Second, the so-called persistence is getting shorter and shorter, and those beliefs disappear in my heart, not because I am not persistent enough, but because I am disappointed too much.
Third, there is nothing wrong with being naive. People will grow up one day, so why not mature too early and lose it too early. .
4. [Tears are not the answer, but struggle is the choice. There is only a past that cannot be returned, and there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached. ]
I thought I was too weak to bear the impermanence of the world, but I also endured this long lonely journey silently.
6. Be tolerant of others and you will feel that you are good at bullying others.
Seven, [if one day I don't send you a message, don't take the initiative to find you, will you forget me]
When I dream of your face again, I can't remember your name.
When you see through everything, you will know that losing is actually more practical than having.
10. No matter how warm it is, it won't stop.
You never care about my feelings. Why should you expect me to take care of you?
Girl, remember that you are not Che Enshang. You don't have so many black knights to protect you, you have to protect yourself! !
I forgot. [I just rely on memory]
Why does everyone know that I like you and you don't?
15. At first, I set your space permission to only my friends, but I couldn't get in at last.
Honey, I want you to accompany me to watch the sunrise in winter.
I haven't forgotten anything, but some things are only suitable for collection. I can't say, think or forget.
I'm relieved to hear that you are not doing well.
Nineteen, have you ever seen a person who loves to laugh cry?
Am I being sentimental? Am I black? Am I overbearing? Do I need your comments?
Twenty-one, these years have your time to illuminate my loneliness.
Twenty-two, [no one is more reasonable before love, only who is more affectionate]
I am afraid that I will die in my unrealistic fantasy.
The person who really knows you is the one who sees pain in your smile.
Don't live in my heart for no reason. Give me a knife and a candy when I am in pain.
Twenty-six, if you care, you will think about it. Don't even care about it.
I told myself I couldn't rely on you, but I didn't expect that I had sunk in, sunk in deeply, and was hopeless.
28. If you fall in love, don't give up easily, don't ask the person who loves you about the past or the future.
Twenty-nine I never regret the people I met. What I regret is how I became who I am now. ...
I have a very loving person, and we are not together.
Thank you for letting go when I needed you most.
32. Have I tried to be brave enough to make you think I am strong? ......
33. Did I come at a bad time and have to choose to miss you?
Even your period will leave you when you are old, let alone a man.
If I cry, I wish I had a shoulder to lean on.
I just can't warm people like this. I am strong, aren't I? I've changed a lot.
How is your life? Are you naturally awake and accompanied by sunshine?
-I'm glad you hurt me, so that all my grievances in the future will be less painful.
39. The so-called happiness is that a fool meets a fool, which attracts the envy of countless people and rises and falls together.
Forty, why should we leave the most unreasonable side to the closest relatives?
I can't say why I love you, but I know that you are the reason why I don't love others.
Forty-two, [How do you remember whether I am smiling or silent]
43. Tears are not the answer, but struggle is the choice. There is only a past that cannot be returned, and there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached. Dearest self
44. I don't want anyone to possess your good and your bad except me.
Forty-five, Gunara, the god of darkness, alas, grandma black has changed!
Forty-six, it is better to actually do it than to make many vows.
Forty-seven, the rest of the decades are looking for someone who can make up for your sadness.
Forty-eight, you promised me everything, but you gave me nothing; I promised nothing, but I gave you everything.
49. Don't let yourself appear precocious when you are young.
At fifty, I can't help feeling sad, so I slowly learned to hide and disguise.
5 1. Finally, I spit on you and said that you were like this before, but you have always been like this.
52. I don't know if you are the only one in my life.
Fifty-three, there are always people who can easily get what I have worked hard for a long time.
54. Loss is like a beating heart. Suddenly someone holds it down until you can't breathe.
Thank you for your rudeness, which made me learn to give up.
56. After all the changes in life, this smile is still pure.
As for why I can't live without you, it's probably because you are so warm.
Fifty-eight.-Don't throw cold water on me when I'm happy, or I'll throw it back when I cook ~
Fifty-nine, you are not my ideal, you are beautiful, thousands of times more than my ideal.
Sixty. -I'm really scared. Who should I argue with all day without you?
Sixty-one, I really want to go back to my original place. The initial time. Let me love each other.
Sixty-two, whether girls take the initiative will not be cherished.
Forgive me for my inability to keep everyone I don't want to lose.
You can't always stand on tiptoe to love someone. Your center of gravity is unstable, and you won't last long.
