It is necessary to add the opening remarks on how to chat with friends. It takes skill to get along with men and women. Sometimes the boring way of getting along will make the other person feel impatient, so he is unwilling to communicate with you. In this case, we must reflect. Let's share it and supplement the opening remarks on how to chat with friends.

How to chat with friends? Opening remarks 1 1. Arouse her curiosity about you. For example, you can tell girls that we have a tacit understanding, and then girls will say how we have a tacit understanding. At this time, you can say: If you don't talk, I won't talk. Do we have a tacit understanding?

Second, a sense of humor. You can say hello, and girls will usually reply hello. It's usually too embarrassing to talk anymore. Then you can say humorously, I'm not as good as you say. What you said embarrassed me. Add a shy expression, which can solve the embarrassment. Then you have something to say.

Third, if the girl's head is her own photo, then you can start with her head. You can say that your head is very good, especially those eyes are very spiritual. It makes people look very comfortable.

Fourth, we should put our minds right. Don't chat with girls who have obscene ideas. Women are naturally sensitive animals. As long as you have a little unhealthy idea, they will feel it. So don't be too obscene in the opening remarks.

5. Chat in the mode of telling the truth+caring+sincerity+love words.

How to chat with friends? 2 1. Pretend to be suspense.

Everyone has different degrees of curiosity, which can be seen from the hot gossip news in the media. People's curiosity is not strong or weak. If a person is not interested in something, it can only show that it is not attractive enough, and so is the opening remarks of chatting with girls. If you throw a question that attracts her enough at the beginning, girls will have the desire to chat with you, and you will naturally master the rhythm in the next chat. How to start? For example:

You: I think you are a little different today.

Girl: What's the difference? I think it's all the same.

You: Guess, you really can't feel it?

Girl: I can't guess. Tell me quickly.

You: I think your makeup is more delicate today.

Girl: You have a good eye and a sweet mouth.

2. Guide sharing

When chatting with girls, you don't have to make a statement first. Sometimes you can use the opening remarks to guide her to share. Few people know this skill, because boys always want to open the topic by themselves, find the topic by themselves and guide the chat by themselves, but girls are sometimes very strange. Boys who are too active will make them lose the desire to chat with you. In other words, the more active you are, the less interested she is in you, so they use the opening remarks to guide sharing, so that girls will not feel that boys have been taking the initiative. For example:

You: I saw your travel photos. Very nice. Did you take it with your best friend?

Girl: Yes, how do you know?

You: We are connected. Is that attraction interesting? I'm going, too. Can you introduce it?

Girl: Yes, yes, there is. ...

ask for help

There is also a small coup to quickly close the distance with others, that is, to lower your posture and ask for help. Some people may say, what kind of bad idea is this? Don't worry. In fact, after helping others, people often put themselves in the position of a benefactor, or at least feel that they are valuable to each other. If you take a step back, will you help someone you hate? Certainly not, so after helping others, although people don't say they have a good impression, they won't dislike this person, which is too important when they meet for the first time.

So how do you start asking for help? For example:

You: I recently finished reading a book and fell into boredom. It's too difficult for me.

Girl: Ha, ha, ha, let's play with the game quilt.

You: I still like reading. What books do you usually read? Can you recommend some books?

Girl: What I saw was ordinary, and it didn't feel right for you.

You: Nothing. I trust your taste. Help me.

Girl: Well, I think that xxx is quite good. You can go and have a look.

4. The opening of the circle of friends

A girl must be her most interesting topic. You can get it from her social software dynamics, depending on whether you have the heart!

Of course, the most popular non-circle of friends is none other than (girls who don't make friends can use other openings). The opening of the circle of friends will give girls something to say. According to the survey, it is more likely to find her within half an hour after she sends it, because this content is still "hot". Are you too eager to find her?

Give a few simple examples:

For example, her circle of friends shared some photos of going out to play, just hoping to share them with others, and some people commented.

You can say, "Those photos you sent are so beautiful. Where have you been? " Or "The third photo of your circle of friends you just sent is XXX, right?" I also went last year ";

If she has shared a song you like to listen to, you can say, "Little Sister, the XX song you just shared is my latest single cycle. Do you like this type of song? " ;

Finally, different opening remarks should match different people and different scenes. It is never difficult to chat with girls. As long as you master the skills, these skills can be applied to different aspects of life.

5. Free opening remarks

This is one of the most useful and effective opening remarks for girls. Girls will have an inexplicable affinity for those who are sure of her, thinking that you are a good person and can speak because of your good eyes. However, praise must be measured, which is too easy to be regarded as licking a dog.

For example, your clothes are cool. Do you usually dress like this? Speak first when you are beautiful; We just met, and my heart was pounding. Did you hear that? I think you are unique and want to know you; Has anyone ever said that you look like xxx, especially when you laugh?

