1. Is it beautiful to hold your head high?
Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although Jenny doesn't believe it, she is very happy. She couldn't help raising her head, eager to show it to everyone. It doesn't matter if she accidentally bumped into someone when she went out.
Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, how beautiful you look with your head held high!" "The teacher lovingly patted her on the shoulder and said. That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she walked out of the jewelry store. Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people are losing a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Whether you are rich or poor, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone loves. ?
2. The value of life?
At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech. Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He later said, "I'm going to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing."
As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands. He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands. ?
"My friends, you have had a very useful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or sloppy, you are still priceless. " ?
Positive energy revelation?
The value of life lies not in what we do or who we make friends with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this! ?
3. Broken arrow?
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. "
This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers.
The son is beaming and greedily speculates about the appearance of the shaft and arrow, as if the arrow whizzed past his ear and the enemy commander died in response. Sure enough, Bao Jian's son is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver.
When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver.
I always fight with a broken arrow on my shoulder! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed. The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army. ?
Blowing away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your will, you will never be a general." ?
How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, placing expectations on children; Put happiness on her husband; Life insurance for the crew ...?
Positive energy revelation?
You are an arrow. If you want it to be tough, sharp, piercing, sharpening and saving, you can only be yourself.
4. Pursuing ecstasy?
1858, a rich family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. However, soon, the child was infected with an unexplained paralysis and lost the ability to walk. ?
Once, the girl traveled by boat with her family. The captain's wife told the child that the captain had a bird of paradise. She was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see it for herself. So the nanny left the child on the deck and went to the captain herself. The child couldn't bear to wait, so he asked the waiter on board to take her to see the bird of paradise at once. The waiter didn't know that her legs couldn't walk, just took her to see the beautiful birds. ?
A miracle happened, and the child was so anxious that he forgot to hold the waiter's hand and walked slowly. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When a girl grows up, she devotes herself to literary creation and eventually becomes the first woman to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, namely Thelma Lagroff. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Selflessness is the shortcut to success. Only in such an environment can people transcend their own constraints and release the greatest energy. ?
5. The hard stone in your heart?
Once upon a time, there was a big stone in a family's garden, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. People who go to the vegetable garden will kick the big stone if they are not careful, either falling or scratching. The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?" ?
The father replied, "Do you mean the stone? It has been in this moment since your grandfather's time. It is so big that I don't know when it will be dug. It is better to pay attention to walking and train your reaction potential. " After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, my son married a daughter-in-law and became a father. ?
One day, my daughter-in-law said angrily, "Dad, the bigger the stones in the vegetable garden, the more I look at them. I'd better ask someone to move it another day. " The father replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I could move, I moved when I was a child. How can I stay until now? " Daughter-in-law is very upset. I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall. ?
One morning, the daughter-in-law took a hoe and a bucket of water and poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone. 10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law used a hoe to loosen the soil around the big stone. The woman has been psychologically prepared and may have to dig for a day. No one expected that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes. Look at the size. This stone is not as big as expected, and it was deceived by its huge appearance.
Positive energy revelation?
If you climb the mountain with the idea of going downhill, you can't climb it. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mentality. ?
6. Try again?
A young man went to Microsoft to apply for a job, but the company didn't advertise for a job. Seeing the general manager puzzled, the young man explained in broken English that he happened to float there and rushed in. The general manager thought it was very new, so he made an exception and let him try it. The interview result was unexpected, and the young people performed poorly. His explanation to the general manager was that he had not prepared in advance. The general manager thought he was just looking for an excuse to go down the stairs, so he replied casually and tried again when he was ready. ?
A week later, the young man walked into the door of Microsoft again, and this time he failed. But compared with the first time, his performance is much better. And the general manager gave him the same answer as last time: try again when you are ready. In this way, the young man stepped into the door of Microsoft five times and was finally hired by the company, becoming the key training object of the company. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Perhaps, our life journey is full of swamps and thorns; Perhaps the scenery we are pursuing will always be mountains and rivers. Perhaps, our steps forward are always heavy and stumbling; Perhaps, we need to grope for a long time in the dark to find the light; Perhaps, our devout faith will be entangled in secular dust and fog, but we can't fly freely; Perhaps our noble souls can't find the pure land in reality for the time being.
Then, why can't we say to ourselves firmly and confidently, with the courage of the brave, try again! Try again and you may reach the other side of success! ?
7. Dare to take risks?
One day, lobster and hermit crab met in the deep sea. The hermit crab saw that the lobster was shedding its hard shell, revealing only its delicate body. The hermit crab said nervously, lobster, how can you put down the only hard shell that protects your body? Aren't you afraid that a big fish will eat you? In your present state, even a torrent will wash you to the rocks, and you will not die then.