Sixty-five, [it is better to be an enemy than to hurt his heart]
Sixty-six, [Why do you listen to my bark when you are a striker]
Sixty-seven, from that moment on, become friends who will never return.
With the popularity of the Internet, everyone has been hurt and shed tears.
1. Those who really wait for you will always wait sincerely. People who don't want to wait for you always hold hands with others as soon as they turn around.
2. Life is simple and charming, and people are happy with a simple heart; Learning to be simple is not simple.
Life is a long journey. Don't waste time waiting for those who don't want to walk hand in hand with you.
The best feeling is that someone understands what you want to say.
5. There is always a fall in life, which urges us to grow up in an instant. There is always a storm, which makes us learn to be strong.
6. Sometimes, leaving is not a simple turn, but a lifetime of happiness.
7. Our biggest mistake is to give the worst temper and the worst side to the closest people.
8. I want to forget you a thousand times, but I miss you a thousand times.
9. Take the initiative because you care. I don't contact because I feel redundant.
10, there are only two kinds of feelings in the world: one is to feel sorry for each other but get tired of getting old, and the other is to forget the rivers and lakes but miss crying.
1 1. The only person who can make you miserable is the one who can make you happy. Those who make you laugh also make you cry.
12. Missing is only a moment, but missing is a lifetime.
13, I don't regret what I did. My only regret is that I didn't do something when I had the chance to do it.
14. The person who loves you the most in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you.
15, many things will always be understood after experience. Only after experiencing pain will you know how to protect yourself. Only after experiencing stupidity will you know how to persist, give up in time, and gradually know yourself in gains and losses.
16, don't judge a person by what you see, because what you see may be what they want you to see.
17, knowing clearly whether it is a play or an acting with true feelings; Knowing it was a game, I managed to get in. Don't regret if you give up. You shouldn't remember it if you lose it. Put down what should be put down and quit the drama without ending.
18, life is like dandelion, seemingly free, but in fact it is involuntary.
19, romance doesn't need to spend a lot of money, but enjoy some small things with the right people. This is the greatest romance in life.
20, youth is a heavy rain, even if you catch a cold, you still look forward to bathing and changing clothes.
2 1, companionship and understanding are more important than love.
22. Only when you are down and out will you know who is a fool who is worried about you and who is a stranger.
23. When you meet someone you like, you have to take the initiative to be a bitch.
24. Many times, politeness is not used to express self-cultivation and politeness, but to create distance.
25. A passerby who falls in love with the protagonist is doomed to disappear at the end of the story, because the end is for two protagonists.
26. It's mine. It's mine. Leaving can only show that it never belongs to me. We must learn to compromise.
27. There will always be a song that will make you fall into deep memories.
28, don't always sigh, don't always say yourself so delicate and touching, everyone has been hurt and shed tears, not necessarily that you are more painful than others, but that you express yourself more wonderfully.
29. Choose a posture and let yourself live irreplaceable.
30. Growing old together has nothing to do with love, but patience. But patience is a kind of love. Therefore, the person who really loves you is actually the person who is willing to put up with you all the time.
The so-called upbringing is not embarrassing.
Abstract: The highest state of education is to make people comfortable, and the most direct embodiment of education is not to make people embarrassed.
When I was a child, I watched martial arts movies and always wanted to be the one with true temperament. I ate a lot of meat and drank a lot of wine. I didn't cheat the bad guys, nor did I bow and scrape to the authorities.
Those personable little people are hypocritical, and their bones are full of intrigue and calculation. How annoying.
But in the end, none of us became Ling Huchong. We also learn to put away our emotions and keep smiling. It is inevitable to submit to humiliation, and there is nothing to deal with.
Life is not a Jianghu, and we find it more difficult to cultivate people not to be embarrassed than to be straightforward.
A big V told the story of his first meeting with Li Ka-shing. In his imagination, such a business tycoon is bound to arrive late. After everyone applauds, he will give a speech again.
But the real scene is that the eldest brother is standing at the elevator, shaking hands with every visitor and handing in his business card. The seating of the dining table was not deliberately divided, but decided by drawing lots. He himself sat at each table for 15 minutes.
When saying goodbye, he shook hands with everyone, including the waiter standing in the corner.
In China, eating can best test a person's self-cultivation. At a gathering of more than a dozen people, every word can take care of everyone and not let anyone be left out in the cold. No wonder Li Ka-shing has made such achievements.
During the war, we tried every means to make the enemy uncomfortable. However, in peacetime, the degree to which you make others comfortable determines your success.
The highest state of education is to make people comfortable, and the most direct embodiment of education is not to make people embarrassed.
