1992 At the beginning of this year, during the hospitalization of Benshan's car accident, Ma Lijuan always cared for him, deepened mutual understanding, warmed up their feelings, and the conditions for their love and marriage were ripe.
On August 8, 1992, the lobby of Shenyang Hotel, the provincial capital, was decorated with lights and colorful scenes. In the front of the hall, right in the middle, a huge double "hi" word flashed with golden light, with the ceiling above and the floor below. Right above the word "Xi", there are several striking Chinese characters "Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan got married", and huge couplets are hung on both sides of the word "Xi" woven by neon lights:
The first part: Lotus Mountain opens a lotus tree to attract the phoenix.
Bottom line: Longtan Temple has descendants of Longtan Dragon.
Horizontal batch is; The combination of dragon and phoenix indicates good luck.
Zhao Benshan's father, Zhao Deren, and his stepmother, Zhang Yuqin, are sitting on the left side of the hall, while Ma Lijuan's parents are sitting on the right side of the hall. After the drum music, Zhang Ziqiang, the host and playwright, announced: "The wedding of Mr. Zhao Benshan, a famous comedy performance artist and sketch master, with famous actors, teachers of Liaoning Theatre Academy and talented women now begins!" The audience burst into thunderous applause.
Ma Lijuan, the bride in a gorgeous wedding dress, walked slowly into the wedding hall with Benshan's arm in the beautiful melody of a beautiful northeast local folk song "The Crescent Moon is Even". At this time, the two little girls dressed in festive costumes, each holding a bouquet of elegant and gorgeous peony for the bride and groom, to symbolize that their married life is getting richer step by step like this peony. At this time, a middle-aged woman led a pair of little girls to Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan, and each little girl presented them with a bunch of bright orchids. After the two little girls presented flowers, they said, "I wish Uncle Zhao and Aunt Ma Lanfang a long and healthy life." In the wedding customs in northern Liaoning, this is called a yes-man. Benshan and Li Juan recognized them at a glance. It turns out that these three people are the little girl who has no money to treat her cataract and her sister and mother. The wedding was held ceremoniously and warmly in an atmosphere full of rich local customs.
"Worship heaven and earth, husband and wife will always carry it."
"Second, worship Gaotang, and Gaotang is full of life."
"Husband and wife worship, the ocean is deep and auspicious."
According to the wedding custom in northern Liaoning, it is necessary to spread the bill. The so-called "spreading the account" means that all the people selected by the husband's family put in the prepared red sorghum, chestnuts, dates, peanuts and sugar. In a rice bucket covered with red cloth, spread them all over the new house to show the happiness and happiness of the children after marriage.
After seeing off the last guests, it was nearly midnight, and Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan returned home arm in arm. Here is their wedding bridal chamber, full of romance and warmth under the warm night light. Benshan took off her wedding dress, helped Ma Lijuan take off her pure cotton sewn cheongsam, turned over on the bed and shouted happily like a child: "I have a home, I have a home!" " "
Now, Zhao Benshan not only got true love, but also his wife brought him a pair of twins that he never dreamed of, and it was the auspicious double happiness on the first day of that year. Zhao Benshan was happy from ear to ear. "God gave me too much! I'm really sorry that the country advocates family planning so strongly. I just made two indicators, but I didn't. God loves me so much, I want to cherish it, be a good person and do things, and be worthy of my hometown. "
Zhao Benshan believes that "getting married is a tiring thing, but it is also a responsibility. As long as you enter, you will be responsible for the end. Sometimes when the performance is busy, she doesn't care about her family. In recent years, Li Juaner has worked hard with two children, but at least she is used to it. Although I have not reached the level of a five-star man, I should be considered a relatively qualified man. " The reason for falling stars is that "the little things at home are not serious enough, and they are quite sloppy." As soon as I get home, I have no time to clean up, and my daughter-in-law has to clean up after me. " It's rare for Zhao Benshan to dissect himself quite modestly.
My wife is my wife.
