1. Cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, don’t let the hypocrisy of the world make you become hypocritical!
2. People who love with all their strength will become more beautiful after separation. magnanimous.
3. We were all fine afterwards, with no greetings or interruptions.
4. Think about it, letting you go is a great merit.
5. After being baptized by fire, mud will also have a strong body.
6. I wish I could wake up every morning and see you and the sunshine. Then you will rub my hair and say, baby, get up, I made breakfast. How I want to go shopping with you. When you are tired, you say, baby, I will carry you. In fact, even if you don't do any of these, as long as you are by my side, it is enough for me. It's just that I always forget that you have left.
7. Some people become dispensable after experiencing certain things.
8. The deepest loneliness in the soul comes with sobriety.
9. Laugh happily every day, go to bed when you are tired, and smile when you wake up. Life is no big deal!
10. Why I feel sad, I don’t know, it’s just all of a sudden. Perhaps, listening to a song when you are sad can soothe your soul, but it can also hurt your soul.
11. I have spent my whole life loving you; leaving is only your momentary decision! If we don’t meet again, we will say goodbye forever! I will silently pray for your happiness, but I will I'm sad that I can't be with you until the end.
12. Since you want to abandon our love so much, then all I can give you is freedom, so I said break up. I gave you the opportunity to pursue your bread. It's not that I didn't work hard enough, it's not that I didn't want to work hard, it's just that you betrayed our love prematurely.
13. We are always meeting and separating from people. Some people make us burst into tears, some people keep us watching for a lifetime, and some people disappear from our memory forever. It should be a bit regretful that I couldn't wait for those people quietly and let them feel their emotions, nor could I read those people carefully and let myself listen to their inner voices.
14. My youth was wasted only for you, so I will quietly pick it up for you. It’s just that I still can’t let go, I’m too dependent on you, but I still can’t let go. It's still sunny after the rain. I don't need your charity.
15. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, only after experiencing pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after being stupid can you know how to persist at the right time, such as giving up; in gaining and giving up, we slowly get to know ourselves. Put away your mood and keep walking; if you miss the flower, I will get rain; if you miss him, I will meet you.
A philosophical talk: look at the warm sunshine, and occasionally think about it
1. Being tired is a kind of fulfillment; being tired is a kind of emptiness. . Whether it is pursued actively or forced by life, fatigue is the result of striving for goals. Having a goal and striving for it is the fulfillment of life. Whether it is the pressure of life or the loss of the heart, the heart is tired because the heart has nothing to rely on, which is a kind of emptiness. People are not afraid of being tired physically, but they are afraid of being tired mentally. Always give yourself a goal, no matter how big or small, so that your heart can spread its wings and fly.
2. When life is in adversity, remember to be patient; when life is in good times, remember to be restrained; when life is successful, remember to be bearish; when life is frustrated, remember to let things go. When you are in a bad mood, you need to cultivate yourself; when you are in a happy mood, you need to calm down. Quietness is not only a kind of rest, but also a kind of practice. All troubles come from hustle and bustle; all pain comes from restlessness. The body will be tired if it runs for too long, and the soul will be injured if it wanders for too long.
3. People should face life with a smile, face work with passion, face family with true feelings, and face challenges with enthusiasm. Life is full of hardships and pain, life is also full of gains and happiness; life is full of misfortunes and setbacks; life is also full of miracles and opportunities. When you can choose, please face life with the sweetest smile; if you can't choose, please try to face life with the sweetest smile.
4. Your life requires your own efforts, and your life requires your own deliberate management. You have to be serious when you choose, and you have to be dedicated when you decide. Don’t have too many complaints in your world, don’t have too much regret in your space, what’s yours will always be yours. There are many people coming and going, but there is always a place that has not changed. Looking at the warm sunshine, I still think about it occasionally.
5. No matter how difficult a thing is, whether it will have results or not, these are not important. Even if you fail, there is nothing wrong with it. The key is whether you have the courage to free your hands and feet, and whether you have the courage to be brave. face to face. Many times, we don’t lack methods, but what we lack is the determination and courage to move forward. Don't be timid when things start, and don't be hesitant when things are going on. Only in this way can everything be possible.
6. The word "cherish" reveals a lot of vicissitudes, and there must be gains and losses. People live like this, don't be too demanding, and don't have too many extravagant expectations.
