Think about it, you are not poor, but you haven't the courage to cross that hurdle yet.
I expect a rainstorm.
It is drizzling,
It has been raining quietly for a long time.
Mixed with leaves,
The cool wind is floating on the earth.
A corner of the city,
Quiet and interesting,
People heard their own heartbeats.
I hope a rainstorm will come,
Break this quiet and suffocating scene,
Let a heart as calm as water ripple,
However, the wind didn't come and the rain didn't come!
At the end of the night,
The sound coming from a distance is like a bell,
The people in the bed are shaking,
Screaming inside,
Dry throat,
But I can't talk.
I expect a rainstorm,
Wash away the silence,
Let the stopped heart beat freely;
I expect a rainstorm,
At the end of the night,
Dilute people's minds,
Let the tossing and turning people have a happy sleep!
/
A rainbow appeared on one side of the sky.
I thought I saw hope,
No night fatigue at all,
Only madness,
There seems to be no more obstacles,
I have found the direction.
/
It's just that things have changed,
The rainbow after a light breeze and a fine rain is only a moment.
There is also the rainstorm I expected, but I haven't seen it yet!
I have nothing to do with you because you are sorry.
You are the strongest wine in youth.
What you commented on later turned out to be something I couldn't bear to delete. Tell me about it.
Leave this city and let the wind take my story away.
There is always a song that makes your heart ache.
You heard my laughter, but you didn't see my crying.
It's hard for me to say what stopped me from coming back to you.
You never belonged to me, let alone lost it.
Who do you love without telling the world?
The big deal is that I quit drinking, and then I quit you.
I can forget all our stories.
I have nothing to do with you because you are sorry.
Don't hide your hypocrisy with my arrogance.
You see, after two or three years, it's summer again.
Your bright smile stung my eyes.
Don't forget your inner peace until the end.
Keep walking, tears keep falling. Are we really separated?
You act like you don't lack me.
I was joking, and then I was busy, and my tears almost came out.
You in my dream are the dawn that wakes me up.
I still can't let go, or I think I'm still struggling.
Is it interesting to stimulate an ex-girlfriend with other people's feelings?
The last thing I want to admit is that I have never let you go.
I want to see how far you can go and how good she is.
The strong will show weakness, and the weak will only show off.
People are not tempted to talk.
Recall who broke in from time to time, making you choose the wrong arms and rely on.
True despair is not jealousy and tears, but a smile.
I put on a tolerant top hat calmly and timidly to forgive myself.
Let the future come and the past let you go.
Nostalgia is an unspeakable longing.
Do you remember those words that were a little fanatical because you were young and naive?
If the river flows backwards, the mountains and rivers will grow old. I want to cut off this lovesickness and go back.
Haven't seen you for a long time. I don't know how ugly you are.
Every time I say in the Bible that God loves the world, I am filled with the sadness that God doesn't love me.
One day, you will sit next to a perfect person.
Some hurts cannot be cured by time.
I understand that comfort now is just warm nonsense for you.
Find an excuse, anyone can go first, I can't bear to go, but you won't stay.
You don't have to do this. You are the most impressive person in my memory.
It's wrong to put down your self-esteem and open your heart to anyone, so they will start not to cherish it.
If you go, don't look back.
I am not as fragile as you think, nor am I haggard and emaciated after separation.
If I leave you, I won't die, but I will miss you very much.
Accustomed to easy dependence and expecting pain. I deserve it.
The story is short. Listen to me. He came and went.
You only know what I said, but you know what I want to say?
Love without ending, I use the plot to support it.
Now it's through the gale. Walk slowly.
Cheap, popular and not unique. Forget it.
Time will dilute a person's memory, but it can't make people forget those memories.
You said that no matter what I became, you would never leave me, so I took off my mask and watched you escape.
Some people say that they don't know how to cherish the loss, but I think the loss after cherishing is the most painful.
Who was right in the first place? I will never give up or let go of my hand, but now? . .
