The hottest topic on Weibo recently is the bloody love-hate relationship between Zhang Yuting in the Greenland Incident and her newlywed husband Shi Ruisheng.

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The incident broke out on May 11. A netizen with the name "生生不End" on Weibo posted a message on Weibo He reported that his wife had an extramarital affair with a mid-level executive of Greenland Group.

Subsequently, the "shengshengjiexianji" successively posted the recordings of his phone calls with his wife on Weibo. The woman, Zhang Yuting, whose Weibo name is ?sushbs?, after several days of silence, also posted a long post on May 19 to explain the matter.

In the statement posted by Zhang Yuting on her personal Weibo on May 19, we can find these few key sentences.

First: She doesn’t know that people have bottom lines. Second: Zhang Yuting claimed that she wanted her husband to divorce, but she trusted him very much and felt that he would not hurt her. All her excessive words were It is to stimulate her husband and make him divorce her. Now that we are about to get divorced, is it naive to still enjoy the benefits of my husband? Or stupid?

Third: In her statement, although she admitted her mistake, the meaning between the lines highlighted one meaning: I just wanted a divorce, but the method was wrong. Blame me for being too naive. I am innocent. Is this Zhang Yuting's fault, or is this society already sick?

The bottom line of human beings

In today's society, many people promote so-called freedom. Gradually, the word freedom changed from a neutral word to a complimentary word. But no matter how free a person is, he still has to live on earth. When freedom reaches outer space, there is no other way but death. We live in society and we also need freedom, but this freedom also needs a certain scope, which is morality.

When we look at Zhang Yuting’s photos on Weibo, we will find that this little girl is quite pretty. There is still a trace of innocence and cuteness between the eyebrows.

But this is a girl whose behavior and words are almost like that of a madam who has been engaged in philandering for many years. She is unscrupulous, even a little explicit, and has no sense of shame. What is even more surprising is that this girl also received higher education. After graduating from university, she studied abroad in Australia with her current husband.

In fact, as long as the two of them work hard and work hard together, they will definitely have a happy future. But this girl didn't think so and insisted on finding a rich old man. If you find it, you will find it. You must find it within marriage.

Although I no longer love you, you can get a divorce. She had to cheat on a rich old man during marriage, get pregnant with the old man's child, and register with her husband.

One after another, they not only constantly challenge a man’s bottom line, but also insult China’s marriage system.

As a human being, you still need a certain bottom line. The bottom line is a person's last line of defense. Otherwise, you will be the most seriously injured. To use a saying from Hong Kong gangster movies: If you go out and mess around, you will pay back sooner or later?

Naivety vs Stupidity

Judging from the whole incident, Zhang Yuting was blinded by money and the dark side of today's society. The victim in this incident, Zhang Yuting's husband Shi Ruisheng, is definitely not a simple character.

From his Weibo, we can clearly find that after Zhang Yuting returned to China to work, Shi Ruisheng recorded almost every phone call made to him.

So it can be said that Shi Ruisheng had already started to make plans for Zhang Yuting, who was not a woman.

With the slogan of caring for her, Zhang Yuting was asked step by step to say those words that could not be put on the stage in a nonchalant tone. It made those who heard it even more disgusted and disgusted with this shameless woman.

As the saying goes, win every step and gain the upper hand. This man's scheming is absolutely amazing. And this Zhang Yuting has also redefined the spare tire.

It turns out that what everyone thinks of as a spare tire is just before getting married. Unexpectedly, in her place, getting married can also be a spare tire, and there is also a new word called a pocket. Even her closest husband is the one who keeps everything in check for her. Such a woman is really scary.

It’s no wonder that even if Shi Ruisheng has to pay the insult of being called a cuckold, he still wants to completely disgrace his cheating wife who is pregnant with someone else’s child.

Shi Ruisheng was mentally prepared to die together, and he did so.

Zhang Yuting posted on her Weibo that she would ask Shi Ruisheng to analyze and help her in everything. But she kept irritating and insulting the person who helped her.

She seems to have enjoyed this man's kindness to him and has become accustomed to it. Otherwise, this woman would not have cuckolded herself to him, or even had a child with someone else. out.

But why someone treats you well is not based on the fact that you are her woman, otherwise your life and death will depend on him?

Underestimation of human nature and ignorance of the world.

She finally pushed herself into a whirlpool that her age could not bear. He looks smart and capable, but is actually stupid and naive.

A deeper problem

In a bloody drama like this, in fact, what happened was not just one or two incidents. From the previous Guo Meimei and Ma Rong, to the programmer Su Hengmao who was defrauded of tens of millions by his fiancée, and now Zhang Yuting. We will find that these girls actually have good looks and good educational backgrounds.

Even if they don’t do anything that violates morality, they can still live much better than the average person. However, their contempt for morality, contempt for marriage, and even contempt for men have pushed themselves into a position of being despised, and they have been looked down upon and reviled.

What about themselves? He also denied it in every possible way, and even used the last fig leaf of "domestic violence" to try to give a seemingly reasonable explanation for his cheating. Zhang Yuting even said shamelessly that she just made a mistake that all women in the world would make.

The origin of this sentence is the excuse that the international martial arts superstar Jackie Chan made for his own mistakes because of the "Little Dragon Girl" incident. But Zhang Yuting, you have to know that Jackie Chan earned all his money through blood and sweat, and earned it through hard work.

He was also ready for divorce, but Lin Fengjiao chose to forgive. After all, Jackie Chan has the strength and the ability to say this, so what do you rely on? Do you rely on your youthful body?

Jackie Chan is wrong, and if he is wrong, he is wrong. It's up to other people's wives to choose to forgive. The same goes for you, if you are wrong, you are wrong. Regardless of the reason, cheating during marriage is the greatest blasphemy to the institution of marriage.

Conclusion

A long time ago, I wrote an article about ancient marriage. The final conclusion of the article is that ancient laws had a great impact on marriage.

Because the stability of society and the country depends on each family. The beginning of a family is marriage. Therefore, ancient laws have strong protective provisions for legal marriages.

Even people like Ma Rong can divide a lot of property because of cheating in marriage. So I want to ask, who would really respect marriage? In ancient times, people were only concerned with cheating, not whoring. Nowadays, I only focus on whoring, not cheating.

That’s why prostitution is well controlled now, but the marriages of Chinese people are dirtier than those in sauna clubs.