However, this kind of letting nature take its course is only a twist when you don't work hard, and it is also your own deception.
The real letting nature take its course is by no means a simple state of mind and inaction, but a calm after trying your best.
People who have not worked hard are not worthy to let nature take its course.
People who have never paid have no confidence to let nature take its course.
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50-year-old Yu Hewei finally got angry.
The first time I saw Yu Hewei's performance was in "Military Division Alliance". Cao Cao, whom he created, was not angry but powerful, and his whole character was multifaceted and distinct. It can be seen that his understanding of the characters' time and space and situation has interpreted a multifaceted Cao Cao in his own way. People can not only appreciate his hegemony, but also feel the ideals and contradictions as a lean man.
He once played a villain in Historical Sky, and his partner actor commented that his role was "bad to the bone at a glance". Because the role is particularly prominent, it has been recognized by the predecessors in the circle, and it has also gained more opportunities and good roles.
With the appearance of a series of high-scoring works, such as At the Beginning of the Great Renaissance, Armageddon, Awakening Age and Above the Cliff, the middle-aged actor finally became popular.
Some people say that he is a late bloomer, but he says that he should play a good role and let nature take its course.
Personal notes on social accounts only leave a few words, just actors, and are very calm about all voices except works.
In fact, Yu Hewei's acting career was not smooth after his debut for 22 years.
When he was young, Yu Hewei also encountered the dilemma that there was no drama to shoot. He didn't have any job for three years, so he had to practice acting at home with his lover. I've been a walk-on 12 years, and I've experienced various roles without even a line.
At the most painful moment, Yu Hewei once wanted to give up, but when he had a role again, he aroused his love for acting and his persistence in shaping the role. So, he started from a small role, quietly worked hard, accumulated energy, let nature take its course and waited for the opportunity to appear, then seized it hard and never let go.
Now, his efforts have finally borne fruit in time, and time has given him the best answer.
Today, Yu Hewei has not only been nominated for many awards for his outstanding role, but also won more and more heavy roles one after another, becoming one of the most influential first-line actors. It is time to respond to his nature.
Only those who have worked hard can calmly say let nature take its course.
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On the road of life, there are no gains and losses for no reason.
When you want to say let nature take its course, you should also think twice about whether you really have this confidence.
Cousin is often said by elders to be the most energetic person of the same age in the family. He loves art, dabbles in painting, erhu and design, and writes well. In the circle of friends, it is often "Spring blossoms face the sea" or "You didn't come back as scheduled, which is the meaning of parting".
Looking at the circle of friends, I feel that my cousin's life is colorful and delicate.
But in the past two years, my cousin's circle of friends has changed greatly. It's not that the system in the company is inhuman, nor that I complain that I work too much overtime and have no personal life. I'll forward my English punch card later, and I'll start issuing fitness records in a few days. Look at the signature again and change it to "live a life."
When someone really cared about him and was ready to help him, he said that life was too short to let nature take its course.
It can be seen that there are not so many stories of "accidents" in my cousin's life. And where does the endless stream of small "accidents" come from?
When it's time to get down to work, all I can think about is how to find a holiday to go out and play. As a result, it is inefficient and can only work overtime at night. I find it too troublesome to socialize when I want to fall in love. It is better to play a game at home and relax more. As a result, I can only write a sentence "I miss you for a limited time, so I won't see you again" when I eat dog food. The girl with this sentence doesn't know where she is long ago. Do you remember this relationship? I want to jump ship and raise my salary like a friend, but I find that English is a serious injury, but I can stick to my plan of being "disrupted" by overtime and busyness ... from beginning to end, I am always bound by all kinds of things, as if everything is struggling.
In fact, the root of the problem is that some people can neither clearly understand themselves nor stick to their goals for a long time.
What I say is to let nature take its course, but I just make excuses for my dislocation and laziness.
A few years ago, Wang Jianlin's small goal of "earning 100 million yuan first" contributed an enduring topic to netizens. When people are still mocking successful entrepreneurs for being different, they don't care too much. With Wang Jianlin's strength at that time, earning 100 million yuan was really not an unattainable big goal.
In other words, what we want to see is an entrepreneur's understanding of personal ability and relatively accurate goal setting.
Dong Mingzhu once talked about her own experience. From salesman to boss, she knew very well that she had no way out and could only keep moving forward. Her goal is success. Based on this, she must pay the maximum time and energy to cross the line. Therefore, she never arranges any entertainment time for herself. She always gets up in the morning, washes her face and starts to work, and falls asleep when she gets home at night. I only consider how to complete my plan and how to achieve my goal.
J.M. Coetzee once said that you have nothing but youth, but it is these things you have that determine what kind of person you are.
In fact, life is sometimes very simple, clear your position, set clear and accurate goals, and then make great efforts. In this way, it is the positive solution of many problems.
Only those who have really worked hard have the courage to say to themselves and let nature take its course. Because they work hard enough and have enough self-confidence, they believe that the results they expect will come, and the rest is only time.
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You haven't worked hard, so why comfort yourself that it's my luck to get it and my life to lose it?
Cheap comfort does not help personal growth, but brings more reasons to lie flat.
When lying flat has become a habit, what we can say to ourselves when the result is not satisfactory should be that I am not good enough this time, and then I can work harder. Instead of telling yourself that everything is providence.
Those who have worked hard choose to give up triviality and embrace dullness, which is great wisdom. Those who have not had it, who pursue the so-called letting nature take its course, are just deceiving themselves.
Let nature take its course, that is, to be more clear about your position, to move forward more firmly towards your goal, to strive for it with all your strength, and then to reconcile with time and wait calmly.