I haven't had time to spend my first birthday with you, so you must be happy and meet someone who knows you better than me and loves you like a life.
Whenever I can't control my emotions, I think about how stupid and frustrating the past was.
Are you okay? Let's not lie.
Don't you like me being lukewarm to you now? Do you know what I look like now, just like you used to?
? ? Even if you don't look back, I will be here.
Lonely for who?
There used to be a blockade, and sometimes I was busy playing down that feeling, a corrosive division. -inscription: the splendor of fireworks will eventually dissipate, and the emotion you really put into it will not last as long as you wish. When I opened it, I saw tears in my eyes and shed tears. That year, you and I were innocent, caring for each other, holding hands to keep warm, and having fun. Is it a fool of the world, or is it shallow? The warmth is still there, and people have left. Maybe young, maybe proud, don't ask us why we parted ways. Maybe it's because I'm inexperienced, I don't know how to get along gracefully, and my feelings fall like sparks. Stubborn temperament, in the face of lost emotions, focused on the cause, years of efforts are irrelevant. Calm down, don't allow yourself to look back, and always remind yourself not to be trapped by feelings. Being a successful woman is better than living a mediocre life. Perhaps, I don't know how to cherish and leave no wounds; Perhaps, only by surpassing ourselves can we make up for the emotional incompleteness. The warmth of the palm is not clenched, but the fingers are locked for a lifetime; If you don't hide the pain in your heart, it won't hurt. Who owes who a debt of love, after all, is full of fog, there is no clue to solve, a farewell is this life. Countless times, I have turned back. I tried to sit down and talk about my sadness, but found that there was no way to find my name except the traces in my heart. Afraid of leisure and the darkness of night, your shadow is eroding my inner world and flooding. Looking through the past again and again, looking for the way to go. It turned out to be a happy ending. Slowly tired, lock up your heart, seal up your love, don't fight against fate, don't do unnecessary tossing, just be content with the status quo! Looking up at the moonlight//text //QQ 1 (reading American classic literature) 07 1603882
How do people become mature?
Text | Koiwai
I like the idea of equivalent exchange in the anime "The Alchemist of Steel" very much.
I have always believed that everything in this universe is energy conservation, and everything has a price, but some are invisible and some are tangible. Some are recognized by the world, and some can only bear it alone.
For single people, there is a saying.
You want what you never got, which means you have to lose what you never lost in exchange.
For example, after peter parker suffered a spider bite mutation, it was a Spider-Man at best. The reason why I became Spider-Man, instead of using my superpowers to make profits for myself, is precisely because I spared criminals, but my uncle was killed, which led to introspection and maturity.
Grow up, some answers are always politically correct. For example, read more books, ponder more, get in touch with excellent people, then think and persist. This is always true, but the question is, why are so few people really able to do this? Of course, there are personality and environmental factors, but there are still many people who can't do it even if they realize it. Why? Because many people lack the motivation to do these things.
You tell a fat man that you want to lose weight. He knows that you want to lose weight, but knowing that you want to lose weight and doing it from the bottom of your heart is as far away as the Pacific Ocean.
On the contrary, a beautiful woman said to the fat man, I will accompany you when you lose weight successfully. This source of motivation will make him excited immediately.
So we, too, have heard so many truths, don't we know right or wrong?
But although I know that some things are right, I don't know if I need to do it, because many right things can't make people happy. What is even more frightening is that we are afraid that even if we do it, there may be no result.
"Now that I have reached the crossroads of my life, I know which way is right. Without exception, I know, but I never walk. Why? Because it's too fucking bitter. " -"The Taste of Women"
Insufficient gastric motility, you can find motilium, and the source of self-change is insufficient. How to find it?
I still like to share some stories, because there are too many things worth thinking about in real experiences, far more than jumping to conclusions.
One.
