Some people are always slow to see the other party pass the verification when adding friends on WeChat. If it has not passed the verification after a day, it may be that you added friends in the wrong way and did not let the other party feel your sincerity. Some people may say, I am very sincere. If I fail once, I will send it a few more times. If I fail today, I will send it again tomorrow. NONONO, not only will this not make the other party feel sincere, it may also cause trouble to the other party. So how do you add WeChat friends correctly and how do you make the other person feel your sincerity? First of all, please write friend verification carefully. When adding others as friends, many people send the application without writing friend verification. If others are not impressed by you, the chance of passing the verification is not high. Writing friend verification carefully can add points to the impression we leave on the other party. Generally, "three elements" are written in the friend verification for the other party to understand: self-introduction, method of acquaintance, and purpose of adding friends. Of course, the number of words for friend verification is limited, so try to be concise and to the point. This kind of friend verification will at least allow the other party to know your identity at a glance.
After the other party is verified, there must be a formal self-introduction - this rule does not only apply to WeChat, but to all social interactions, just like when you meet someone for the first time in life, you have to give out a business card, A handshake is a basic etiquette. I believe that many people have such a group of people on WeChat. They have not spoken to each other since adding friends. Most of these friends will be deleted directly by the other party within a period of time, because they have no impression at all and there is no communication. After a friend is approved, it is the time when the other person is online and most curious about you. It is the best time to get to know each other, and it is also convenient for the other party to make notes and prepare for "linking".
When introducing yourself, you can expand on the "three elements" in friend verification. For example, "I am XXX from XX group, from Shenzhen, engaged in design work. I am very happy to get to know you. I admire your expertise in XX very much and look forward to learning more from you. If you have needs in design, I I am very happy to help. I look forward to having more exchanges with you in the future. "This kind of self-introduction not only allows the other party to see a richer version of you, but also allows the other party to see more of you." exchange value”.