Chasing girls is just like looking for a job. You must first find a target that you like and is suitable for, and then find a way to make the other person accept it or even like you.

So, we can divide chasing girls into four steps: finding the target - target analysis - self-cultivation - decisive attack.

How to do it specifically?

1. Find a goal

You have to find a goal that you have set for it to be meaningful. If you are ordinary and aim at the school beauty, then you can only be a joke.

Remember, it is not impossible for a diaosi to counterattack Bai Fumei, but when a diaosi counterattacks, he is no longer a diaosi.

The essence is still value matching.

Therefore, when looking for and pursuing goals, you must measure whether the values ??of yourself and the other person match. Then based on the matching results, you can choose a goal that suits you.

But it should be noted that it does not mean that the value matches, or that your value is higher than his, it will definitely succeed.

This is just the beginning, and value matching is only a possibility.

The real technology will be shown next.

2. Goal analysis

It is to analyze the needs of girls, that is, to analyze what kind of boys girls like.

The one wearing glasses in the first row, try saying "Tall, rich and handsome" again! shallow! vulgar!

What nonsense are you talking about?

Indeed, everyone likes tall, rich and handsome people!

If you like someone who is tall, rich and handsome, you are not superficial! Not vulgar either! Girls all over the world like it!

Why do girls love money?

This preference also has a history. In the primitive period, the era when men farmed and women weaved, and until the reform and opening up of the relationship between the sexes, men could not reproduce without women, and women could not survive without men, so men Providing female childbearing is the foundation of the relationship between the sexes, and this selection mechanism has been maintained for tens of thousands of years.

In the past thirty years, many girls have become financially independent and no longer need you to support them. But the "feeling of wanting to be nurtured by you" is still something deeply ingrained in their genes.

Just like having big breasts is something engraved in your genes.

Stephen Chow is not only the king of comedy, but also the king of flirting. In "The King of Comedy", the poor loser Yin Tianchou shouted to Liu Piaopiao, "I support you!"

Liu Piaopiao earns much more than him and doesn't need him to support her at all.

However, it was this sentence "I will support you" that moved Liu Piaopiao and fell in love with him.

Today’s women don’t need you to support them financially, but you have to give her a feeling of “supporting her”.

Why do girls like handsome guys?

Although this really doesn’t need an explanation, in order to prove that I have indeed read the book, I still want to show off: Some psychologists have said that staring at handsome guys for 10 minutes a day can have the same fitness effect as Doing 30 minutes of aerobic exercise can extend the average life span by four to five years.

In addition to the preference for handsome men, women also have a preference for talented men (men with high IQs) (human beings have entered civilized society for thousands of years, and the selection preference for good genes has included a high IQ).

We found that at the biological level (the foundation of the biological level is DNA, and the internal drive is extremely strong) men actually have only one need for women, and that is reproduction (this is not the objectification of women, in the reform and opening up This was the case for tens of thousands of years before we had enough to eat). As for other sociological needs, they all arise after a full meal.

At the biological level, women have two needs for men: 1. Support, 2. Provide excellent genes.

Some people discovered this phenomenon as early as the Warring States Period, so there is an idiom called "eating in the east and staying in the west".

At different stages, women sometimes prefer to choose providers, and sometimes prefer to choose gene providers. Many brothers have a misunderstanding, thinking that being a gene provider must be good. In fact, being a gene provider It’s hard to get into a stable, long-term relationship.

For example, Zhang Zhiming in the "Zhiming Chunjiao" series is a perfect genetic provider. He is often considered unreliable by Yu Chunjiao, and he was cuckolded by a powerful provider in his previous relationship.

After all, for women, it is impossible to survive without a provider. Without a genetic provider, the offspring will just have worse genes (this is the instinctive feeling. Although women can now support themselves, but Genes will drive them to choose this way)...

3. Self-cultivation

What girls hate most is not fat men or short men, but wretched men.

There are three forms of obscenity: obscene appearance; obscene actions; obscene thoughts.

My appearance is wretched

I won’t talk about the fact that my parents have no choice but to accept my body, hair and skin. But you have to pay attention to how you dress, right? You should not violate the minimum taboos, right? For example: not washing your oily hair when going out, wearing a messy hair style, having a bad body odor, wearing black leather shoes with white socks, etc.

Behaving obscenely

For example, those who like to take advantage of girls; those who do one thing in front of others but another behind their backs; those who like to tell dirty jokes in public, etc.

Vulgar thoughts

Some boys complain that girls are "money-worshipping" when they can't woo girls. Although it is true that some girls are greedy for money, most girls hope to find a reliable man. boys. If you have problems, just actively correct them. Why should you maliciously speculate on others?

4. Attack decisively

(1) Principle: Be confident and have a framework.

Confident and well-organized people know what they want, and they also know how to respect others. They understand that girls are to be attracted, not pursued. They would rather spend time doing things that can increase their own value, to effectively improve their inner cultivation and external wealth, than spend time desperately licking girls.

(2) "Market" rather than "promote" yourself.

To make the other person have a good impression of you, you need to:

1 Show your high value and make the other person feel that she is "worthy of having".

2 Naturally show appropriate concern for her and let her feel your affection for her.