A classmate in primary school, originally a dude, lives comfortably and richly, has a bad personality and likes to fight. My father died unexpectedly in the fifth grade summer vacation. It is said that he owed a huge gambling debt, and he couldn't get over it at the moment. Later, I sold my house and paid off my debts. From then on, I became silent and studied hard.
He changed suddenly, almost overnight, just like a different person. It is not difficult to imagine how his heart suffered and endured every night after that.
After many years, he has become an excellent and gentle person. He told me that after losing his father, he began to realize what he was like without him. Looking at his crying weak mother, he thought, there are still mothers who need to be guarded by themselves. They must grow up quickly, be strong and reliable, and reassure their mothers.
In this case, it is easy to go to extremes, because an incorrect idea may lead to an evil path. So stories are just stories, not rules. I tell this story to express an idea.
When a person realizes from every capillary that he can't rely on others, can't always pin his hopes on the outside world, and can only protect himself and his beloved by making himself strong, he begins to grow rapidly.
Two.
One of my teachers told me about his brother. My teacher is from rural Qinghai. My family was poor when I was a child. In junior high school, my brother didn't like reading and had a bad temper. He has always wanted to go out to work, and he is always in conflict with his family. One summer vacation, he ran away from home after quarreling with his family.
After searching at home for three or four days, I was desperate. At that time, he went home.
A person, empty-handed, travel-stained, pale. Hide in the room and sleep without saying a word.
After talking with the teacher, I realized that he was cheated to dig a coal mine, but he was left halfway and all his luggage was taken away.
That place is a deserted desert. He walked home alone, sleeping on the street, hungry, worried about the existence of wild animals, worried that he was exhausted in the wilderness at night.
When he woke up in the middle of the night and stared at the starry sky, his heart was instantly calm, and his previous grievances were immediately swept away. He began to think about his own value, the meaning of his family, what the future is, how to spend his life and so on. Although he couldn't say why, he began to learn to reflect and think for himself.
Later, earth-shaking changes took place in my younger brother, and he began to study hard, understand the outside world and ask my teacher a lot of thoughts about life. Really love reading and thinking.
Many years later, he became a high school physics teacher. This is beyond his wildest dreams.
If it weren't for the accident, that really quiet night, maybe he would really wander outside and become a working prodigal son.
Life is to play some casual jokes, turn you around and get in the way, and then give you a different perspective.
Some people discovered it by chance, while others ignored it all their lives. Then remember the past and hate the present. Blame everything on fate.
I'm not sure what Socrates said is true. There is a saying: an unexamined life is not worth living.
A person who doesn't know how to look at the province, drifting with the tide all his life, looks very busy and hard, and may never mature.
Three.
On second thought, I'd better put my own experience on it. When I look back on my former self, I deeply feel the vagaries of life. I can't help but say a few words, which is also self-reflection again.
Many years ago, I once liked a girl very much and was completely infatuated with her. But she is a smart and quiet girl. She thinks I am too naive and impetuous to accept me. I thought that if I read more obscure books, talk more about tall topics and learn more about historical philosophy, girls would think I was mature and talented. I don't know if I am familiar with it. It is the most naive to think of yourself like this.
Because the source of my reading is only to make girls think that I am mature and meaningful, I still resist reading, just swallowing dates and asking little. I can't remember anything after reading it, but I can only extract more wonderful words and phrases, go to Douban to see other people's summaries and book reviews and pretend to have learned them. But at least with this motivation, I began to contact many books. )
In a chat, in order to appear knowledgeable in front of girls. I pretend to know something about the technology of fruit shell net. I didn't expect there was a doctor of science at the scene, so I refuted it lightly. I can't wait to disappear from this world in a few minutes.
Later, I didn't want to read more. I thought my conditions were not bad. She liked it or not, so why did she have to do what she asked?
So I started flying outside, becoming more and more impetuous.
If I go on like this, I will only become a more and more annoying person, with flirtatious speech, quick tongue, full of ambition and empty head.
If nothing else happens.
