First, talk to her about the trip. Most girls like traveling. They always yearn for the unknown scenery and want to go sightseeing. But if you go alone, it is neither safe nor happy. If you often tell her to travel and let her know where she wants to go, you just want to go. By the way, tell her you are alone. Then you can go together. Second, do what she likes and talk about what she is interested in. There is a saying that a beautiful face is the same, and an interesting soul is one in a million. If she likes anime, you can talk to her about anime. If she likes reading, you can read her favorite books. If she likes eating, you can share the delicious food you find with her. You should let her know that there are similarities and tacit understanding between you. Third, talk about your plans for the future. Girls of the same age are always more mature than boys of the same age, so girls sometimes fear the immaturity of boys. If you seriously talk to her about your plans and ideas for the future, she will think that you are not living in a muddle. It's not that girls don't like naive boys, but they really don't like boys without ambition. Fourth, fight with her and send Yan Wen. Now we can't leave something called Yan Wen. When you feel that the atmosphere becomes a bit awkward or dull, you might as well send a few humorous expression packs to ease the atmosphere. Or find any interesting expression packs, you can also send them to her to make her happy. Compared with people who talk less and are cold, girls still like to get along with interesting people. Chasing girls is actually a technical job. Even if she likes you, she may make you suffer a little before agreeing to you. If she is not interested in you, you have to work harder to catch up with her. You might as well learn these four tricks first, hoping to help you one day. The most important thing is to be calm before you love others. Wechat Chasing Girls Chatting Skills II. Start chatting and interacting because this is a girl who hasn't been in contact for a long time. Here we start chatting with Yan characters so that it won't be very abrupt, or we can test this girl first to see if she is busy or if she has deleted us. Generally, when we open an interactive expression, a girl may reply "What's the matter?" This shows that girls may have some vigilance and extroversion, so we should stop chatting with this girl in the back and gradually build up attraction; And some girls may reply: "haha" or reply to your expression, just like this girl we are talking about now, which shows that this girl has almost no feeling of reaching out, and has certain interests and windows, so she can establish attraction with this girl in the back. Testing girls' interest has a lot to do with our strategy of chatting with girls. When the test shows that the girl is interested in us, then we can also release some feelings that we are interested in her. The answer here is "Are you so happy because you saw Shuai Shuai's little brother?" +The reason for the expression is: No.65438 +0: Humorous tone+expression can make the chat emotional. Women are emotional, and emotions are the key to chatting, which will make girls think that you are an interesting but not boring boy. 2. Express confidence. Confidence is charm. A confident man can inspire girls to know more about your desire. Third: "Little Brother" is a nickname made up by ourselves. The advantage of establishing such a nickname is that it can narrow the distance with girls from the beginning. (3) The girl said, "Does Shuai Shuai's little brother finally remember me?" . Her words seemed to say, "It took you so long to think of me? What do you mean? " Maybe many brothers will explain why it took so long to contact her at this time. In fact, there is absolutely no need to do this. Why? Issue 1: Because girls are interested in me, explaining it will make girls take the initiative. We are not good at leading women. Interpretation will become our own problem, which conflicts with the confidence mentioned above; No.2: In fact, this shows that the girl may have expected that I would contact her before, and the reason why she said this is a bit "spoiled" from the girl's point of view, which is even more necessary to explain. Therefore, brothers can find that our replies are actually based on the specific status quo and girls' psychology, but many boys can't grasp these and only fix some routines or words. Girls and girls naturally can't establish the relationship of attraction and promotion quickly. (4) I continued to reply to the girl, "Last night, Guanyin Bodhisattva gave me a dream that a little sister was waiting for me at the entrance to the village. Is that you?" We didn't explain, but divergent thinking, and humorous reply solved the girl's questions. The purpose of "waiting for me at the village entrance" is to let the girls know that I am joking, not dreaming, so that the chat will always be interesting and the girls will be more interested in replying to us. Second, open the topic of interaction. After we finished the reply of "Guanyin", the girl also humorously replied "I am a female guest at the gate of 188". We replied, "Will you come back after recording If You Are the One?" The girl replied, "haha, no, just waiting for you too much, waiting in line." "Brothers can see from these rounds of chat? It