According to research, the children raised by these four kinds of mothers tend to feel inferior and introverted, and it is difficult to get along when they grow up.
First, a mother with a bad temper.
In primary school, there was a classmate Amin. His mother is in business and has a bad temper. She often beats and scolds Amin when she comes home every night. Therefore, Amin was introverted since childhood, often did not participate in any activities in the class, and had few friends around him. When I grew up, I found a small job in my hometown and was unknown.
In fact, when the child is young, especially before the age of three, whether the mother's attitude towards him is good or bad directly affects whether the sense of security can be established. If the mother has a bad temper and often beats and scolds the child, the child's character will be easily suppressed, become unconfident and have no future when he grows up.
Second, the mother who talks mean.
Thomas Lee was born in a single-parent family, and his mother was miserable because of the pressure of marriage and work. Once I got 95 points in a math exam by Thomas Lee, and I showed it to my mother excitedly. My mother sneered: others scored 100, and I was embarrassed to sign it for you! From then on, Thomas Lee became unmotivated in his studies, his grades plummeted, and the whole person became lifeless. When he grew up, he developed very generally.
A mother with harsh words may be trying to motivate her children to make progress, but her words are full of negative incentives. Excessive pressure will suffocate children and gradually become inferior and cowardly.
Third, I like to take advantage of my mother.
Zhang Tao's family is ordinary, her mother is a small clerk in the company, and her salary is very small, so she has developed the habit of taking advantage of small things. Every time I go to the supermarket, my mother always takes Zhang Tao to try all kinds of small things. Also told him: it is a fool not to take advantage.
However, as he grew older, Zhang Tao felt more and more humiliated. She feels that her mother's behavior is wrong, that the children around her look down on herself, and that her personality is becoming more and more introverted and withdrawn.
Thrift is a virtue, but if the mother goes too far and often takes advantage of petty advantages, it will have a bad influence on the children, become petty and even love petty theft. Personality will become introverted and inferior, and it is difficult to achieve much.
Fourth, a very vain mother.
Liu Na is in the fourth grade of primary school. She has one characteristic: strong vanity. For example, I often tell my classmates: I only eat imported fruits, but I can't stand the taste of domestic fruits. Everyone thought that her family was well-off, but later she realized that this was not the case. Liu Na's family was poor, but her mother was vain since she was a child, which also made Liu Na form this habit. Since then, the children around her are unwilling to play with her.
In fact, vain people often feel particularly inferior. They often exaggerate all kinds of things for fear that others will look down on them. This kind of person is fragile in heart, and it is difficult to face the fierce competition and future development of society.
Therefore, when educating children, mothers must set an example and set a good example for their children, so that their children can benefit all their lives and develop greatly in the future.
Dear mothers, if you want your children to have a good future, please check yourself, don't be the above mothers!