The only thing that blocks love is each other
01
My friend Chen Wenrou has only done one outrageous thing in more than twenty years, but It happened that this extraordinary incident turned her life upside down.
She, a girl from an urban middle-class background, has been going smoothly for more than 20 years, studying in a key junior high school, a key high school, and a key university. After graduation, she worked in a well-known company, but only in marriage. Inside the wall, he nailed himself to a poor boy.
This combination of "white, rich and beautiful" and "Phoenix man", the ultimate difference between strength and weakness, no one is optimistic about, and even we can't help but mention her: What kind of man is it hard to find? Why are you so stubborn?
Chen Wenrou is a good girl with fair skin and beautiful face. A Hangzhou girl, she has the tenderness of Jiangnan. When she smiles, her eyebrows are curved, which makes people feel soft in their hearts.
Chen Wenrou was well-educated by her parents, well-educated and well-behaved. She learned dancing and piano since she was a child. Although she did not take an artistic route, her scholarly temperament was imbued with her.
Just like her name - gentle and delicate.
Chen Wenwen and I met at the award ceremony of a high school essay competition held in the city. She happened to be sitting next to me that day, and the host on the stage moved the process very slowly. At that time, I had not yet developed the gentle patience to be able to deal with everything, and Chen Wenrou had not yet developed the ability to deal with boring things. The two of us chatted away.
Girls' friendship is sometimes more wonderful than love. We two have just met, but we still see each other right, and the sparks are so great.
We all like Agatha and Keigo Higashino, and we are impatient to watch the love-making love that was the favorite of girls at that time.
We all like ladylike dressing styles and appreciate European and American coolness, but we understand that coolness is not suitable for us.
On that day, both of us won the silver medal in the composition competition. It just so happened that the two of us stood together and took a group photo.
WeChat didn’t exist at that time, so we added each other’s QQ accounts, and from then on, our lifelong friendship was established.
We often make appointments to go shopping and chat together.
There is a saying in Keigo Higashino's "Fate": All accidents in life are actually destined. It's for destiny.
Chen Wenrou liked this sentence very much. For a while, she even used it as her personal signature.
I thought it was the friendship between the two of us at the time, but later I discovered that this is the case with all the emotional turmoil in the world.
Chen Wenrou fell in love when she was a junior in college, and I was the first person to know about it.
That day, she called me in a low voice. When she spoke, her tone was always gentle, but in this gentleness, there was inevitably a hint of shyness.
"I'm in love." It's like the cool breeze in summer, which makes people's hearts feel warmer.
This is a typical love story on a university campus, a story between a senior and a school girl. The two worked in the same department of the student union. They immediately fell in love with each other and never fell in love with each other. The skipping heart is beating for you at this moment.
Chen Wenrou said to me: "There is a saying in "Jieyou Grocery Store": Once the heart leaves, it will never come back. I didn't understand it before, but now I seem to understand it a little bit. I am very sure that it is him and he will not change.”
I am happy in my heart and wish her well.
But it was only later that I realized how determined Chen Wenrou was.
This is not an equal love in the eyes of the world.
The boy is Chen Wenwen’s senior student. Lu Jiayuan is handsome, but he is a typical poor student. He comes from an unknown small rural area. He finally jumped out of the farm and entered a key university, but he still works all day long. Money worries.
He majored in computer science, but even his essential computer was bought frugally after working for two months during the summer vacation of his freshman year.
Chen Wenrou is learning piano and talking about art, while Lu Jiayuan is struggling for survival.
In addition to being in the same university, the two of them seemed to be incompatible with each other in terms of appearance and family background.
But we love each other.
Just this reason seems to be able to hinder all the barriers that exist between us.
03
The two started dating, and Chen Wenrou was reluctant to let Lu Jiayuan treat her to a big dinner.
The two of us occasionally wanted to go out for a toothpaste, so we went to Three Sisters Private Kitchen opposite Hangzhou Kerry Center and ordered two meat dishes and one vegetarian dish. It was not very expensive, but it was delicious.
Every time I have a meal, I have to wait for more than an hour, but when I am with the person I love, no matter what I do, just waiting, it is also a happy thing.
Occasionally we watch movies together. The two of us find an empty study room, download the movies, and then watch old movies together.
At Christmas, Lu Jiayuan gave Wen Wen a pair of rings. They were made of silver and were not very expensive, more than three hundred. But when Lu Jia Yuan put the rings on Wen Wen's hands, Wen Wen told Wen Wen that Me: This is the most expensive gift she has ever received in her life.
If a boy wants to be nice to you, he means giving you some of everything he has.
Lu Jiayuan has no money, can’t afford platinum, or can’t afford a diamond ring, but he loves you, so he wants to give you the best ring he can currently give.
"Gentle, I, I know, I will be good to you and let you live a good life. If you believe me, I will definitely give you the best." Lu Jiayuan was not good at words and scratched his head. , there are only a few words that come out over and over again.
But when you look at the gentle eyes, they become softer and softer. When someone loves you, there is really only you in his eyes.
She said yes with a gentle smile, but she was sure of everything in her heart.
She deeply realized that the man in front of her really loved her. Even when writing small programs, he liked to change his avatar icon to his own photo, and she also loved him deeply, looking at him. He was happy.
