1. If you want to live an ordinary life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks. If you want to live the best life, you will definitely encounter the strongest harm. This world is fair, if you want the best, you will definitely get the most pain. This is the coolest place to start a business, but also the cruelest place. But you must firmly believe that those things that cannot kill us will eventually make us stronger!
2. Don’t always wrong yourself just to accommodate others. There are not many people in this world who are worthy of you always bending down. If you bend over for a long time, people will only get used to your low posture, and your posture will not be important.
3. Don’t listen to other people’s lies. Every step of your life must be completed by your own ability. I don’t have any information in my stomach, I don’t have any skills in my hands, and it’s useless no matter how many people I know.
4. Sometimes it’s not that you can or cannot do it, but that you simply don’t do it. In this world, the only person who can restrain you is yourself.
5. No matter how much grievance you can endure, you can do great things; how much slander you can endure, how much praise you can bear; how much loneliness you can endure, you can maintain prosperity.
6. No matter how bad your mood is, don’t write it on your face, because no one likes to see it; no matter how poor your life is, don’t talk about it, because no one will give you money for no reason; no matter how tiring you are at work, don’t let it show on your face. Don't complain, because no one can do it for you unconditionally; no matter how hard life is, don't lose faith, because tomorrow will be the best.
7. Time tells you what aging is, and memories tell you what childishness is. Don't always linger in the memories of the past. Yesterday's sun cannot dry today's clothes.
8. After meeting all kinds of people, you realize that except for your parents, no one will treat you with all their heart, no one will completely trust you unconditionally, and no one will always treat you well. , you should have understood that it will get dark and people will change. Life is so long and the road is so far. You can only rely on yourself and have no other choice.
9. Later I realized that only by earning enough money to feel at ease can I live a simple, comfortable and free life, and can I live with more confidence. So, spend more time working hard and less time being pretentious.
10. Don’t think of yourself as too great. You must know that in other people’s world, no matter how well you do, you are just a supporting role.
11. As time changes, so do people. Life is an out-of-print movie that cannot be played back. Some things, no matter how hard you try, you just can't go back. Even if you do go back, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing that can go back is the memory in my heart. Cherish it and don't leave any regrets in life.
12. Time, both distance and forgiveness, will make some things clearer, make some emotions more indifferent, make some confusions clearer, and make some grudges and grudges disappear without a trace. Everything settles and then eventually calms down.
13. Maybe you have sailed your whole life and never reached the other shore, maybe you have climbed your whole life and never reached the top. But those who can hit the rocks are not warriors, and those who dare to fail may not be heroes. If you struggle, you will have a clear conscience, and if you struggle, you will have a successful life.
14. Setbacks will come and they will pass. Get up again after you fall. Try again after failure. Always believe that no matter how ordinary you are, you will have your own happiness.
15. Don’t be afraid that a certain personality will offend people. You must know that no personality in the world can avoid offending people. Those who speak straightforwardly will offend villains, those who speak tactfully will offend hot-tempered people, and those who speak tactfully will offend hot-tempered people. Offending principled people and smooth people will offend smart people... Since you will offend others, just be yourself and be yourself, and you will not be afraid of offending others, because you can bear the consequences. ——Liu Tong
16. People who are easily angered are either too weak or too sensitive, so they must either be strong or learn to ignore it.
17. You have to be a calm adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss me secretly, and don't look back. Live your own other life. You have to be obedient, not all fish will live in the same sea.
18. Putting your warm face on the cold ass of the other person, and always thinking that you are not doing well enough... In your own eyes, this is love; in the eyes of the other person, this is annoyance; in the eyes of others, it is annoyance In my eyes, this is cheap.
19. The more people are afraid of being embarrassed, the more they care about other people’s opinions. The more you care about what others think, the more you will ignore your own feelings. The more you ignore your own feelings, the more you act like a puppet for others to see. In the end, step by step, the true self was imprisoned in deep darkness.
20. Many people think that lowering the bottom line can give you something in return. In fact, this is not the case. The bottom line determines what you have. Once you lower your principled bottom line, you will soon lose some of what you regard as principles, and then you will lose more. Usually what you get back by lowering your bottom line is no longer what you wanted in the first place. The bottom line can float, but don’t lower it again and again; everyone’s principles are different, but you have to have it.