The reporter noticed that when Zhao Benshan performed "Selling Cars" on New Year's Eve, he specifically noted: Directors Ma Lijuan and Zhao Benshan explained: "Years ago, our family went to CCTV together. My wife Ma Lijuan not only takes care of my life, but also makes a guest appearance as a director. In fact, she participated in every one of my works. Together, she is my wife, not only in life, but also in career. " Speaking of his golden partner, Zhao Benshan praised He Qingkui: "CSI has two irreplaceable advantages. First of all, he works tirelessly. As long as it is a book I don't agree with, he will change it overnight, and he never takes the trouble; Second, his language ability is at home. He understands the essence of the northeast dialect and the characteristics of our language. "
Wife: Ma Lijuan, a teacher of Liaoning Opera School, has twins: Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan.
Zhao Benshan's current wife, Ma Lijuan, is a teacher in Liaoning Opera School. Zhao Benshan commented that Ma Lijuan was a "well-educated, cultured and beautiful person". Zhao Benshan said: "Ma Lijuan's greatest advantage is that she is very kind to me. She understands and supports my ex-wife, my parents, relatives and friends in the countryside. Ma Lijuan often buys gifts for my eldest daughter and cares about my father. "
Of course, after a marriage, Zhao Benshan cherishes her present family. Zhao Benshan said: "There are indeed many divorces in the entertainment circle, but I can't divorce any more. If I want to divorce again, people will have to say that I am Zhao Benshan:' Look at this Zhao Benshan, divorced again.' I am also a public figure. What I want to do is not known to the whole country. ...
1997 On the eve of the Spring Festival, Zhao Benshan's wife Ma Lijuan gave birth to twins, named Niu Niu and Niu Niu. Li came to congratulate the child/kloc-on his 0/00th birthday. At the wedding reception, many guests and friends came, but Zhao Benshan solemnly asked Li to "open the wine" for the wedding reception on behalf of his parents.
Once, Li went to Shenyang on business and visited the Zhao Benshan family. After taking the door, Ma Lijuan is coaxing the children. He has said hello to Li and is ready to come out to meet her with her child in her arms. However, because Zhao Benshan didn't hear it, it wasn't Ma Lijuan who had nothing to say. Zhao Benshan turned "anger" into a smile, asked his wife to make tea and pour water, held the child by herself, and called the child Grandpa. That evening, Zhao Benshan also put off all affairs and invited Li to a famous hotel. During the dinner, Zhao Benshan not only introduced the names of the dishes to Li one by one, but also kept picking up dishes for fear that he could not eat well. When Li learned that this meal would cost a lot of money, Zhao Benshan said with a smile, "You always forget that I have some money now. Usually busy all day, I haven't had dinner with you for a long time. Your health is not good. As long as you eat more, my heart will be solid. "
On Li's 66th birthday, Zhao Benshan, who had already made preparations, came here with her father, eldest daughter and Niu Niu. Zhao Benshan not only brought Li a valuable birthday present, but also personally lit the beautiful red candle. According to the custom in Northeast China, Zhao Benshan and other students gave Li a big gift and carefully wrote a plaque for Li. The money said: "To the teacher's 66th birthday and wish him a long life!"
Li won the love and respect of Zhao Benshan, not only because he discovered and cultivated Zhao Benshan, but also because as a drama writer, his personality charm and tireless pursuit of drama art infected Zhao Benshan for decades. Li has worked in the Ministry of Culture for more than 40 years. He not only selflessly helped and trained many artistic talents and made them successful, but also wrote a large number of works of art and published opera collections in his spare time. After Li retired, he suffered from diabetes and high blood pressure. He still insisted on writing, helping and supporting new authors.
On the Yalu River, Zhao Benshan walked side by side with Ma Lijuan, a teacher of the provincial opera school. On the riverbank, weeping willows sway slightly with the wind, several fishing boats are moored in the middle of the river, and fishermen are casting nets to catch fish. The river flows quietly to the south, and the mountains on the shore turn into colorful purple in the sunset.
Ma Lijuan spoke first: "Benshan, your tricks are absolutely superb, and there is laughter everywhere."
Zhao Benshan: "Your A Qing Sao is also in place and has a good foundation!"