The lobster calmly replied: Thank you for your concern, but you don't understand that every time we lobsters grow, we have to take off our old shells to grow stronger shells. The danger we are dealing with at the moment is only to prepare for better development in the future. ?
Hermit crab, think about it. They only look for places to escape from life all day, without thinking about how to make themselves stronger. They just live under the protection of others all day. No wonder they always limit their own development. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Everyone has a necessary safety zone. If you want to surpass your present achievements, please don't limit yourself, be brave in understanding challenges and enrich yourself. You must develop better than you think. ?
8. Optimists and pessimists?
Father wants to transform the character of a pair of twin brothers, because one of them is too optimistic and the other is too pessimistic. One day, he bought many colorful new toys for pessimistic children and sent optimistic children to a garage full of horse manure. ?
The next morning, the father saw the pessimistic child crying and asked, Why don't you play with those toys? "If you play, it will be bad." The child is still crying. The father sighed and walked into the garage, only to find that the optimistic child was happily digging out something in the horse manure. ?
"Tell you what, Dad," the boy proudly declared to his father, "I think there must be a pony hidden in the horse manure pile!" ?
Positive energy revelation?
The difference between an optimist and a pessimist is interesting: an optimist sees a doughnut while a pessimist sees a hole. ?
9. Success is not as difficult as you think?
1965, a Korean student went to Cambridge University to study psychology. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authorities in certain fields and some people who have created economic myths. These people are humorous and easy to lift weights. They all regard their success as natural and logical. ?
After a long time, he found himself cheated by some successful people at home. Those people generally exaggerate the hardships of starting a business in order to let those who are starting a business retreat, that is to say, they are scaring those who have not succeeded with their own successful experience. As a student of psychology department, he thinks it is necessary to study the mentality of successful people in Korea. ?
1970, he took success as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Professor Will Braden, the founder of modern economic psychology. After reading it, Professor Braden was greatly surprised. He thinks this is a new discovery. Although this phenomenon is very common in the East and even the whole world, no one has boldly proposed to study it before.
Surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumnus park chung-hee, who was at the top of Korean politics. He said in the letter: "I can't say how much this book has helped you, but I'm sure it can shock you more than any of your laws." ?
After that, the book really took off with the Korean economy. This book inspires many people just because they tell people from a new angle that success is not necessarily related to "stretching bones and starving skin", "burning the midnight oil at five o'clock" and "hanging the beam and stabbing the leg".
As long as you are interested in a cause, you will succeed if you persist for a long time. It is because God has given you time and wisdom that you can successfully accomplish one thing. Later, the young man also achieved success. He became the president of Pan Ye Automobile Company. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Many things in the world can be done as long as you want, and the difficulties you should overcome can also be overcome. You don't need any iron will, let alone any skill or strategy. As long as a person is living a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangement for the world is natural. ?
10, studious?
On a dark night, the mouse leader led the little mouse out for food. In a family's kitchen, there are many leftovers in the trash can. For mice, it's as if humans have discovered a treasure. ?
Just as a large group of mice were digging in the trash can and its vicinity, suddenly there came a sound of pulling out all their internal organs. It was the cry of a big cat. They were shocked and ran for their lives everywhere, but the big cat was relentless and pursued. Finally, two little mice were caught by the big cat and ready to eat them. Suddenly, a series of vicious dog barks came, which made the big cat feel at a loss and ran for his life. ?
After the big cat left, Shi Shiran, the leader of the mouse, came out from behind the trash can and said, I told you long ago that learning another language is beneficial and harmless, and this time I saved your lives. ?
Positive energy revelation?
One more skill, one more way. Continuous learning is really a lifelong commitment of successful people. ?
1 1, heaven rewards hard work?
Zeng Guofan is one of the most influential figures in the history of China, but his talent was not high since he was a child. One day, when he was studying at home, an article was repeated many times and was still reading aloud. Because of this, he hasn't memorized it yet.
At this time, a thief came to his house and lurked under his eaves, hoping to get some benefits after the scholar went to bed. But wait and wait, just don't see him sleeping, or read the article over and over again. The thief was furious and jumped out and said, what books do you read at this level? Then recite the article and leave! ?
The thief is clever, at least smarter than Mr. Zeng, but he can only be a thief, and Mr. Zeng has become the man worshipped by President Mao Zedong: the richest man in modern times. ?
Diligence is a good training, and one point of hard work is one point of talent. The thief has a good memory. He was brave enough to recite the article after listening to it several times. He can jump out and get angry when he sees others not sleeping. Teach Ceng Laoshi a lesson, so we have to endorse and walk away. Unfortunately, his name is not widely known, and Mr. Zeng later mobilized a large number of talents. It is said that this thief has a personal relationship with Mr. Zeng, and he can make great efforts. Unfortunately, his talent was not combined with diligence and he became ignorant. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Great success is in direct proportion to hard work. Work hard and you will get something. Over time, from less to more, miracles can be created. ?
