: The hardest thing in life is not hard work
Time is a medicine. If you master it well, it is the antidote. If you squander it, it is the poison.
Life is not simple. Try to make it as simple as possible. When you can forget your past, value your present and be optimistic about your future, you will stand at the top of life.
Empty the burden of the mind and make life light. Every day, where thinking passes, it is inevitable that some unpleasantness will be absorbed in a corner of the soul. Maybe it's just a moment, maybe it's stubborn and eternal, like a dark cloud in a clear sky, disturbing the order of life.
when the corners of your mouth are upturned, tears will not fall. When you are depressed, let your heart soak in a relaxed atmosphere, and the dirt will slip away dully. Give your mind a bath every day, and life will be refreshing.
Time refuses to turn back, just because hope is always ahead. Time is divided into three parts, one is the past yesterday, the other is the urgent present and the other is the mysterious future. Yesterday brought us to today, and today leads us to tomorrow.
you can follow yesterday's path, but you will never step on yesterday's footprints. Let go of yesterday, cherish today and focus on the future. Since time never turns back, life should be without regrets. Being present is the best choice in life.
The biggest regret in life is wrong persistence and giving up easily. Sometimes, you feel tired because you think too much. Things are unpredictable, you don't have to be too persistent when things happen, and no one can take anything away, so why bother to dwell on a certain moment or thing?
only when you are open-minded and understand, can you follow the fate, be happy, follow your heart, be in no hurry, be in no hurry, be in no sorrow, be silent and indifferent, and be happy.
floating life is like tea, so just think about it. Sweetness is hidden in bitterness, and sweetness is brewed in bitterness, so is life. Whether it's bitter or sweet, you know, it's just the feeling of the moment, but you may not see the change of the next moment.
If life is tea, life is like water. Water can change tea from bitterness to sweetness. The tempering of life can make people transcend suffering and taste the sweetness of happiness. Nothing is sweet without suffering. A thought of bitterness, a thought of sweetness, and a turn of thought is hope.
Life is not simple. Try to make it simple. Time is a medicine. If you master it, it is the antidote. If you squander it, it is the poison. No noise, no noise, quietly guarding the years; Do not complain, do not regret, treat yourself lightly.
take it easy. Take a deep breath. Hold on. Carry it. The most difficult thing in life is not to work hard or struggle, but to make the right choice. Don't give up, go on step by step, and don't let the opportunity slip away.
When you can forget your past, value your present and be optimistic about your future, you will stand at the top of your life.
when you know that success will not make you famous, failure will not crush you, and plain will not drown you, you will stand at the highest place in your life.
when you cultivate enough to tolerate all the unhappiness in life and focus on your own responsibilities rather than interests, you stand at the highest level of spirit.
: How can we get closer to the sky without raising our heads
Author: Pai Daxin
In my opinion, most of our lives are spent laughing at others and ourselves. If laughing at others secretly in private can bring you a little false satisfaction, then I think it's selfish. But after all, I still can't understand, what is the ridicule for myself?
I have such a friend. A long time ago, we were still at school. He always thinks he is great. There are many girls around him all day. Naturally, we have endless breakfasts and drinks every day. Until one day, a fairy-like girl appeared in the next class, and then he changed. He no longer enjoys those steaming love breakfasts, and everyone can't see him coming back from the stadium, sweating and drinking "free" drinks and standing at the door of the classroom. He is no longer the unruly and indulgent one, but everything is still the same, except the girl next door.
inexplicably, the calendar just turned over one page after another. Finally, one day, he got drunk in the bar we often went to. Then he mumbled everything. I didn't interrupt him about the girl, and of course I couldn't get a word in. What I thought I couldn't say with his character, but it drifted weakly to my ear. He degraded himself to nothing, and he simply couldn't see his former self-confidence, the proud teenager. He always regrets how perfect that girl is and how useless she is. Compared with her, she is not even inferior.
So I don't know how many pale days and nights passed, and they all started their own lives. Finally, one day, with the paralysis of alcohol and the encouragement of nicotine, he told her the truth that had been kept in his heart for many years and was about to be erased by time. I heard that the girl cried that night, but on QQ, I just replied a few simple words: "You didn't look up, so I didn't see my admiring eyes." But that once, but never go back.
if you feel humble and you feel like a loser, then you have lost your life completely. Maybe God opens a window and expects you to look up at that dreamy cloud that others can't have. It happened that I never thought that what you saw was the weed that had just bloomed under that window.
only when you look up can you see from afar, and you will see the brilliant light; Will see the wonderful distance. Is that the majesty that flowers and plants can replace? Perhaps only those who have felt it will think something, like ordinary people like us, which we can't understand and look forward to. Having said that, if one day you can really feel the same way, I won't believe that you are still so mediocre, so cynical and proudly sigh that it backfired.
Gu Yan, "No one is perfect without gold". When you bow your head and feel that you don't have a pair of beautiful shoes, you never find a child in trouser legs who is empty in the distance, but whose laughter is as sweet as nature.