Some people pretend to be straightforward, but in fact they are just uneducated.
Writer Yang Qixin wrote such a short story:
In the WeChat group, everyone spits, why is this society so hypocritical? Why not advocate telling the truth? I despise those who don't say it directly. I'm not sincere.
At this time, someone said, you idiots. How can you curse when others are angry?
The other party said, I think you are stupid, so I said, then do you think I am sincere or uneducated?
A person's education depends not on himself, but on the evaluation of others. He just follows his heart, but never considers the feelings of others. No wonder it's not selfish?
True temperament will only be reserved when it needs to be true, and always keeping other people's feelings in mind is the way to do things.
It's not embarrassing, it seems simple, but it's inevitable to accidentally hurt others.
A person's upbringing, all in the details:
First, change everything you say "wrong" to "right". Don't deny others easily, affirm others' views and give different opinions.
You can play a joke on your friend once in a while, but you must never joke about what he likes.
Third, when we meet for the first time, we must try to remember other people's names. Many people say they can't remember other people's names. In fact, you don't remember, but you don't care.
Fourth, no matter how angry you are, you can't say anything that really hurts the other person's self-esteem. The more familiar people know about each other's death, but don't hurt others because of familiarity.
Five, see through, but don't find out, leave some room for others. If you find the other person saying something wrong or lying, don't expose it to his face. Others show off with fake bags, there is no need to poke them in person.
These things are not difficult, but it is difficult to cover everything, to understand other people's minds with wisdom, and to communicate with others with sincerity and kindness. This is education.
Many people think that people who always maintain high self-cultivation are hypocritical.
But if the other person's cultivation makes you feel only a sense of distance, not a kind of warmth, it is not really high cultivation.
Bai Juyi said that the way to treat others and do things is nothing more than "cultivating the mind and observing the body." If you want to be taken seriously, you must first pay attention to others.
Truly educated people are generous and sincere because they think what people think:
They can remember everyone's name, treat everyone with heart, find your bright spot and praise it.
Some people will say what's so great about these people? Without strength, they will only be opportunistic and engage in interpersonal relationships.
Many people we meet in life are indifferent to others, too lazy to deal with unfamiliar people and rarely praise others. Lazy and indifferent people, who is qualified to judge those who live hard?
A good education is by no means hypocritical or opportunistic. IQ is hard power, but education is soft power-
How comfortable you are speaking can determine the height you can reach.
Tell me about the other person's non-mainstream tattoo and shed tears.
1, the moment when you obviously don't want to give up, but you want to throw away things about memory in the past.
If you can't express yourself for a long time, you can call it aphasia.
I have never given up everything for anyone, because no one is desperate for me.
4. If you don't want to do it, make an excuse; If you want to do it, you will find a way.
5. Simple life. My mind is blank. Now it's all up to you.
6. Any day, any second, you will make a decision that may change your life.
7. I was still waiting for you in the same place, but you forgot that you had been here; Love is so short, forgetting is so long.
8. If one day you lose me, I will never let you find me.
I'm used to life without you, but I still can't forget you.
10, the person I love is not my lover. Every inch of her heart belongs to another person.
1 1, I just want to hear your voice, even if there is only one sentence, even if I don't have such rights.
12, no more tears. You ask me who my tears will flow for in the end. Flowing for you.
13, I know, I always miss the past; I know that if you want to forget yourself, you must forget yourself first.
14, the best place is the place you have never been. The best time is when you can't come back.
15, I know I know everything. It's not that I don't say it, but that I don't want to say it.
16, I really hate that feeling. I feel sad, but I don't know why, I just feel sad.
17, true love will not be diluted by time, but the longer it takes, the happier it will be.
18, there are two realms in life, one is silent pain and the other is silent smile.
19, I used time to prove my singleness, but you let time prove my stupidity.
20. I no longer understand what kind of person you are, and I no longer dare to be with you forever.
2 1, no one can be pure until the end, but remember, don't forget your original self.
22. Is there such a person? You have said that you want to give up countless times, but you still can't bear it.
Only by accepting the past and the present can you have the energy to pursue the future.
24. I am not afraid that the road is too far to find the end, and I am afraid that the two worlds will not draw a circle.
25. Letting go does not mean giving up, and persistence does not mean persistence.
26. Remember one sentence: thinking too much will ruin you.
The biggest advantage of telling the truth is that you don't have to remember what you said.
28. If a woman meets a good man, she doesn't need to grow up all her life.
29. Once separated, many people may never see each other again.
What determines our life is not our ability, but our choice.
3 1, there is only you in my world, which is enough.