Of course, everyone's personality and preferences are different. Some people may value personal qualities and common interests more, while others value material conditions and social status more. Therefore, the pursuit of a person's success, but also need to consider the overall quality of individuals and ways to get along.
If you are interested in this girl, I suggest you communicate with her sincerely, understand her interests and ideas, try to show your strengths and strengths, and respect her choices and decisions. No matter what the result is, we should maintain respect and understanding, and don't force or hurt anyone.