In the middle of the night when some hormones are impetuous, I saw a girl I like on Weibo. She is so hungry that she wants to have dinner. So you can reply below and I'll drive you there.
Go out excitedly and gallop all the way. So an unforgettable car accident happened that night.
I don't want to describe the specific process of the car accident, but this accident has a great influence on me. The meaning of life and death, the value of life, attitude towards life, etc. It has changed my life in various senses.
A month later, I almost locked myself in my room. I don't want to touch anything except eat and go to the toilet, and I don't want to see anyone.
I began to sleep in a daze, and began to slowly recall my attitude and behavior in recent years, feeling very ashamed.
It's strange that I suddenly feel how to live like before. I began to dig out many books that I had bought and never read before, but I found myself able to calm down and read one by one, and some tears filled my eyes.
The books that have the greatest influence on me are Allen de Botton's Six Ancestors Altar Sutra, Madman, Love Notes, Romance, Crime and Punishment, and Lotus, the only book I have read many times. Although I don't like Anne Baby's other books, many sentences in Lotus really gave me a slap in the face at that time, which made me think deeply and wake up.
These books completely fascinated me with the world of words and thinking, and began to really develop the habit of reading, thinking and writing alone.
Later, I began to adjust myself, simplify my life and interpersonal relationships, define the direction and pursuit of life, and live a full and simple life.
Two years have passed, and all my friends around me, including my parents, have seen my change. I changed from a grumpy and willful smelly boy to a comfortable one now, doing what I like and am good at gently and calmly, constantly starting to learn new technologies, meeting many interesting people and listening to many special experiences and stories. Also let me see the world, more and more soft.
Of course, this accident is not what I expected, but I am still grateful for its occurrence. If it weren't for the car accident, I can't imagine what kind of person I would be now.
After the story is finished, I want to say that young people are always eager for rapid maturity and independence. However, many things are really haste makes waste. It is really difficult to mature without experiencing the nothingness and absurdity of this world, the change and impermanence of life, and the complexity and delicacy of feelings. This is just a disguised sophistication.
You should be emotionally mature, don't be hurt once or twice, and don't be deeply lovelorn. You can't be born mature, you are a born veteran.
What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do. The ancestors have made it very concise.
I once wrote a passage: no one is born sensible, just seeing too many disgusting people.
When we were young, we had too many beautiful imaginations about the world. Only by personally participating in many games and rules of society and reality can you realize the complexity and simplicity, fun and helplessness of this world.
The Bible says, "Go through the narrow gate. Because it leads to destruction, the gate is wide, the road is big, and many people go in; The road to eternal life, the door is very narrow, the road is very small, and few people find it.
In fact, no matter how many suggestions you have, the key is whether you can take the first step yourself.
I have met many people who are dissatisfied with the status quo and want to change, but the next sentence is always self-defense, such as who makes me poor and fat, I don't have a good father, I don't study enough, I don't exercise well, I don't have special skills, and the people I like won't like me. Even if I can't compare with other people's natural winners, or the most disgusting thing is that I want to change, but I have to say with my conscience, I think this ordinary life is quite good now. Good sister, have you ever had an extraordinary life?
If someone insists on self-defense, I can only carve two words for all the misfortunes in his later life: deserved it.
Desire itself is not a bad thing. It is human nature to want to make money, talk with beautiful and excellent people and live a wonderful and interesting life.
The bad thing is that you dare not face up to your own desires, don't want to believe in human plasticity, and suppress your desire to change again and again.
If you want to change, just face your feelings and say it out loud, "I want to change!" " "Nothing shameful!
Pascal asked: What is man in infinity?
How does a person define himself, change himself and find himself? This is the biggest topic in everyone's life.
I like Pascal's answer: man is just a reed, the most fragile in nature, but he is a thinking reed.
With you, there is an English proverb for each other-
"The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago. The second best time is now. "
The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. )
I especially believe that the most important thing in every life is to constantly update yourself.
