Debate always involves two extremes. After the two sides tore at each other, the winner was chosen. But life is different. It is not good to choose to be cold and violent to your parents in language, or to have a quarrel as if nothing had happened. Think about it a little.
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When we grow up, we have a career, a family, a poem and a distant place, but we have no time to get along with our parents. Fortunately, there are telephones and WeChat to connect us with our parents, but look at the chat records. In fact, not much, just a few words, "Have you eaten? How have you been recently? Are you busy at work? " I can go home to see my parents during the holiday, and I am busy with my work for a few days.
Actually, you don't have to be so pessimistic. Isn't there a song called "Come home often"? Just go home and have a look If you stay for a long time, your parents will bother you, too. As the saying goes,' after a long relationship, you will come sooner or later'.
The night after the final exam, I went out with some buddies to celebrate the robbery and make up for the 2020 New Year's Eve dinner. Next, the winter vacation is coming, which means the Spring Festival is coming. I asked them, "How do you celebrate the New Year?"
This question is quite interesting, because our hometown is far apart and the custom of Chinese New Year is different. Not to mention the differences between the north and the south, only some places in the north have different customs. Plus, every family has its own family motto, so the New Year is more like a family.
My family spent the Spring Festival in Dalian, and there are no relatives here. The Spring Festival is almost the same as usual. Many people say that there is no taste of Chinese New Year now. I think the taste of Chinese New Year is just a kind of popularity. The quarrel is the end of the year, parents no longer rush to get married and wait for their grandchildren.
Huh? I digress, come back quickly. I am talking about celebrating with my friends. There are few greasy barbecue dishes, and of course I have drunk a little wine. A buddy (hereinafter referred to as Old A) said years ago that he would work part-time in Shenyang and go home later.
Old A is an excellent person. He lost 40 kilograms from more than 200 kilograms. When he entered junior year, the whole person changed. He used to be the king of the canyon, but now he is a bookworm in the library. He is also smart and learns things quickly.
Years ago, I heard him say that he was going to Shenyang to do a part-time job. I told him that you might as well go home and spend more time with your parents if you do a part-time job. He said that he stayed at home for a long time in the past holiday, and his parents were annoyed to see him and asked him to go out and find a part-time job. There's another one. He hasn't worked part-time and wants to try.
After listening, I won't say anything. Everyone has their own ideas. Everyone wants to be better, take a part-time job and feel feelings. This is a good thing.
I said, instead of taking a part-time job, it is better to go home and spend more time with my parents. There is no special meaning. I just want to do this. I like a teacher's signature, which reads:
I packed my bags, but I couldn't get out of my eyes. From then on, parents only have their backs, and their hometown only has winter and summer.
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The night before yesterday, when I was out running, my good friend who was a soldier called me to chat. He told me last August that he wanted to be a soldier and that he could not learn anything at school. I said you can think about it. It takes two years to go there. He said it was better than school. See if I can get into the military school. If not, come back and choose a good major.
They don't have a holiday during the New Year in China. They told me that he was fat. I said the food in the army is very good. He said that if the country is good, our army will be good. I said, where the hell are you? I will come to see you. Can I tell you? It's all confidential I have to go and see it anyway.
I used to go to KTV with my brother. He always ordered a song "Green Flowers in the Army", which made my ears cocoon. The prologue was like "I wanted to be a soldier before, but I didn't get in". Now I have a good buddy in the army, holding a bowl and thinking, can you miss home? Can it be as written in the lyrics? Dear comrades, don't miss home, don't miss your mother.
When we grow up, our relationship with our parents becomes' subtle'. It's the same song "Go home and have a look". It's good to go home often. I don't get bored if I watch too much. Even if you are good-looking. If you stare at your parents, you can't see the object.