In fact, the most obvious phenomenon occurs when we chat with people we like. We can often see such chat screenshots. Like a buffoon, I lick each other's dogs every day and try my best to please others, but I never get any concern and doubt from others. Later, I thought it was not good to do so, so I wanted to stop feeling sorry for such people. But when the other party suddenly sent a "Are you there?" I immediately became a licking dog again.
Compared with the clown's ego, this negative mentality is actually a kind of self-mockery and self-mockery. I know I am humble, but I have to do it. This is a true portrayal of many young people now. In fact, this mentality and practice is rather sad, but many young people can't change themselves. If we don't want to be clowns, then all we have to do is pay more attention to our feelings and love ourselves. Only by loving yourself first can you love others. Many people always put themselves last and put other people's feelings and emotions in the position of 1, so they often feel wronged and sad. At this time,
I hope everyone who has been a clown can look back at their experiences and thoughts at that time. Maybe when you look back, you will find that the state at that time was really insignificant. Why are you so stupid? Therefore, whether in life or work, we should learn to love ourselves.