixiao’s words really touched Gu Wei’s heart! After helping him find a breakthrough point, Lin Zhixiao did not directly "praise" Gu Wei, but classified him as "another type of person", the opposite of himself who was a scumbag.

Yes, people like Lin Zhixiao who are often hit can still move forward bravely after encountering setbacks, so how can Gu Wei not face difficulties?

Lin Zhixiao opened Gu Wei's heart, and Gu Wei also gave her the greatest encouragement when Lin Zhixiao was frustrated.

Lin Zhixiao wanted to be a cellist in the school orchestra, but the teacher was not satisfied with her performance, which affected Lin Zhixiao's self-confidence. After Gu Wei found out, he took her to join the group of people who came to the hospital to perform condolences. Non-profit organizations use this as a stage for performances. With Gu Wei's encouragement, Lin Zhixiao also regained his confidence, expressed his determination to the teacher again, and finally successfully ran for the election.

But on the day of the performance, Lin Zhixiao’s hands shook due to excessive practice, and she was unable to take the leading role. She was already in a bad mood, and her classmates laughed at her because no one wanted to listen to her performance. Gu Wei stepped forward and said: “I do” helped her find her feet.

Gu Wei gave up the seminar to support Lin Zhixiao, which is already a support for Lin Zhixiao. He also called her a unique and important presence in the orchestra. This feeling of two-way encouragement and mutual healing is really good.

The love between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao is of a long-lasting type. As time goes by, people's hearts are gradually warmed up.

The two of them had already been in contact slowly and fell in love with each other, otherwise they would not have had countless interactions after Lin Jianguo finished his treatment.

When the medical incident occurred, Lin Zhixiao was still accompanying his father. The patient's family came to the hospital to settle the score with Gu Wei, and loudly questioned and criticized him, causing a huge commotion. In the original work, Lin Zhixiao was scratched on her chin when she stepped forward to help stop him. Gu Wei gave her a band-aid.

Later, Gu Wei wrote a paragraph under Lin Zhixiao's diary for that day, confirming the origin of his love for Lin Zhixiao.

In the play, Lin Zhixiao was injured on the head, which added a lot of highlights and deepened the relationship between the two. When Gu Wei gave her stitches, Lin Zhixiao was attracted by Gu Wei's eyes. , I don’t know that my heart is already moved.

Dr. Gu Wei has the most beautiful eyes in the world! He just looked at me with a smile, his eyes were soft, clear and deep, the waves were flowing and radiant. I let myself fall into that warm gaze, as if I was wandering in the sea with no end in sight!

The two of them have been through so much, and it is really worrying that they are not together yet. Sansan has been enlightening Lin Zhixiao, and Lin Zhixiao recalls what Gu Wei did to him, and finally realizes Lang Youqing.

The concubine was also interested. When she heard Gao Xi saying that Gu Wei was going to move to her house, Lin Zhixiao was angry and jealous. Gu Wei never disappoints anyone, so he moved directly to the opposite side of Lin Zhixiao. This approach is simply not very satisfying! Once the two of them confirm their feelings for each other, it will naturally come naturally.

When love first begins, we often don’t know that it is love. This is true for Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao.

Gu Wei’s greatest advantage is not his handsomeness, but his sincerity.

As Lin Zhixiao’s mother said, the most important thing about a person is not his appearance, but his heart. It was precisely because of Gu Wei's sincerity that Lin Jianguo received timely treatment. Lin's parents trusted him, and Lin Zhixiao also fell in love with him.

The most favorite thing about Lin Zhixiao is that it is true.

Gu Wei has always disliked Gao Xi because Gao Xi was too aloof and distant, and could not feel her sincerity. Lin Zhixiao is just the opposite. No matter whether it is a good or bad attitude, she will show it. She dares to tell the truth and can make Gu Wei feel at ease and relaxed.

Emotions are mutual. Only sincerity can touch people's hearts. Only love that goes in both directions can blossom and bear fruit and last long.

I hope we can all meet the right person in life, find the person we love, and say to each other: Please give me guidance for the rest of my life.