A rational word therapist, I hope you can find some comfort in my words.
Most people like to compare life to a trip. We are constantly walking, watching, understanding and experiencing.
Sometimes, we will be happy because we meet an interesting thing, and sometimes, we will burst into tears because we see the sad side of life.
Sometimes, because of a little thing, we feel that life is beautiful and everything is worth it, but sometimes, because of someone else's casual words, it hurts the spring and saddens the autumn.
Sometimes, we will be proud because we have enough courage to do something, but sometimes we will doubt our ability because something happens.
As the writer Haruki on the tree said, "The so-called life is like this, just like the seeds are blown away by the unexpected wind, and we wander in the accidental land."
Gradually, we began to use a word to describe some of our inner feelings, that is, let nature take its course.
Perhaps, this is the beginning of our understanding of life, our hearts are quiet, and we want to live comfortably and calmly.
What many people often say is that this era is impetuous and life is not satisfactory.
However, few people will think about why they think this era is very bad and impetuous. This is actually an important manifestation of a restless heart. I always feel that life is sorry for myself, but I have never really thought about whether I have a serious life.
Many people say they don't know what kind of life they really want, or even what their goals are.
Few people will take the initiative to explore life, experience life and set goals.
It's no use complaining blindly. Life will never get better because of a temporary complaint. Too much will only make your mentality worse, and life will naturally become a trivial matter.
Just like the other day, I chatted with my friends about some plans this year and mentioned some experiences last year by the way. My friend said that last year, because of an epidemic, I was at a loss when I faced life, and I was not sure what I should do. Looking at the lack of time, I feel very uncomfortable. I didn't earn much money, but I used a lot of savings and even fell into a state of confusion. I was in a state of confusion at that time.
Fortunately, the epidemic was controlled and began to improve. It took me less than half a month to recover. From the beginning of repositioning the goal to achieving it step by step, I also signed up for the training class while trying to earn money, making plans for my future work, so that I can have more skills and not be at a loss when encountering unexpected things.
Being at a loss may be a normal state for many people.
In fact, many times, it's not that we don't know what we want to do, but that we don't calm down and think seriously, and we are always easily influenced by some surrounding environments, so it's naturally difficult to recognize ourselves, and it's even harder to see the road we want to take next.
One realm of life is "quiet inside, as cool as a cucumber".
It can be said that this is actually a realm that each of us should pursue. As a person, we can always keep a calm analysis when we encounter something, and we can also solve it calmly.
A peaceful attitude will allow you to constantly precipitate yourself and adjust your state in time.
In this world, there are many things we don't want to have, and more often, we may not get them even if we work hard.
Then some people will say, why bother? The result is the same.
This kind of thinking is often very wrong and dangerous. After all, you may not get it if you work hard, and you will not get it if you don't work hard.
People often say that let nature take its course, and the real let nature take its course is also the helplessness after hard work, not the inaction of returning empty-handed.
For most people, it is ordinary people, doing ordinary jobs and earning hard money. Me too, but we all insist. In fact, each of us knows very well that many times we are very tired, but in order to live, we have to do so.
Even we don't know how long this state will last.
But what I want to say is that since you are born, you must work hard to live. This is the meaning of living apart. Even salted fish will always want to turn over. Maybe this is the meaning of our efforts.
We always want to pursue the ideal life, but we also ignore that the ideal life is actually very close to us. This is the process of creating our life. We have food to eat, people to love, expectations, things to do, money to earn, and busyness and enrichment.
I think many people like to say "fate". In fact, it is precisely because he understands this that life cannot be forced. Since you have worked hard for it, what belongs to you will come, and what does not belong to you will leave.
Finally, send this text to all ordinary people who are working hard. I hope that in the future, we can all calm ourselves down and work silently, not for others, but for ourselves.
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