* * * Building a Green Dream
The wind swept people crazily with dust, and the streets echoed with whining roar, and some people began to feel uneasy. Draw a strange circle in the air, as if it were midnight, with scarlet jaws open. People seem to sneak at the bottom of the desert, and their eyes continue to sink like skeletons. Temptation, adventure, burnout and discomfort are integrated, and stimulation, enjoyment, catharsis and desire are integrated.
I don't know when it started, but Green started counting with boring grains of sand. The light of the forest and grass and the joy of butterflies and birds are gone forever. The eyes of the waves, the tenderness, softness and lingering of the river; The waves of tears filled the lake with tranquility, beauty and drunkenness. Coupled with absurd promises and hypocritical eulogies, they are no match for the diffuse dust.
Once mountains and rivers, birds and flowers only condensed into a dream. Dust and dreams, in the vast sea, mirage rises and falls.
In the shy and beautiful image of green mountains and green waters, the fragrance of a lock of hair once attracted dew on 10 thousand blades of grass. These have been seen by the moon and the stars, but we are no longer blessed. The only thing we can enjoy now is some remaining tomb pages-gifts of dust.
In the quiet ancient temple, the bell pierced the dust and sounded the soul in the depths of life. Is that clock fighting against dust, or is it accepting the ridicule brought by dust ―― obsolescence, aging and death. These are all conspiracies between dust and time, and there is no agreement on their frame-up.
When people realize the dust, the days have been occupied by the dust. The ubiquitous sand falls on people's youth, voice, skin, age and desire. Many people have nowhere to run, being chased and killed by dust.
There are leaves on the reinforced concrete skeleton, and no birds sing. Why isn't there a trace of blue over the city?
Empty mountains are speechless, birds are extinct, birds have returned to their nests and heaven has been destroyed. After hovering over the ruins of the mountain, birds may find new homes and small trees, but they can't find their own lives anymore.
When humans learned to cut down the first tree, human civilization began; When humans cut down the last tree, civilization ended.
The bloody massacre is over. It's time for us to meditate! Those floods, mudslides and sandstorms are warnings to mankind!
Modern anxious to return, in the final analysis, is to pursue green mountains and green waters!
A hymn rang out in the sky.
Man, in the sorrow of looking forward to the Millennium, do you hear the tremor from the depths of your soul?
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There is no shortcut to success, you need to be down to earth.
The road to making dreams come true is a process of hard work, step by step. Dreams are naturally indispensable, but the spirit of pragmatism cannot be lost. There is no shortcut to success, you need to be down to earth.
When talking about The Secret of Success, the famous writer Er Yuehe said, "I have no talent, but I am very lucky. I basically work hard at writing novels. Try it if you don't believe me. I have been writing for more than ten hours every day for twenty years, but I have to write something anyway. "
In recent years, Lin Qingxuan, a writer who ranks in the forefront of the best-selling list almost every year, said: "I am the son of a farmer. My family has been farming for generations, and I had an experience in the farmhouse: I can only harvest once a year, but I have to work in the fields every day. The same is true of the writer's spirit, which is also the criterion I give myself. " He has been writing nonstop for 20 years. In fact, not only writers, but everyone in the industry should learn from the spirit of farmers and work hard every day. At that time, they will always see the harvest.
There are not many people in this world who really have great talents. Talent is a scarce resource, and luck is hard to come by. Only strength is inexhaustible. It is the key to making achievements and climbing stairs at work, and it is suitable for any work. Doing a good job is the basic fulcrum for us to do a good job and promote our work. The spirit of hard work can make a young man realize his wishes and stand out from the crowd.
Valentino studied fashion design and production skills in fashion capital of the world. After finishing my studies, I returned to my native Italy and opened a fashion shop in Rome. Unexpectedly, one year later, his business is still so deserted that he can't afford the cheapest apartment.
