At first, he always felt that the performance of "Woman Surprise" was not ideal. Although he tried and tried, he still couldn't properly show the sudden surprise of women.
One day, when he came home, he saw his wife concentrating on sorting clothes, and it suddenly occurred to him that if there was a sudden loud noise,
She will be surprised. Isn't it natural for a woman to express her surprise? So, he grabbed an orchid porcelain basin next to him and slammed it on the ground.
There was a loud noise, and the wife screamed with fear: Oh, my God! I threw my clothes away, and it took me a long time to speak.
At this moment, Mei Lanfang accurately captured his wife's expression and movements.
Based on this, he pondered and practiced repeatedly, properly and skillfully integrated the expressions and movements of frightened women into his related performances, thus portraying the characters more vividly.
2. Wang Lun tricked Li Bai into perusing Tang poetry, and of course he would know Li Bai's famous poem "To Wang Lun".
Wang Lun is from Jingxian County, Anhui Province.
In order to meet Li Bai, he wrote a book to lure Li Bai to Jingchuan. I didn't expect Li Bai not only not to be angry, but also to express his deep gratitude to Wang Lun for being late.
I specially wrote a masterpiece "To Wang Lun" for him, which made this famous Jingchuan hero in the Tang Dynasty famous through the ages.
In the 14th year of Tang Tianbao (AD 775), Li Bai stayed in Qiupu (now Guichi County, Anhui Province). Wang Lun, an expert in Jingchuan, immediately wrote to welcome Li Bai to Jingchuan.
Wang Lun hypocritically said in the letter: Does your husband swim well? There are miles of peach blossoms here.
How about your drink, sir? There are ten thousand hotels here. Li Bai came happily after receiving Wang Lun's letter.
Wang Lun saw Li's invitation and told Li Bai with a smile: Peach blossom is also a famous pool, and there is no peach blossom; Wan Jiazhe, the owner's surname is Ye Wan,
There are not thousands of hotels. Although Li Bai and Wang Lun were strangers, he felt that Wang Lun was sincere and eager for beauty. He smiled and forgave Wang Lun's deception and accepted Wang Lun's true feelings.
Li Bai stayed in Jingxian County for several days and happily accepted eight fine horses and ten palace brocade presented to him by Wang Lun. Before leaving, he wrote this excellent article: Li Bai was about to leave by boat when he suddenly heard singing on the shore.
Even if the Peach Blossom Pond is deep, it is not as deep as Wang Lun's sending away my love.
3. The truest person on the amateur football field, whenever my teammate passes the ball to me, I pass the ball to my teammate in time and just right.
In the eyes of fans, I seldom make mistakes and am not good at expressing, so I can take care of the overall situation.
In fact, I was afraid that the ball would stay in my hand for a long time, causing mistakes and being complained, so I quickly kicked the ball to others.
Superficial phenomenon masks selfish mentality, but it is easy to be praised by others.
This reminds me of two stories I have heard.
One is that when a company caught fire, an employee risked his life and jumped into the raging fire.
When he was carried out on his deathbed, everyone was moved by his selfless spirit.
But before he closed his eyes, he hit the nail on the head: I went to the office drawer to get 3 thousand yuan.
Another story happened in Japan.
After a man jumped into the rolling sea and rescued another man from the shore, in the face of numerous media interviews, he said that his greatest feeling was that he would not go to the sea to save people for at least ten years.
Cherish life and let him go to the sea to save people. Cherish life and let him not want to go to the sea to save people again. This is his heartfelt words.
When selfish desires are covered by lofty superficial phenomena, those who can bravely reveal their inner feelings are still the truest, most beautiful and most complete people.
4. Holding the sun Even if you are empty-handed, as long as your heart is generous and sincere, you are not useless.
There is always sunshine in your palm! /kloc-in the winter of 0/878, a beggar who was weak and his lips were purple with cold stopped Turgenev passing by in the street.
The beggar stretched out a red, swollen and dirty hand and begged the writer.
The writer searched all his pockets, but found nothing.
Embarrassed, he held the beggar's trembling hand tightly and said, don't take it to heart, brother, I have nothing on me.
The beggar also held the writer's hand tightly.
No, brother, the beggar said slowly and inarticulate. So I should thank you.
This is charity, too, brother.
Turgenev later mentioned this in one of his articles, and he finally wrote: I see, I also got charity from my brother.
This seems to be an incredible charity and charity that goes against common sense: the writer obviously didn't give anything to the beggar, but the beggar said he got his charity;
Beggars are even less likely to give writers anything, but writers also think that they have received charity from each other like beggars.
Indeed, there is no better and more generous charity-instead of throwing him a coin casually,
Instead, hold the beggar's red, swollen and dirty hand tightly ... the giver gets the same return from the other side while giving.
Both sides share the joy of giving something new life.
There is no doubt that each of us has enough ability to help others.
Even if you are empty-handed, as long as your heart is generous and sincere, you are not useless.
There is always sunshine in the palm of your hand-reach out and simply hold it, and you will never reap less than you sow.
At a news conference, people found McCarthy, vice president of American media giant ABC, sitting in the front row, suddenly crouched down and got under the table.
Everyone was dumbfounded. I don't know why the tycoon did such a bad thing in public.
After a while, he got out from under the table, waved his cigar and said quietly, Sorry, my cigar fell under the table. My mother told me to cherish every penny.
McCarthy is a billionaire. It makes sense to ignore this fallen cigar, but it gives us an unexpected answer.
This is a kind of wealth cultivation, which is the source of their great wealth creation.
6. Love Wizard A tribal chief in Africa has three daughters. The first two daughters were smart and beautiful, and they were both robbed with nine cows as dowry.
