I saw an article saying that the so-called high emotional intelligence means pretending to be someone else. Hua Chenyu has a very high emotional intelligence, but the rare thing about him is that he doesn't show it, doesn't fight or grab, but has a receptive and gentle feeling. He takes special care of other people's emotions and won't impose on others. The pressure may be to "show" that one has high emotional intelligence, which means that one's ego is withdrawn, instead of showing a prominent "I". How can I put it, it is not greasy, and it is not the worldly standard of high emotional intelligence. His kind is even more rare, and should be called the Supreme Good Like Water.