If you don't have much love experience, you can ask friends around you, so you can easily sum up a truth, that is, letting go and giving up is often the most calm.
That is to say, if you break up badly, two people end up in a bad quarrel, and both of them blacken each other like angry, it means that you are just fighting between lovers, and there is not much problem. Even if two people will experience many things such as quarrels, cold wars, power outages, etc., their feelings have not been greatly affected, and there is a great chance of reconciliation in the end.
And if we can still sit down and communicate calmly when we break up, and there is not much turmoil in the whole process, then this situation is really bad. Because real letting go is often quiet. Only when you completely give up the other party, will you face the breakup calmly, and you will never take the initiative to hack you, delete you or stop contacting, because that is unnecessary. When I really give up love, I will only treat you as air. How can I intentionally hack an irrelevant person?
So if you two have a conflict, and the other party blacked you out or deleted you, you should still be a little lucky, because at least it shows that he has not completely given up on you and still has some illusions about your feelings.
If you still want to get this relationship back, don't rush to get back together with each other from the beginning. Because it's not long before your emotional problems happen, his mood is still in a state of excitement, or in layman's terms, he is still angry, so it's best to calm down for a while and let both of them calm down so as not to cause conflicts again.
After two people calm down for a period of time, you can do a small test first, such as using a circle of friends to post something that can trigger your happy memories. Of course, it is not too obvious. If you are too deliberate, your sense of need will be exposed. It's just a hint. If he really has an idea, he will definitely come and contact you.
You can also send some circle of friends to show your progress and changes in a certain respect and arouse his curiosity about you, so that when you get back together, you can establish an effective secondary attraction and greatly increase the chances of two people getting back together.