Love always goes both ways. If you want to have a sweet love, you must know what he thinks, love what he loves and pay for the person you love.
Women should remember that if men want to be obsessed with you and only spoil you, they must learn to "attack the heart" and let men see your goodness and your sincerity to him.
In fact, the policy here is not that you should set a routine for a man, but that you should get to know him and get along with him in the way he likes, so that you can get closer to his heart. In feelings, we must change our hearts, and women must understand this.
It is often more effective to make a man infatuated with you and learn to "attack the heart".
First, appreciate and praise men.
When a woman loves a man, it must be because something in him touches your heart. However, as time goes on, romantic love will become more and more dull. At this time, you can only see the shortcomings of a man, but you can't see his advantages.
I have a friend. She has been with her husband for more than ten years. Now their feelings are as sweet as when they first fell in love. Every day when she gets off work, he waits for her silently outside.
Friends have secrets of love. She told me that when we get along with our lover, we should pay more attention to each other's advantages, appreciate each other's bright spots, and keep in mind all his kindness to ourselves.
If a woman wants a man's love, she must learn to appreciate and praise him. For example, if he does housework with you, you should try to encourage him instead of discouraging him. When all he gets from you is positive feedback, he will be more willing to be with you.
Second, look at the problem with male thinking.
Men and women see things from different angles, so some people will say that men are Martians and women are Venusians. In feelings, men are usually rational, while women are emotional.
If you want to win a man's heart, you must learn to see things with a man's thinking. Many times, it's not that men don't love you, but that you feel insecure, but that you think too much.
For example, what men need more is an independent space. Maybe you want more company from a man, so when he is alone, you will blame him for not understanding your heart. However, have you considered his feelings and his mood?
When a man is under great pressure, he really wants to be alone. At this time, if you can set him free and leave him alone, he will think from the bottom of his heart that you are a woman who knows him very well, men will never forget you, and he will love you more and more.
Third, pay more attention to male body language.
Men and women are different. When a woman is in a bad mood, she will be eager to talk to someone, while a man will hide all his troubles in his heart.
However, if a person has something on his mind, he cannot hide it. Even if he doesn't talk to you, his body language can't fool people.
If you really love him, you should pay more attention to a man's body language, so that you can see his emotional changes. If he is unhappy, you can help him solve it at the first time. If he is in trouble, you can send him comfort and care at the first time.
Men also have a vulnerable side. If you can cure him in his fragile moment, men will surely remember your kindness. After that, he will become more and more dependent on you and cannot live without you.
Love never waits. If you really like a man, you should strive for your own happiness.
If you want a man to be obsessed with you, you must learn to be aggressive, appreciate and praise a man's talent, try to think with a man's mentality and pay attention to his body language. The more you know him, the easier it is to get close to a man's heart.