1, learn to run a circle of friends.
Just entering the university, I want to keep in touch with people I know. The first action is of course to add WeChat.
The first job after adding WeChat is to look at the circle of friends.
At this time, the circle of friends determines the first impression of others on you besides your appearance-personality.
Boys' edition:
If you are a boy, I tell you that the most popular thing for girls in the circle of boys' friends is that there is no circle of friends.
You must be confused to see this. What do you mean, "no circle of friends?"
The reason is simple: if boys don't have a circle of friends, girls will get nothing when they click in, which will be low-key, mysterious and attractive.
Therefore, the focus of boys' WeChat is: album cover and personalized signature.
Although such a circle of friends has gone in and found nothing, it can still be seen that the inner world of different boys is different.
As long as these two points are fixed, the first impression will pass.
Girls' edition:
The most taboo: screen advertising, negative energy, full-line selfie.
A high-quality circle of friends is a 360-degree omnipotent you in the eyes of others.
Besides taking selfies, it's really beautiful for him to take pictures of you under someone else's lens!
It's best to be with your best friends, have fun and smile brightly.
When the boys meet you for the first time, they think you are so kind. You look like a good friend.
Then pay attention to your strengths, interests, hobbies and so on.
Not to mention the girlfriend "Oh, I can do this" and "I like this". In this way, the ship of friendship will set sail!
Special reminder: Try not to open all your friends!
The reason is simple:1-Three months ago, you were still you, but three months ago, you probably didn't even know yourself.
On the first day of school, you must look good.
The beauty here is not fancy, nor is it particularly unusual. It's clean and focused.
For example: the combination of long skirt and light makeup.
Besides wearing and making up, hair is also very important.
Before school starts, you must find a good Tony and give you a good-looking and manageable haircut.
Remember, the point is-easy to take care of.
Because after school starts, you will find that sleep time is really precious. Who has time to toss their hair?
And there is no barber shop near the school where you can cut.
Tip: Don't perm curly hair or dye it too lightly. If your hair is bad, you should always take care of it. Cut the hair short, put the scissors in the length that can be tied, and the last step is in place. The hair dryer will be ok as soon as it blows.
In this way, even your roommate who gets along with you day and night will think that this girl just took a shower and looks good without makeup.
3. Keep high temperature and low temperature properly.
Don't go to all the groups and bureaus, and don't join all the groups.
Take part in more group activities, not the person who talks the most.
Fight for what you like, and refuse what you don't like.
Only when there is a bottom line can you be respected.
Above all, don't fall in love as soon as you enter school.
Especially seniors and instructors, and handsome guys driving sports cars at the school gate.
The chance of being smashed is like stepping on a cactus barefoot. ...
Observe more, see if you are still human after losing your aura, and think again.
Don't miss the better boys in the back.
4. Seize every budding opportunity.
Military training performances, orientation parties, top ten singers ... as long as you have talent, you should be bold whenever you get the chance.
You really don't know how big a good impression you will have after the start of school.
Classmates, alumni, teachers, seniors/seniors will all leave a good impression on you.
Many opportunities may come from your exposure.
A summer vacation is enough for you to learn a dance, a song, a fluent oral radio and a small musical instrument. ...
Learn anything that interests you.
Because once school starts, everyone is very busy.
You need to prepare a program to play. Basically, after 2-3 weeks of free time, the arrangement is very urgent.
At this time, if there is a ready-made one, just take it out and use it. Not now, but when?
5. Stay confident.
The first four points, no matter how many methods I teach you, the premise of becoming a social expert must be-to maintain self-confidence.
Where does confidence come from?
From full preparation.
When you have a holiday, besides having a rest, you must let yourself see more about the world, read different books and listen to interested online classes.
We should also pay attention to current news, dabble in different fields and improve our knowledge reserve in order to be at ease.
It must be remembered that friends are attracted, not catered to.
Your personality charm determines what kind of friends you can attract.
Now close your eyes and think about it. What kind of friends do you want to make most in college?
Then, make good use of winter and summer vacations, and social C is you.