1. Throw away what you need to throw away, and give up when you need to give up. From today on, you will be a layman for the rest of your life and live your best life.

2. Don’t live too glassy, ??don’t live too hard, and don’t let people who have little to do with your life affect your mood just because you are embarrassed. They should go away. Let them go when the time comes.

3. Time can’t really help us solve any problems. It just makes problems that we couldn’t figure out no longer important.

4. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent or unwilling you are, you will eventually have to learn to accept it. From crying and accusing, to treating with a smile, in the end, it was just a happy-go-lucky affair.

5. Only after things have changed and people have changed, will people know how to miss them; it is always when we least understand that we miss the most real things.

6. The older you grow, the more you understand: only say a few words to others when you meet them, and don’t give them all your heart. Happiness and anger cannot be expressed in color, have their own bottom line, hide everything in their hearts and do not express emotions.

7. Gradually I understand that many things can be encountered but cannot be sought. If it is not yours, why bother to care about it. Whatever you care about will torture you. Expectation is the root of all heartache.

8. While you are young, you need to suffer more before you can be truly humble. Otherwise, your self-righteous intelligence and contempt for everything will destroy you sooner or later.

9. You have to learn to swallow a large paragraph of words and all your emotions, and express all your thoughts with only 'um'. It’s not that you become apathetic, it’s that you learn to tolerate it.

10. In everyone’s phone book, there will be a number that you will never call or delete; in everyone’s heart, there will be a number that you will never mention or delete. Someone who will never forget.

11. If you hate some people or dislike some things, you don’t have to shout, resist, or slander them. You just need to choose to cut off contact with them.

12. If someone hurts you, you can forgive him, but don’t trust him easily again. Forgiveness means letting yourself go, but blind trust will only give him the opportunity to hurt you again.

13. In fact, we just want to find someone who we can talk to, who has a good temperament, who is comfortable together, who misses us a little after being apart for a long time, who wants to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and who will immediately regret and give up after a quarrel. Love is like this, friendship is the same.

14. If your enthusiasm is not responded to, you must know how to stop it in moderation. Don't be disrespectful to every enthusiasm, and don't please any indifference. Once you've saved up enough disappointment, leave. Never see each other again, this is true for friendship, and so is love.

15. Don’t fall in love with the past, don’t welcome the future, and don’t live up to the present. Try to be a warm person, don’t ask for wealth, just want a simple and happy life, so peaceful.

16. In the world, there is no time that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that you do not want to attend. Every choice is an inner orientation.

17. You will keep meeting some people, and you will keep saying goodbye to some people, from strangers to familiarity, from familiarity to strangers again, from being familiar with each other to parting ways, from being late to each other. It's better not to see you.