Signature on the Internet: The joke about being divorced and raising two children means don’t flirt with her if you have nothing to do. If you have been divorced, you have had a man, so sweet talk and deception will not work. In addition, the person who comes to flirt with you will directly become a stepfather and have to raise a child. You can use this to scare the other person away quietly and make them retreat when they are faced with difficulties. It can also be a metaphor. It is difficult for you to handle it yourself. There are a lot of requirements, so you can leave on your own if you are not mentally prepared.