Ma Lijuan: "I heard that you came from the mountains?"
Zhao Benshan: "Yes, I heard that you are also a child in the mountains."
Zhao Benshan then asked, "Is it better to teach at school or to be an actor?"
Ma Lijuan: "Each has his own strengths. When teaching students at school, you can learn acting theory. When you really perform in a literary and art group, you can experience life, enrich your performance practice, make achievements in the performing arts, and try to explore some new opera performance skills and forms. "
Zhao Benshan: "Teacher Ma, after listening to your words, the students have benefited a lot. Please give me more advice in the future. "
Ma Lijuan: "Don't be serious."
In front of a residential building in Shenhe District, Shenyang, Zhao Benshan knocked on the door. The door opened and Ma Lijuan greeted him.
"What brings you here?"
Zhao Benshan: "It's the east wind."
Ma Lijuan let Zhao Benshan into the room. After sitting down, he said to Benshan, "What can I do for you?"
Zhao Benshan: "Well, Guangdong Pacific Audio and Video Company and Beijing Audio and Video Publishing House invited me to record cassette tapes." Ma Lijuan: "What topic?" Benshan: "The full name is Happy Comedy. There are many programs in it, which need to be performed by men and women together. Please cooperate with me.
Ma Lijuan said thoughtfully, "I don't know if I can shoulder this heavy responsibility. Give it a try. "
A week later, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan arrived in Guangzhou by plane, and completed the recording of "Happy Comedy" tape in cooperation with Guangdong Pacific Audio and Video Department. In this tape, many arias are duets of northeast local operas and northeast folk aria, which give full play to Ma Lijuan's professional expertise. This tape was once widely circulated in the society, but the audience only knew Zhao Benshan, but never knew who the heroine with clear pronunciation and mellow voice was, let alone the friendship between Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan. After nearly two years of performance cooperation, the communication between Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan has gradually increased, and their hobbies have made them best friends. (To be continued) This website is specially authorized by the author and publishing unit of Zhao Benshan, the God of Oriental Laughter.
"My wife (Ma Lijuan) and I quarreled for the first time for our eldest daughter. After remarriage, the child came to my house for the first time from the countryside, and my daughter-in-law never said a word to her. I'll lose my temper if I send the child away. I asked her why you didn't talk to the children. Do you love me? My daughter has my blood on her. If you love me, you must love her! Otherwise, we will divorce. My daughter-in-law listened to me, and since then, she has been very kind to her eldest daughter. Now my daughter doesn't tell me anything, but always tells her that they get along well. "
Now, Zhao Benshan's eldest daughter has graduated from college. Zhao Benshan took her daughter to work in Shenyang. These days, he intends to buy a car for his daughter. Zhao Benshan said that the child suffered from childhood, and he was sorry for her. Now as long as you have the ability, try to meet your daughter's requirements.
Jin Bingchang is a great matchmaker.
Zhao Benshan and his daughter-in-law, Ma Lijuan, were introduced by Jin Bingchang, a famous crosstalk performer in Liaoning. In order to hide people's eyes and ears, the two began to hide and rent a house. But once, he finally "leaked the clue." That day, Benshan had just returned home when a fire broke out downstairs. He wore slippers to fetch water and went downstairs to put out the fire. When the fire went out, the neighbors found out, isn't this Zhao Benshan? Just ask him, why are you here? Zhao Benshan also lied and said, "I stopped by my friend's house." "Why are you still wearing slippers?" Slowly, the neighbors learned that Zhao Benshan lived upstairs. As a result, as soon as his house lit up, his neighbor stood downstairs and shouted, "Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan."
Olympic champion Wang and sketch actor Zhao Benshan both live in the garden. There is only a tunnel between them, and they are standing on their balcony. As long as you look up, you can see each other's home. As the saying goes, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, so the Wangs naturally became close to Zhao Benshan and his family. Later, Zhao Benshan and I became neighbors who bowed their heads and looked up. Whenever we meet, he always greets me kindly. I get along well with Zhao Benshan's wife Ma Lijuan. Ma Lijuan is a cheerful, intelligent, virtuous and generous woman. She gave birth to a pair of lovely twins for Zhao Benshan-Niu Niu and Niu Niu. She is deeply in love with Zhao Benshan, quietly standing behind her husband and shouldering the burden of raising two young children.