In the local area, this is the highest standard of dowry.
When the third daughter gets married, no one will marry Jiutou Niu because she is not only not beautiful, but also lazy.
Later, a tourist from afar heard about it and said to the chief, I am willing to exchange nine cows for your daughter.
The chief was very happy. He really married his daughter to a foreigner.
A few years later, the chief went to see his three daughters who had married far away.
Unexpectedly, my daughter could cook her own food to entertain him, and the ugly girl in the past became a beautiful woman with extraordinary temperament.
The director was stunned.
Secretly ask the son-in-law: Are you a wizard? How did you train her like this? The chief's son-in-law said, I didn't train her,
I just always believed that your daughter was worth nine cows, so I always followed the standard of nine cows.
It's that simple.
The function of psychological suggestion is amazing, especially in marriage.
If you try to praise your lover from the heart every day instead of complaining or complaining, then you will definitely find that the other person is quietly changing-exactly in the direction you want.
7. Get rid of the secret of anger In ancient times, there was a man named Adiba. He ran home as soon as he got angry, and then ran around his home and the ground three times.
Later, his house became bigger and bigger, and more and more land was available. When he is angry, he still has to run around the house three times and then land, even though he is panting and sweating.
Grandson asked: Grandpa! When you are angry, you run around the house and the land. What is the secret? Aidiba said to her grandson: When I was young, whenever I quarreled, quarreled or got angry, I ran around my house and land three times.
Running and thinking-the house is so small and the land is so small, how can I have time and energy to be angry with people? When I think about this, my anger disappears and I have more time and energy to work and study.
Grandson asked again: Grandpa! Why do you have to run around the house and land when you have money?
Aidiba said with a smile: When I was old and angry, I ran around the house and the land three times. As I ran, I thought-my house is so big and there is so much land, why bother others? Thinking of this, my anger disappeared.
8. Eggs and business cards (1) One day, British Prime Minister Wilson gave a public speech in a square.
At that time, thousands of people gathered in the square, and suddenly an egg was thrown from the audience and hit him right in the face. Security personnel immediately went down to search for troublemakers and found that it was a child who threw eggs.
When Wilson learned that, he first instructed his subordinates to let the child go, then immediately stopped the child and asked the assistant to record the child's name, home phone number and address in public.
The audience speculated that Wilson might punish the children and began to stir up a little.
At this time, Wilson said to everyone: My philosophy of life is to find my own responsibility in each other's mistakes.
That child hit me with an egg just now, which is very impolite.
Although his behavior is wrong, as a prime minister of a country, I have the responsibility to reserve talents for the country.
That child can throw eggs so accurately from so far below proves that he may be a good talent.
So I'm going to write down his name and let the sports minister pay attention to cultivating him. Maybe he can become a baseball player and serve his country in the future.
Wilson's words made the audience very happy, and the next speech was more approachable.
Wilson knows how to find out the strengths from other people's mistakes, which not only turns bad things into good things, but also frees himself from embarrassment.
(2) Former US President Bill Clinton also had an interesting story with a child.
One day, Clinton went to the hospital to visit a patient, and a child suddenly walked beside him.
The child kept looking at Mr. Clinton and said nothing.
After a few seconds of silence, Clinton spoke first: Do you have anything to tell me? I want your autograph! The child said loudly.
Clinton couldn't help laughing, picked up his business card, quickly wrote down his name and was about to give it to the child.
The child asked again, can I have four? Clinton smiled: Why do you want so much? Isn't one enough? The child replied, I want to exchange your three signatures for a signed photo of Michael Jordan.
President Clinton is not unhappy about it. He took out three business cards in succession and signed them all.
At the same time, I said happily: I have a nephew who likes Michael Jordan best, and I will help him change an autographed photo of Michael Jordan when I have time.
9. Friends of Life and Death Once upon a time, there were two friends who were brothers, life and death and * * *. Although poor, they always support each other, regardless of each other.
Even God didn't believe that there would be such unbreakable friendship in the world, so he set a trap to test them.
Once, the two men tried to cross a desert, but before they got out of the desert, they ran out of water and food and fell into the brink of death.
At this time, God guided them and said: There is a fruit tree in front, and there are two apples on it. Eating small can only solve the urgent need, and only eating big can give you enough strength to walk out of the desert and die.
It was dark, but they still argued endlessly, and no one would eat the big apple. So they remained deadlocked until late at night, and they snuggled up and fell asleep.
At dawn the next day, one of them woke up and found his friend missing.
He walked ahead in doubt, and sure enough, there was a fruit tree not far away, with only a small fruit left on it.
He was suddenly disheartened, picked the fruit in despair and walked forward helplessly.
Not far away, he found his friend fainted, holding an apple in his hand-a whole circle smaller than his hand.
10, Accepting Self-esteem More than 80 years ago, a group of hungry refugees poured into Walson, a small town in California.
When Mr. Jackson, the mayor, distributed food, many refugees quickly got the food given to them and chewed it ... among them was a young man.
He said to the mayor, mayor, you gave me so much delicious food. what can I do for you?
Jackson smiled: I didn't give you food in return. I just gave you some help and didn't need you to do anything.
That young man doesn't appreciate it. I won't accept your food if there is no suitable job for me. Really, I have to do something for you! Jackson thinks this young man is very unusual.
However, there was nothing he could do, so Jackson had to squat down and let the young man beat him on the back.
Later, the young man was left behind, and Mayor Jackson married his daughter.
Twenty years later, the young man became the world oil king, and his name was Hammer.
Of course, the success of the hammer has many factors, but his attitude of refusing to get something for nothing has won him valuable self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the cornerstone of success.