This failure made valentino realize that he must improve his skills and do business in a down-to-earth manner. Since then, he has worked hard to practice his skills and used every opportunity to learn from others. Whether it is a fashion master or a busker, as long as the other person has a skill, he must learn it. Even if it is a gesture of a famous teacher bowing, he can see it in his eyes, remember it in his heart and ponder it carefully. Everything comes to him who waits. After eight years, his skills have matured and his popularity has naturally improved. All the aristocratic women in Rome are happy to ask him to design fashion. Later, politicians, celebrities and superstars all over the world were proud to wear his fashion designs. He is recognized as "the king of high fashion".
In fact, every progress will not fall from the sky, and success at every stage is not achieved by luck. The road to making dreams come true is a process of hard work, step by step. Dreams are naturally indispensable, but the spirit of pragmatism must not be lost. If dreams are the ladder and the door to success, then a pragmatic attitude and pragmatic actions are every step left by taking a step.
Emerson warned us: "When a person is young, who hasn't had time to think?" Who hasn't fantasized? Fantasy is a sign of youth. However, young friends, please remember that people will grow up after all. The world is so vast and the world is so beautiful. You need not only a pair of fantasy wings, but also a pair of down-to-earth feet! "
No one can succeed by talent alone. Only hard work is the inexhaustible source of wealth. Success will only care for those who work hard. Lazy people can't achieve great things, because lazy people always covet comfort and are afraid when they encounter a little risk. They lack the spirit of hard work and are always waiting for the pie to fall from the sky. Laziness will devour people's hearts and destroy people's bodies. Bill Gates said: "Laziness, idleness and hate of work are the root of all evil." Because they refuse to pay, they can't be winners in social life, but only losers.
Diligence, first of all, is a positive attitude towards life; Secondly, it is also the only way for each of us to become a talent. If you want to achieve something, you must have a diligent working attitude. Three minutes of enthusiasm can't inspire us, and the birth of success requires persistent efforts. As the philosopher Poincare said: "Unexpected inspiration can only be generated after some days and conscious efforts. Without hard work, the machine will not start and will not produce anything. "
Xiao-Ting Pan, a professional billiards player who is praised as the "Queen of Nine Balls" by the media, won the first Asian "King of Balls Cup" in 2002 and the 35th World Women's Nine Balls Open in Osaka, Japan. Xiao-Ting Pan can have today's achievements, and her contribution is incomparable to ordinary people.
Xiao-Ting Pan started practicing in his father's arena at the age of 15, and practiced for four years. In those four years, her father made it mandatory for her to practice for 8 to 12 hours every day. There was no weekend and she could only rest for half a day a week. Even if I am sick, I will take an intravenous drip in the hospital in the morning and return to the stadium in the afternoon to make up for the day's practice time.
15 When she started to contact the club, her father told her that if she wanted to be the best, she had to pay more and sacrifice more than others. My father is a football player and basketball referee. He wants Xiao-Ting Pan to do nothing or stand at the top of the pyramid like him. In order to achieve this goal, people practice for three hours, and Xiao-Ting Pan will practice for several more hours, so that it is possible to catch up with others.
Xiao-Ting Pan said: "I can't stand this pain, I can't stand this crime, I will give up early and find another way out;" However, once you choose this road, suffering becomes the most basic preparation for success. It depends on whether people have tolerance for suffering. People with strong endurance will taste the joy of success sooner or later. "
In fact, success is not that difficult. Choose a goal that suits you, then stick to it, and you will succeed one day. Years later, when you look back on the road you have traveled, you will surely find that you have the same persistent spirit. With perseverance, no matter what the result is, you have succeeded.
If you are very talented, diligence will enhance it; If you only have ordinary talent, diligence can make up for it. Pay as much as you want. Nothing for nothing. Only by working hard can you get everything you want. Diligence is the most solid foundation for people's success and the guarantee for people's career success. Real success is a process, which is to integrate diligence and hard work into daily life and into daily work. There is no shortcut to success, you need to be down to earth.