A boy struggles to love himself. What else is there to be dissatisfied with in such a life?
Even if he has no money now, he will always have money.
01
Lu Jiayuan chose to find a job directly after graduation. Fortunately, he had very good grades and outstanding performance in school. He was quickly accepted by a large company and had an internship period of half a year. 5,000 per month, and after the internship period, the salary will be over 10,000.
At that time, Lu Jiayuan rented a simple farmer's house with a monthly rent of 700. He commuted to and from work by bus and cooked his own meals at home. He was very stingy about himself. Apart from a formal suit, he wore nothing else The only thing I bought was a T-shirt for thirty yuan a piece wholesale on Taobao, but I was the only one who was willing to spend money on Wenwen. In addition to my fixed monthly savings, every weekend, I would take Wenwen with me to go to the movies, go to amusement parks, and go shopping. bookstore.
Iphone6 ??came out, and I took Wenwen to buy it without saying a word. But I have been using Xiaomi mobile phone for several years, and I don’t know how many times it has been bumped and dropped, so I just can’t bear to replace it.
Rentuan feels sorry for him and wants to buy it for him. Lu Jiayuan always touched her head, smiled and said to her: You are my girlfriend, I can't give you too much, but I hope that you can have what others can have.
At that moment, Wen Wen suddenly made up his mind. What else could he ask for? It was him. My luck is really good enough.
Back home during the Chinese New Year, Lu Jiayuan couldn't buy a sleeping train ticket, so he could only buy a standing ticket. When Rou Wen thought that he had to stand for more than 20 hours, his heart felt so painful that he panicked, regardless of booking it for him. I bought the ticket, for fear of hurting his self-esteem, and said it was a special ticket. I grabbed it in the middle of the night. A ticket only cost more than 300, which is about the same price as a train ticket.
Lu Jiayuan seemed to have seen through her little thoughts, and just smiled and said to her: "Silly girl, I will be good to you."
He nodded softly and hugged her. When I hugged Lu Jiayuan, she was really not stupid at all. She was the luckiest person in the world.
Everyone said that she was crazy. She would definitely suffer losses in the future if she found such a mismatched person. But they really didn’t know how good Lu Jiayuan was to her. He gave everything he had to her. Contribute to her and fight tooth and nail for her, she is not stupid at all.
People in this world are accustomed to judging people's hearts by money and power, but truly smart people will understand that a heart is truly priceless.
04
Ren Wenwen, a senior, chose to go directly to graduate school and continue her postgraduate studies for three years.
Lu Jiayuan also successfully became a full-time employee in the company and stayed. He worked hard, studied hard, researched hard, and slept in the company most of the time.
Only on weekends, he tries not to work overtime because he wants to go out with Wenrou.
At that time, Lu Jiayuan was still renting a farmer's house worth RMB 700, and his monthly salary had increased a lot. Except for necessary fund planning and investment, the rest was left to Wen Wen.
The two of them don’t have to eat takeout for more than ten yuan all day long. They can go to the tooth festival from time to time, and occasionally go on a weekend self-guided tour.
Everything seems to be getting better and better.
But only Wen Wen noticed that Lu Jia Yuan's hair had turned white, and Wen Wen teased him: "He's going to become a little old man."
Lu Jia Yuan said: "A man, he's a bit White hair adds to your mature charm."
"I feel uncomfortable. You have been working very hard during this period. You work overtime all day and night. It's so hard. You have to take a breather occasionally. ”
“Silly girl, I am a man, why is it so hard to fight for the future? I have to give you an apartment and a home.”
Lu Jiayuan has never been good at talking about love. But every time I say love words, I always feel tender and tender.
What else do you want? There is no need to ask for anything.
When Wen Wenwen was in his second year, Lu Jiayuan was promoted to the management level, and his salary doubled again. That year, Lu Jiayuan bought his first house. The location was not very good, and it was close to In the suburbs, it was still a second-hand house with a down payment of 200,000. Lu Jiayuan spent all his savings over the years, but Wen Wenwen's name was written on the property certificate.
"You are stupid." Wen Wen scolded him.
"I know you don't care about this, but I hope that you can have what others have. This is our small family. I am a pauper again, so we will work hard to pay off the mortgage together."
"Okay." Wen Wen couldn't hold it back and shed tears.
But the joy that surged up in her heart told her that she really couldn't be more lucky.
How could there be such a stupid man?
How could that happen?
When Rourou graduated from graduate school, Lu Jiayuan attended her graduation ceremony. At that moment, Rourou made a decision.
She wants to get engaged to Lu Jiayuan, and she wants to take Lu Jiayuan home.
When I went to Wen Wen's house that day, Lu Jiayuan and Wen Wen's parents stayed in the study for a long time.
Wen Wen was restless until Lu Jiayuan came out of the study and smiled at her.
Instant concentration.
That night, the gentle mother said to her: "It's okay, as long as he is good to you. When your father married me, he was very poor. Your father and I have examined this child. I have good intentions and treat you well. It doesn’t matter if you are poor now. You will never be poor forever. You two, just be happy.”
This city is very big, but after all, there is room for two. The sluggish love of ants.
This world is very realistic, but the friendship between the two can withstand the wind and rain of reality after all.
The so-called "perfect match" is ultimately not worth the love of two people working hard together.
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