Shadow is a paper dragon?
Grandpa made me a long dragon out of paper. The gap in the dragon's abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts, and all of them die in it, and no one is spared! Grandfather said, "locusts are too impatient." In addition to struggling, they never thought about biting the long dragon with their mouths, and they didn't know that they could always climb out from the other end. " So, although it has an iron pliers-like mouth shell and serrated thighs, it doesn't help. " ?
When my grandfather put several green worms of the same size into the faucet, and then turned off the faucet, a miracle appeared: in just a few minutes, the young green worms climbed out of Barry one by one. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Destiny has always been hidden in our minds. Many people can't walk out of the shadow at different stages of life, big or small, not because their natural personal conditions are much worse than others, but because they have no thought to bite through the shadow paper dragon and have no patience to find a direction slowly and move forward step by step until a new hole appears in front of them. ?
13, always get the ticket?
There is a person who travels a lot and often can't buy the right ticket. But no matter the distance, no matter how crowded the bus is, he can always find a seat. ?
His method is actually very simple, that is, patiently looking for one car after another. This method doesn't sound brilliant, but it does work. Every time he is going to walk from the first car to the last car, but he doesn't have to walk to the end every time. He will find an empty seat. ?
He said that this is precisely because there are not many passengers who are obsessed with finding seats like him. Often there are some seats left in the carriage where he sits, but at the junction of the aisles and carriages of other carriages, it is actually very crowded. He said that most passengers are easily confused by the superficial phenomenon of one or two cars being crowded and don't think about it. In the process of dozens of stations, there are many opportunities to bring seats into the crowd from more than a dozen doors of the train.
Even if I thought about it, I didn't have the patience to find it Most people are easily satisfied with a small foothold in front of them, and some people think it is not cost-effective to squeeze one or two seats with their bags on their backs. They are also worried that if they can't find a seat, they won't even have a place to stand back. ?
Just like some people who are content with the status quo and afraid of failure, they can only stay at the starting point without success. Most of these passengers who are unwilling to take the initiative to find seats can only stand in the initial position when they get on the bus until they get off. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Self-confidence, persistence, foresight, and diligence in practice will make you hold a ticket for the journey of life forever. ?
14, are you in the well? ?
One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well. The farmer racked his brains to find a way to save the donkey, but several hours later, the donkey was still whining in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to put it down. He thinks the donkey is too old to save it, but the well must be filled in anyway. So the farmer invited his neighbors to help him bury the donkey in the well to avoid its pain. ?
The farmer's neighbor, with a shovel in his hand, began to shovel dirt into the dry well. When the donkey realized his situation, it began to cry in pain.
But surprisingly, the donkey was quiet after a while. The farmer looked curiously at the bottom of the well, and what he saw at the moment surprised him. When the dirt shoveled into the well fell on the donkey's back, the donkey's reaction was amazing-it shook off the dirt and stood on top of the shoveled dirt pile! ?
In this way, the donkey shook off all the dirt that everyone shoveled on it at the bottom of the well and stood up. Soon, the donkey proudly rose to the wellhead, and then ran away with everyone's surprised expression! ?
Positive energy revelation?
Just like the donkey, in the journey of life, sometimes we will inevitably fall into a dry well and be dumped on us by all kinds of sediment. The secret of getting out of these dry wells is to shake off the sediment and stand on it! ?
15, a ship in the sea?
Lloyd's Insurance Company of England once bought a boat from the auction market. The ship was launched on 1894, encountered icebergs 138 times in the Atlantic Ocean, hit rocks 1 16 times, caught fire 13 times, and the mast was broken by the storm 207 times. However, it never sank. ?
Lloyd's Insurance Company finally decided to buy from the Netherlands and donate it to the country based on its incredible experience and considerable premium income. At the moment, the ship is anchored at the National Ship Museum in Salem, England. ?
However, it was a lawyer who came here for sightseeing that made this ship famous in the world. At that time, he had just lost a lawsuit and his client committed suicide not long ago. Although this is not the first time that he failed in his defense or committed suicide, he always feels guilty whenever such a thing happens. He doesn't know how to comfort these people who have suffered misfortune in business. ?
When he saw the ship in the Salem Ship Museum, he suddenly had an idea, why not let them visit the ship? So, he copied the history of the ship and hung it in his law office together with the photo of the ship. Whenever clients in the business world come to him for defense, he recommends them to go to the boat regardless of winning or losing. It lets us know that no ship can sail at sea without injury. ?
Positive energy revelation?
Despite repeated setbacks, perseverance is the secret of success.