Zhao Benshan's two children are very cute, especially Xiao Niu, with big eyes shining with aura, long curved eyelashes, naturally upturned, and tender skin with a touch of carmine. When she saw me, she shouted in a distant voice, "Hello, Aunt Xia Jun." I like it so much that I want to have a baby right away. Then I got my wish and gave birth to a healthy and beautiful son. My role in life has also changed from a middle-distance runner to a good wife and mother. Managing the family and educating children has become my top priority. It happens that I lack experience in this field. When I play with my children in the community, I often see Ma Lijuan. She always keeps herself clean and beautiful. She patiently taught me how to manage housework and educate my children, which benefited me a lot.
Ma Lijuan and I always have endless "private rooms" between women. When we talk about our husbands, we all feel very happy and satisfied. Although Zhao Benshan often performs outside, Ma Lijuan knows that her husband is a responsible person. "No matter where I am, I can guarantee that my heart will always be at home. Men's hearts are sometimes very fragile. Who can stand the constant tossing? I have been divorced once, and I can't let my family have any more problems. " This is Zhao Benshan's simple heart-to-heart talk to his wife.
Zhao Benshan loves his family very much, but he often leaves home to perform outside. The child never sees his father and is a stranger to him. Several times, he wanted to take the children out to play, but he couldn't take them away.
Once, Zhao Benshan was going out, and the child said to him, "Are you leaving? Come to our house when you are free! " This makes Zhao Benshan very sad and helpless, because he is not only the husband of his wife, but also the father of his children. He also belongs to the millions of viewers who love him.
Last year, Ma Lijuan and I went to Hongkong. Shuttling through department stores every day is more enjoyable than shopping. We had to go shopping and didn't go back to the hotel until we couldn't walk any further. Ma Lijuan bought many clothes and toys for the children, but most of them were clothes for Zhao Benshan. Many people may not know that Zhao Benshan in life is actually dressed in a decent fashion, unlike what he saw on the screen-wearing a white hat and very "old-fashioned" clothes and shoes. This has a lot to do with his wife dressing him up carefully. On the trip to Hong Kong, we returned home with a full load. Before boarding the plane, Zhao Benshan called his wife and told her that he would pick her up in person. My husband Yu Zhan also said that he would pick me up. When the plane landed in Shenyang, we were all very happy because we were going to see our relatives soon. Suddenly, Ma Lijuan's cell phone rang, and I saw that the smile still rippling on her face disappeared instantly. I quickly asked, "What's the matter?" "Originally the phone said yes, you Benshan eldest brother to pick me up. But now he says he can't come because of something important. " Ma Lijuan said gloomily. At the exit of the airport, suddenly, I saw Ma Lijuan's surprised but extremely happy expression. "Didn't you say no? How did you ... "Originally, she looked up and saw Zhao Benshan, as if smiling from the sky. It turned out that this was a surprise made by Zhao Benshan on purpose. Our comedian is like this. In life, he always tries his best to bring surprises and humor to his relatives.
Today, Zhao Benshan has a new family. Talking about his present wife, Zhao Benshan said that he is a happy man and is satisfied with everything at present. His wife Ma Lijuan is a teacher of Liaoning Theatre Academy.
Lu Yu: This free love?
Zhao Benshan: This is. This should be said to be the daughter-in-law we met before we got divorced. Not that I can leave because of her, maybe I can leave without her in the future. It will be someone else, because I have been performing. I know her and I perform in our group. She is particularly cultured. She is a teacher in an art school. We have different personalities. She has faded, and belongs to the kind of person who saves a hundred mistakes together and says it once in a hundred years. I am a person who says that you must finish it in the past five minutes. These are two personalities. Sometimes she's unhappy, and I may forget it right away. If I did, I would forget. If I say it, she won't be too tired. She will keep everything together and talk to you once. This is also quite fatal. This is urgent.