can be seen that: first, girls still have a hint of "you contacted me so late", just as we said just now, there is no need to explain at present. Second: She may say "Haha, there are too many people waiting for you", which further proves that girls are interested. Girls say "No.65438+No.088 female guest", which also reveals that girls may be a little insecure. This information is actually the direction of the topic. In addition, information exchange as the opening of the topic can also give girls a certain sense of familiarity. At the beginning of our acquaintance with girls, familiarity and security are very important, which is related to the follow-up invitation. If familiarity and security are not enough, it is not good to ask girls out in the future. From the girl's reply to the next sentence, it can be seen that this girl has no sense of security for the boy in Cancer, or that her previous boyfriend was Cancer, which hurt her. So we replied, "Are you afraid of selling you? "The reason is to use a humorous tone to resolve, rather than asking girls why. Then the girl explained herself and said, "There may be more cancers in love rat, haha". In fact, it means "I'm afraid all the boys in Cancer are love rat, and I'm afraid you are haha", which means that girls are really insecure about the boys in Cancer, but the word haha means that girls are joking. From the follow-up chat, we can find that the word haha appears frequently in girls' discourse, which shows that girls are in a good mood at present; On the other hand, it shows that girls are more open and have a good impression on us, which will release such emotions. Third, change the topic When she said that she was insecure about Cancer Man, and we used voice reply to appropriately fill in the sense of security and increase familiarity, we still need to continue to guide the topic. Here we choose to change the topic. From the point of view of life, "the beef there is delicious, but it is a bit far away." The girl replied, "yellow mutton is a specialty, three hours' drive." I replied, "it will take me six hours to graduate, but now I have a bullet train." ".In fact, this process is to make us more familiar with girls, which is a transitional stage in the initial chat. Many brothers put most of their energy into humor and wit when chatting with girls at first, but they don't know that although girls may be interested in chatting like this, you know nothing about the lives of both sides. It will be particularly strange when chatting next time, and girls may suddenly become very cold. And we can avoid this situation by establishing a good familiarity with girls in the initial chat. Let the chat behind be more interactive and familiar to both sides. After inviting girls, girls are more likely to agree! Fourth, show yourself. Then I sent a photo, a picture, and explained the origin of the painting to her. By the way, I also asked the girl to talk about her career. In fact, this also shows that girls are slowly sharing their interests, indicating that the establishment of familiarity and security is effective. Girls are willing to share, which shows that girls have a certain sense of security for us. After that, it is not difficult to find that girls are more interested. Fifth, building a sense of security is something that girls attach great importance to. The girl said, "Did you find the treasure boy?" I replied, "Yes, please come to the village to play with me." I humorously gave the girl some availability and guided her. The girl said, "Maybe my chances of coming are relatively low. Haha, the traffic in the village is inconvenient. "What the girl said at the beginning was actually just a girl's reserve. Don't think that girls refuse or are not interested. So we can continue to chat and interact with girls humorously. I replied, "You also went to college in Chengdu." The girl said, "Chuanyin. "This stage is a process of further establishing a sense of familiarity and security with girls. This process is mainly to share with each other and cut in from the perspective of life. It can be found that in this process, both sides have the same topic, and the reason why they have the same topic is because girls are generally interested in food. After a sense of familiarity and security is established, it is necessary to switch topics in time. I said "Aren't you in Chengdu" and the girl said "I am in Bazhong". At this time, I posted some usability and tips. I said, "Well, it's going to be a long-distance relationship"+expression. At this time, the girl said seriously, "why don't you go to Chengdu to find so many beautiful ladies?" "This is a test for girls. I replied, "Well, it's not appropriate." After the reply, I continued to shift the topic to life. I said, "You will go after graduation. "After that, let the topic stay in a more suitable area, so that we can fully understand each other, because after knowing enough, both sides will have more possibilities! In this process, the core thinking has two points: 1, sharing interesting content, keeping the chat interesting and having something to say. 2. Make your point. 6. When the topic is similar to the girl's chat, it is necessary to end the chat and keep the atmosphere, so that the next time you chat with a girl, you will still be in a good mood and there will be no hot and cold situations.