How to chat with friends? 3. Start with small information.

Such as real person's head, signature, personal data, etc. For example, "I finally returned to Beijing. Your hairstyle (signature) reminds me of many things in this city." Traveling to Shanghai, your hairstyle reminds me of many things in this city. I will leave in three days, and I will regret not knowing you. "Ah, are you worried about xxxx recently? W: How do you know, xxxx "WeChat chat prologue 4: The beginning of nonsense. For example, "M: You're right! Woman: Right about what? " Then continue to talk. Or something like "Hey, beauty, you're offline."

Second, see the move.

Seeing that the age of the girl Mo Mo is written relatively large or small, such as 50~ 100, 1~ 18, you can express your surprise and say, Hello, fairy sister! Or how are you? Generally, girls will smile back or ask a question mark, and some will play role-playing with you.

Want to talk to a girl, but don't know how to talk? I recommend a trick. You can send funny pictures or stories you saw online to your sister, or tell her what interesting things you met today.

Third, arouse the curiosity of girls.

This is important, for example, your head. . Um ... Your clothes and so on. This opening remark is very useful, ordinary girls will be curious to reply, what happened to my head/clothes.

Don't ask stupidly: Have you eaten? What are you doing? There is no nutritional problem. Believe me, my sister is not interested in seeing this kind of problem.

Fourth, learn to start with WeChat nicknames.

For example, "flying fish", you can say to her, "Hi, hello, fish also have wings. This is a special name. " "Peaches", you can say to her "Hey, you like fruits very much, especially peaches".

Fifth, pay attention to my sister's circle of friends to find a topic.

My sister's circle of friends is a treasure chest, which contains my sister's hobbies, dressing styles, chatting interests, and rivals you don't know. Sister's screen name is also a skill to open a topic ~

Take chestnuts for example. The screen name of a sister paper is "bradol" (one of bradol's most beautiful purebred cats, often called "fairy cat" because of its special appearance and gentle and quiet personality).

You: "You like cats?"

Sister paper: "Yes, how do you know?" (to my liking, quickly arouse the interest of sister paper)

You: "Brador cat is gentle and quiet, beautiful and elegant, and is praised as the most beautiful exotic beauty cat by everyone ~"

Sister paper: Yes, yes ~ I didn't expect you to have good taste ~

You: You use Bradol as your screen name. You must be a girl with good taste and inner temperament.

Sister paper: Of course. . . . . (Happy face)

This kind of chat can be more interesting. Or whose songs my sister's circle of friends often sends, whose pictures, and photos of where to play are all topics we chat with my sister.

Sixth, find the right time, don't be cannon fodder if you don't have time.

Chatting with girls is also about finding the right time. Don't ask for your news early in the morning; Do not chat during working hours; Don't chat too late; Don't say hello to good night before going to bed ... find a girl who has time to dream and chat. Some girls may be an hour before going to bed, such as around 8-9 pm; Some may be on the way to work in the morning or after lunch; Others may be tea time, who is particularly free and in the mood to talk to someone.

Seven, some things can't be said and some things can't be done.

For girls, some words are taboo. For chatting, if you have said something, you really don't need to continue to communicate.

Give a chestnut: hehe, well, it's like this ... such chat words will make girls feel insincere and perfunctory.

Don't do such a thing-can you be your boyfriend? Is it a photo of yourself? Various requests for photos; Request a video for the first chat; What are you doing? What did you eat? Family situation, etc. ; You are not even like you; You went to the concert, hey, I really don't like that noisy place; Your clothes don't look good ... these comments on girls' photos, family situation and interest in girls' lives will make girls think you are a Pacific policeman. When you first come into contact with girls, you should pay attention to the measure of speaking and the scale of doing things.

general idea

I just added each other's WeChat, so it's not easy to ask each other out. Depend on the circle of friends before meeting.

When you have a preliminary understanding, don't harass.

If you have something with her, just say it, and then take the initiative to end it. Stop talking, there's no need.

If you have nothing to do with her, don't talk to her, and don't always say "Really?" "Are you there?" "What are you doing?" "Are you busy?" Meaningless words like that

What if you really want to talk to her?

Relax and be patient.

No chatting doesn't mean that there is no chance to get closer. Show your wonderful life in a circle of friends.

If you are an otaku, you should learn to go out, eat with friends, exercise, go to some novel places, read some interesting books, play with other girls, and of course, share pictures at work.

Your circle of friends should not always transfer other people's things or talk nonsense, chicken soup. Your circle of friends is used to show you, yours, yours, yours, you know?

Although you don't chat, you should establish a sense of connection and familiarity with her.