1997 On the 30th day, Zhao Benshan led the "Red Sorghum Model Team" into the CCTV Spring Festival Gala again. That night, his wife Ma Lijuan gave birth to twins.
Lu Yu: So you didn't take care of the child much?
Zhao Benshan: I don't care. I have no time to care. Now he will send a message. If you are free, send me a message.
Lu Yu: That kid can send messages.
Zhao Benshan: Call me in this room if you don't get up in the morning. Report, this report, that report, that report. They report to me first. You talk about him, you talk about him, and girls can talk about it. Tell me what. After answering my phone, you should turn off your phone quickly and don't answer his phone.
Lu Yu: How old is the baby? He is only six years old.
Zhao Benshan: Gee, you are always talking. I have her picture in my mobile phone. The son didn't speak in a hurry, and the little girl spoke too fast, maybe she spoke.
Lu Yu: It seems that girls might follow their father.
Zhao Benshan: Maybe.
Lu Yu: A boy may hold things back for half a year before telling you, just like his mother.
Zhao Benshan: That boy is simple and honest.
Lu Yu: Do they know what Dad does?
Zhao Benshan: I understand now. I didn't understand at first. Why do you want him to take a picture and sign it? Now he knows how to show off. At school, he called me and my classmates wanted to talk to you. As soon as I go back and wait, I won't come back until you pick me up. Let my classmates have a look. As soon as she has an activity, I will participate. Help me record something, and I will show off. I usually perform in Shenyang, and she always rushes to the stage to offer flowers. The little girl is particularly likable.
Lu Yu: Do you want your children to do the same in the future?
Zhao Benshan: I don't think about my children. I think my children, my wife and I sometimes have different opinions. My daughter-in-law is afraid that her children will not study well, because the children are under too much pressure now. I have different views from her. I said you, I told the teacher, if he doesn't do his homework, don't make him happy. I was anxious when I went back last time. My child asked me to get 24 points.
Lu Yu: Is it a son or a daughter?
Zhao Benshan: My son. I said you wanted to get 24 points, and he said, Dad, I think 24 points is good. I said, what's your perfect score? The perfect score is 20. I got more than 24 points in the exam. He said the perfect score was 100. I said 24 points is a little low. I took the exam the next day and got 90. I have made progress. He doesn't mind, and neither do I. But this time my daughter got all three final exams 100. My son sent me messages, one is 98, and the other is 100, and both have made progress. He is very clever. He doesn't mind. He always plays. I just came casually. I said, you can calculate how to add and subtract eight plus four. Six. I said you add it up. He said eight plus four equals ten. I'll give it to you. He doesn't care, but he knows it carefully. I think this child, I don't want him to learn so terrible as a child, let him relax. Maybe he can be older. Children wear those small eyes, just like old gentlemen. They backed away in fear and their eyes were straight. This is not good. There is a piano lesson, and they must learn some English. Busier than me all day.
Lu Yu: Do your family like your play?
Zhao Benshan: I like watching it. Children sometimes remember words and memorize them. When the child is the youngest, my mother often wears it when she is sensible, and when I am not at home, I wear his father's sketches.
Lu Yu: Because I have never met my father.
Zhao Benshan: I'll never see you again. The child didn't think I belonged to this family for a while. He knows to call his father. He said when you would come to our house. He always calls at this time, just like dropping in. He said when you would come to our house, and he always said that. Come and stay with us for a few days, that's all.
Lu Yu: Do you play erhu every day?
Zhao Benshan: Sometimes, sometimes I just sit there and play for a while.
Lu Yu: Is that your erhu?
Zhao Benshan: Yes.
Lu Yu: That's yours. Pull a paragraph.
Zhao Benshan: Pull a paragraph.
Lu Yu: The most relaxing time for you every year is the end of the Spring Festival party. I had a reunion dinner with you, and you feel that this year's tasks are all handed over to the bus home.
Zhao Benshan: Yes, this year. I may stay up all night and go home the next day. I will have a drink at home and put some flowers in the evening. I will celebrate my son's birthday every year, girl. New year's day.