Educating children requires the correct method

——"Calvert's Education"

Cultivate your son's multi-faceted interests

1 .Teaching him how to read began when he was two years old, but this was by no means forced. "Teaching cannot be forced" is a major principle of early education. I believe that no matter what you teach, you must first try to arouse children's interest.

2. What kind of books a person likes is often determined by the book he reads for the first time, and the books he reads in his childhood can often influence that person's life.

3. Children like to listen to stories, especially younger children. I discovered the importance of storytelling, which not only enriches children's knowledge, but also serves as a bridge to guide children to read more books.

4. The poet Goethe once said: "In order not to lose the sense of beauty that God has given us, we must listen to some music every day, recite some poetry every day, and look at some paintings every day."

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5. When telling stories, always use exaggerated expressions and vivid language, supplemented by changing gestures, and sometimes even stand up to imitate the figure of the story characters to keep pushing. plot development.

My son was fascinated by it and often couldn't help but dance with me. But I always stop at the most interesting point and tell my son which book the story is in, encouraging him to find pleasure in reading.

6. Life without any art is like a wilderness. In order to make their children's lives happy and colorful, parents have the obligation to make them educated in literature and music.

7. If my son starts to show interest in writing and drawing with a pencil or crayon, I know this is a good opportunity to start early education. Line drawing exercises can train your son's concentration. At the same time, through the practice of casually drawing curves or straight lines, it can also lay a good foundation for good calligraphy or painting in the future.

Give your son a pair of eyes to spot problems

1. The child’s spirit of investigation has already sprouted since he was two or three years old. The specific manifestation is that they start to ask adults more and more questions, and they are all weird. This is something to be happy about, as it shows that children are starting to think about the world.

2. Most of the questions raised by their children are casually discussed and they do not give patient explanations and explanations. This is profoundly wrong. This attitude actually suppresses the child's rational spirit.

3. The correct attitude is that no matter how busy and troubled parents are, they should answer whatever their children ask. When disseminating knowledge and methods to children, you must not find it troublesome, muddle through, or just deal with things. They must be truthful and reasonable.

4. To achieve this, we must pay attention to children's initial views on the world and actively respond to every question they have. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to an issue, that is, they cannot use authority to suppress their children's nature.

Never deprive my son of the right to play

1. As long as I have time, I will take my son to visit all museums, art galleries, zoos, botanical gardens, factories, mines, hospitals and Nursery schools, etc., in order to broaden his horizons and increase his knowledge.

Before visiting, my son had to read a large number of relevant books to gain a general understanding. Then he came into contact with these things through his own eyes and gained a large amount of information and knowledge consistent with direct perception.

2. After returning to the hotel, I asked my son to write a letter telling his mother and acquaintances about everything he saw. When he returns home, he also needs to verbally explain his travel experiences and personal experiences to his relatives.

3. He spends less time sitting at his desk than any other teenager. In fact, he spent a lot of time playing and doing sports and was a very healthy and lively child.

Seize your son’s interest and teach your son to learn

1. My educational secret is to arouse the child’s interest and let the child ask questions. The key to developing intelligence is to stimulate children's interests. One is to start with a method that the child is willing to accept, make him interested in learning about this thing, and then teach him the corresponding knowledge according to the situation.

Another method is to use questions to arouse the child's curiosity. When he is eager to know the real answer to the question, he will definitely learn more about the issue and consciously Analyze and judge.

2. First of all, in order to arouse my son's interest in literacy, I used some tricks that children could not yet see through. I bought a lot of children's books and picture albums for my son, and told him about them in a very interesting way, using some Use words of encouragement to inspire his young mind, such as "If you can read, you can understand these books."

3. I simply didn’t tell him, and deliberately said to him: "The story in this painting is very interesting, but dad is very busy now and has no time to tell it to you." In this way, On the contrary, it inspired and aroused the son's thoughts and wishes that he must be literate. Only after he had this strong desire to read did I start teaching him how to read.

4. He was only 4 years old at this time. When my son was 5 years old, our family went on a trip and stayed in a hotel. I asked him to sign the register himself, which surprised the hotel owner. As soon as my son learned simple sentences, I asked him to write a diary every day.

In this way, Carl can keep a diary from the age of 4. Whenever it was raining and windy and he couldn't play outside, he would take out his diary and recall the scenes of his childhood, which he found very interesting.

5. Children will do things they don’t like if they are scolded. However, they have no interest in doing this, and their abilities cannot be developed.

On the contrary, if a child is interested in doing something, he will develop this ability. His life force will be released and this ability will become a part of his life.

6. Many times, I wonder whether my children can persevere in studying when they have no interest at all. "Go and study." Many parents believe that this nagging urge is education. In my opinion, this method can be called a method of "developing no ability".

Equal emphasis is placed on the development of memory, imagination and creativity

1. A scientist said: The root of all wisdom lies in memory. Early education can greatly advance the development of memory.

Especially during infancy, repeatedly inputting the same words every day can continuously stimulate the vocabulary library in the child's brain, which can promote the rapid development of the child's memory. It is also very important to seize the critical period of children's intellectual development and improve their memory.

2. After we use the "hard-feeding" education method to allow children to memorize a large number of language vocabulary and stimulate the development of their memory, we can begin to gradually expose them to literature, history and other aspects of knowledge.

3. When our son is more than 1 year old, if he plays with a certain material or toy attentively instead of picking it up and throwing it away, we will praise him in time and work with him to inspire him to enjoy it. Play.

If our son uses an unexpected method to play with toys, we not only praise him, but also encourage him to think of several more methods.

4. His mother stopped where she said "Let's listen to the breakdown next time" every day, and let her son imagine and create the following storyline. The son had to rack his brains for this and made various guesses about the possible plot.

.The next day, before the mother told the story, she asked her son to tell him what he thought, and then continued. If our son guesses correctly, we will cheer happily.

If the son fails to guess correctly, his mother will praise him and say: "Oh, my son made up the story better than the story itself!" The son's creativity is continuously cultivated in this kind of training.