"The Avatamsaka Sutra" says:
Only by not forgetting the original intention can you achieve success. The original intention is easy to obtain, but difficult to keep.
Only by not forgetting your original intention can you achieve success. If you forget your original intention, the illusion will be lost.
Only by not forgetting your original intention can you always be consistent, and not rejecting your original intention is called freedom.
What is the original intention? The original intention is the idea, the goal, and the beacon on the way forward.
Each of us will encounter various temptations and obstacles on the way forward. Only by staying true to our original aspirations can we reach the destination we really want to go to.
However, there are often people, especially female college students who are not deeply involved in the world. On this road, it is easy to forget the original intention, be led astray, and take the wrong path.
Zhang Yuting, who has been reviled and criticized by the entire Internet in recent days, is a graduate of Beijing Union University and a graduate student who is about to graduate from studying in Australia. She interned at Greenland Group and later served as the secretary of her male boss Chen Jun.
She has no work experience and is a bit stupid. Various problems will inevitably occur at work, and it is inevitable that she will be reprimanded by colleagues or leaders.
But Zhang Yuting’s boss, Chen Jun, was very gentle to her, giving her brand-name bags, giving her monthly pocket money that exceeded her salary, and even promised her 30 million.
This kind of gain for nothing can even reach the sky in one step. She, who has just finished her honeymoon, was pleasantly surprised to find that there is such a shortcut in life.
Using her young and beautiful body and appearance as capital, she enjoys the convenience brought to her by being a veteran in love and an old fox in the workplace, and even becomes pregnant with Chen Jun's child.
Then she told her husband everything in detail, saying that she had cheated on him!
The leader Chen Jun knows human nature well, Zhang Yuting is too stupid, and her husband is too cruel!
Girls who have just graduated are no match for those vicious veterans in the love and workplace. The best way is to refuse them directly and don't listen to their beautiful lies.
In "Fox Hunt", Yang Jianqiu, who had just graduated and started working, was exploited by his boss without realizing it, and finally fell into quagmire step by step.
A girl who has just graduated has zero work experience. It is difficult to get real recognition from her boss at work. At most, she just thinks that this person has good learning ability.
Showing courtesy for nothing is either cheating or stealing!
There is a saying that goes very well, flies will not bite seamless eggs.
No matter how stupid a girl is, how naive she is, or how slow she is at work, if she sticks to her true nature, is clean and self-respecting, and doesn’t act coquettishly, she won’t invite old foxes to lust after you. .
Even if there is, flatly refuse without leaving any room. If the other party threatens work, you can go to the other party's supervisor or even the boss. If it doesn't work, there must be problems with the development of this kind of company. It's better to leave as soon as possible.
Yesterday Xiaobai told me that after seeing Zhang Yuting’s latest response, she thought of herself. She was just glad that she had made the right choice, and she was even more glad that her ex-boyfriend was not a ruthless person.
Xiaobai had just started working after graduation and was in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend. Because she had no work experience, she always made various mistakes and received many looks from her colleagues.
However, her immediate boss was very kind to her. He often helped her out, personally guided and checked her work, and brought her various snacks every day. Gradually, she grew to be more supportive of her boss. Respect turned to adoration.
Xiaobai has a good relationship with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend graduated a few years earlier than her and is relatively mature. Xiaobai will share everything she encounters in life and work with her boyfriend.
Including which girl a certain leader of the company kept, and even the proof provided by the company to which owner was photoshopped, and he also said that he seemed to like his leader.
When her boyfriend asked her to change jobs, Xiaobai disagreed and almost broke up because of it. However, Xiaobai did not choose to be with her boss.
She later figured out that her love for the leader should be due to being moved and grateful. Her current goal was to study hard and work well. Sure enough, after a month, her feeling for the leader gradually faded away. .
As a courtesy, Xiaobai also bought a lot of snacks for the leader. At the same time, he distributed the snacks that the leader gave him privately to everyone, saying that the leader gave them to everyone.
Later, the leader stopped giving her gifts.
A year later, Xiaobai and her boyfriend broke up due to other things. She was lucky. Her boyfriend let go calmly and did not reveal the secrets that Xiaobai had told him before. After that, Xiaobai no longer dared to talk to her. Others share secrets freely.
Six years later, Xiaobai has now moved to another large company as a middle-level manager.
Only by not forgetting your original intention, keeping your original intention, thinking and learning can you reach the other side.
But for most girls who have just graduated, after experiencing the suffering of life, they are too easily tempted and long for the help of noble people to quickly escape from the sea of ??suffering.
There are very few noble people in the world, but there are many people who want to be saved!
The noble people you meet may not be truly noble people. Girls who are not experienced in the world are very likely to meet unkind people and be doomed!
Although the wind and rain are coming, never forget to move forward; the world is complicated and chaotic, but never forget the original intention.