"Hello, teacher, I'm chasing a girl, but she always ignores me or takes a long time to reply. Should I continue to chase? "

I am America, and I have helped 500+ friends get rid of their love troubles. Let me answer that.

I will definitely continue to pursue it.

Although she didn't take the initiative to find you and didn't reply to your message, on the bright side, at least she didn't hack you.

What you continue to pursue is a waste of time, energy, money and so on, but what if it succeeds?

Of course, if you continue to chase, you can't chase according to the current method. You must understand why girls don't take the initiative to find you or even return your messages, which shows that girls don't want to perfunctory you.

The spare tire generally means that she must be too busy to see my news, or she must have seen it and forgot to return it.

The fact is that most people don't leave their mobile phones now, and she hasn't forgotten to return them. She doesn't care about you at all and doesn't want to talk to you.

Then the question is, why doesn't she want to talk to you?

1. Strong sense of demand

The most taboo for boys to chase girls is to show that I like you and I want to be with you. Because the process of letting the other person guess whether you like her or not is the process of making her fall in love with you, so hazy love is better.

So, if you don't come up, girls will confess something. People don't know you, and you know nothing. It's not scary

All you have to do is show that there was a reason to add friends, maybe because of work or study. Simply put, find a reason that can't explain that I like you, and I will add you.

2. Chatting skills

If you don't meet but the other person is not enthusiastic, then there is something wrong with your chat skills.

The chat here should be the same as the first one, and don't show too strong a sense of demand. Don't praise how beautiful girls are as soon as you come up, and don't check your account as soon as you come up. These are all matters needing attention in chatting.

M: Is your avatar a selfie? It's beautiful.

Woman: Yes, selfie.

M: Then can I see a plain one?

Woman: You have to look at photos when you come up?

Man: Listen, I'm curious.

W: Then you are curious.

Chatting like this is obviously checking the accounts and then asking the girls for photos, which makes you look embarrassed.

So how do you chat with girls at first?

We can find the topic through the girl's head portrait, personality signature, screen name, circle of friends and so on. The topic here is not to praise girls directly, because any good-looking and extroverted girl is surrounded by many boys, at least four or five of whom are normal, and you are in a competitive relationship.

For example, chatting like this can praise girls less modestly.

M: Wow, you are a fan of Zhao, too.

Woman: Ha ha ha no, why do you think so?

M: I think your head is Zhao.

Woman: Ha ha ha, that's my selfie.

This can not only shorten the distance quickly, but also praise girls, and be neither humble nor supercilious. Have you learned?

How can we stand out from this group of competitors?

Here is the attraction of three words.

1. Yan value

Most of us are ordinary people, so most of us are neither too handsome nor too ugly. Find an expensive barber shop to design a hairstyle, and then find a blogger to learn how to wear it. Maybe you are not as handsome as a handsome boy, but at least you are better than before.

2. Wealth

There is no doubt that wealth can attract girls. We boys also like rich women, which is normal.

3. Chatting skills

I have already taught the precautions for chatting, so I won't go into details here.

4. Secret

Always leave a part of mystery for girls, so that she can't see through you, make her interested in you, and want to explore you constantly is like exploring a treasure. Girls like exciting things, let her know you constantly, but let her feel that there are still many places that don't know you, which will make her fall in love with you slowly.

Never tell a girl that you kissed Wang Cuihua next door when you were young.

5. Talent

If you see a tall, fat and ugly boy in the street and hug a beautiful girl, don't just think that this boy is rich. Of course, he is likely to be rich, but don't be sour yet.

He may sing well, he may cook well, and he must have a bright spot to attract girls.

Don't just see the money.

So talent is very important. Some girls just like talented boys.

3. Identify yourself.

You should know who you are. You and that girl are just friends, and you are just strangers. Is this a good time to talk about it?

M: Yes, I'm from Jinan.

Woman: Wow, I'm from Tai 'an.

M: Then I'll take you to play when you come to Jinan.

W: OK (out of courtesy)

I just don't know my identity here. You're just a new friend, and you have to take people to play. Are you too enthusiastic? Does it seem that you are too purposeful?

And boys chase girls like this.

Girls send friends to say that they want to eat puffs.

Then a large group of boys went to buy them. Everyone in the girls' dormitory ate an average of ten puffs that day.

Don't believe it, it's really a lot.

Girls are interested in you. If you want to be nice to her, I will talk to you instead of asking in a circle of friends.