Maybe only when you look up slightly, you will see that the world is not so helpless, and there is a dazzling light not far ahead.
In ancient times, there were times when Li Bai braved the wind and waves, and set my cloudy sail straight and bridge the deep, deep sea's ambition, and her husband's ambition not to go to the Tathagata. I also long for one day, standing at the top of the mountain, the kind of greatness that climbs to the top of the mountain and is small in the world; Longing for that day, that kind of majestic standing at the end of the wave and all the flows belong to the sea.
Darkness turns to darkness, and ash follows ash. If you look up, how can you be afraid of sentimentality?
after all, one day, under the erosion of this cruel society, you will stand up straight and lift your head fearlessly, and you will find that the unattainable sky is just above.
: don't let yourself stay in the "comfort zone" all the time!
Author: Don't bother me.
The water purifier shop opened at home has always wanted to recruit a female salesman. The job is quite simple. Most of the time, I stay in the store to do back office work and entertain customers. Only when I go out to do large-scale activities, I need help occasionally. The basic salary we offer is not low, plus the lowest business commission, which is also higher than the local average. We work eight hours a day, and the time is more flexible and relatively free. But it's been almost a year, and none of them have been recruited. A few girls came to try it for a day or two, and soon they said they were incompetent.
A friend who is in charge of recruitment in a local food company told me that the workshop workers in their company work long hours, work in three shifts every day, and often have to work at night. The salary is also the local average, but I am puzzled by the overwhelming number of girls who come to apply.
My friend smiled: To do your job, you need to learn some professional theoretical knowledge and keep learning, and you have the lowest sales task every month. Now some people would rather choose a low-paying and mechanical job than a job that requires a lot of brain power and ability to keep learning.
which job is closer to home with less money? Almost any job that wants to make some achievements requires some efforts.
When you say that teachers are at leisure, you don't see their hard work of reading early and studying at night. You said that bosses are rich and handsome, but you didn't see the pressure when they started their own businesses. You said that many sales industries have high salaries, but you didn't see all kinds of hardships for them to go back and forth.
A girl who can only answer a phone call at the company's front desk can only get her corresponding salary. If she wants to break through, she must break through the "comfort zone" you set, find a goal, embarrass herself, make herself less comfortable, and stick to it.
students l and m were both fat when they were studying. They were about 1.8 meters tall and weighed about 2 kilograms. They were known as the "two guardians of the left and right" in the class. When I was graduating, I saw L's new QQ signature: "Break the comfortable state, be thin or die." Everyone also booed for this, betting that he must be a "deserter" on the road to losing weight like countless times before.
in the third year after graduation, some of our classmates who stayed in this province had a small party. Because of the traffic jam that day, I arrived at the meeting place a little late. I just pushed the door and went in, and my friend lattice pushed a tall, thin and handsome guy in front of me. I look at it carefully. Wow, it's the left protector L. Visually, he weighs about 14 pounds at most. His chubby face has become clear and chiseled.
On that day, L brought her own aura and seemed to be the core figure of the party. After three rounds of drinking, he expressed his motivation to keep fit.
it is difficult to break the comfort level. At the beginning, L was worried that he would give up halfway, so he directly applied for a job in the gym and became an annual card salesman. He practiced with those fitness coaches every day, refused countless food temptations, shed countless sweat, and finally ushered in his perfect counterattack two years later.
But the comfort zone is just like that. I used to think that I would die if I left those dazzling foods, but I still live a healthy life. I used to believe that I can sit and never stand, and I can lie and never sit. As a result, I still have a good time. The adaptability of the body is much stronger than you think.
I have a deep understanding of what l said that day. Fitness is an uncomfortable road. It's much easier to stay at home and eat, drink and drink at will than to report to the gym rain or shine. But when comfort becomes a habit, it will be more difficult to break the habit and start over. It is better to try to keep your body in a "comfortable" state. Maybe you will find that leaving the comfort zone is not as difficult as you think.
Human beings are creatures who seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. We often hear such terms as "late lazy cancer" and "procrastination". To put it bluntly, laziness and procrastination can make us happy physically and mentally, and we don't want to break the current situation for the time being. It's like a rich girl who has no worries about food and clothing is suddenly asked to go to work-study program on weekends, like an otaku who plays games in the dormitory every day is asked to study for exams day and night, and like a person who has to go to work on time every day is asked to work overtime for many days.
One of my friend A's favorite things over the years is sleeping at home and chasing dramas on weekends, and the heavenly king Lao Zi told her not to go out. However, when she changed her favorite job as a journalist, she was either on the way to interview or writing articles day and night on weekends, and every time she saw her, she always looked like a chicken blood. I asked her why, and she said that it was really wonderful to get out of the fixed mode and beat yourself. She found that she didn't seem as weak as she thought, and her ability was so poor. The long and comfortable life made her, who should be full of vigor and vitality, gradually lose herself in the "warm boiled frog" lifestyle.
So, are you still going to stay in the "comfort zone" you set? Maybe when you make up your mind to get out of your comfort zone and do something you have long wanted to do but haven't done yet, you will thank yourself in the future.