So let's start with fun! Do what you want, love what you want. If you make a mistake, don't regret it, don't complain, there is no perfect person in the world. Fall down, get up and try again. How can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain? I believe that we will walk more steadily next time.
7. Every picture seems to be telling a strange story, a little beautiful, a little happy; half melancholy, half sad; every sentence seems to be interpreting the past of a firework, Maybe it is charming, maybe it is silent; half landscape, half wind and moon; I am very grateful to meet so many people in the sky of words. It is them who have given me encouragement, and it is also them who have taught me some things that I need to persist in.
8. The most difficult opponent to deal with is not others, but yourself. To overcome the inner demons and defeat the inner demons, you will be sure of victory. Give it your all and don’t give yourself an excuse to regret. Even if you can't win completely, you are still worthy of yourself; some losses are destined, and some fates will never bear fruit. Loving someone does not necessarily lead to owning them. If you own someone, you must love them well.
9. This is the life of a person, and we should spend it happily. As long as we do not lose confidence in life and the pursuit of ideals, as long as you work hard religiously and treat it optimistically, if there are good opportunities in your career, you should respond quickly, seize the opportunities, make decisive decisions, and you should have superhuman wisdom. Fulfill your life ideals, because life is short and time is like a sword, making every season of our life brilliant.
10. Human abilities are not innate. We need to polish them in learning, temper them in practice, temper them in hardships, and grow in frustrations. Develop an ambition and focus on the affairs of the universe; develop a pair of wise eyes to see everything in the world; develop a skill to change the realm of life. How far our mind can tolerate, how much we can carry; how far our eyes can see, how far we can go; the height of our quality determines the height of our life. Think more about his (her) good qualities, and also think about your own bad qualities
A young man often quarreled with his newlywed wife, and he regretted that he had made a mistake before getting married; I felt that it would be really boring to live like this, so I planned to divorce my wife after seeking my father's opinion.
After listening to his complaints, his father asked him: Son, does your wife have any advantages?
The son complained: There were some before marriage, but no more now.
The father asked again: Do you have any advantages in her heart?
The son hesitated for a while and said: It seems that it was before marriage, but not now.
My father said: You are better than me. I didn’t know what your mother’s strengths were before I got married. The young man looked up at his father, wanting to say something, but finally swallowed it.
The father walked outside the house, picked up a tile and a ball of cotton, and asked him: Which of them is harder?
The son didn't know what his father wanted to do, so he said: No need to ask, of course the tiles are hard!
My father raised the tiles and cotton to the same height and let go, only to see that the tiles fell to pieces after falling to the ground, while the cotton was fluttering. fell down. Then the father asked him again: Why is the hard one broken, but the soft one is not damaged at all?
The son thought for a while and said: The soft one is very light, so it is not damaged at all.
The father patted his shoulder and said deeply: My child, you should be as humble as cotton, not hurting others or yourself; instead of being as sharp and angular as a tile. Cold is ice, and it breaks when it is hard. It hurts others and hurts myself! I only understand one truth in my life. Acknowledging the advantages of another person will make you warm. Focusing on the shortcomings of others, you will hurt yourself in your life. ;You should learn from cotton, which can protect others from wind and cold and can be as warm as the sun. A kind word can warm her for a lifetime, but a selfish and mean word can make her hate you for a lifetime and ruin your marriage; do you want me to treat your mother like you treat your wife?
Son He lowered his head and said to his father, "Never!" Then he silently turned around and walked towards his home.
Acknowledging the good qualities of another person warms your heart. By focusing on the shortcomings of others, you will hurt yourself throughout your life. This is especially true in marriage. Think more about his/her good qualities, and also think about your own bad qualities. Think about it, go for a walk, let it go, let it go (appreciation of beautiful essays on life insights)
On the journey of life, there are more twists and turns, hardships and adversities than smooth roads, smoothness and success. How to get rid of the mental shackles, you might as well try the eight methods of comfort.
Think about it, from another perspective, setbacks and failures are exercises for people’s will, determination and courage. People mature after repeated trials and tribulations. The important thing is to learn lessons and avoid or make fewer repetitive mistakes.
Take a walk, go for an outing in the wild, go for a walk in the mountains and rivers, relax your mind, gaze at the green fields, return to nature, wash away the troubles in your chest, clear your turbid thoughts, purify the dust in your soul, and recall Loss of sanity and confidence.
Compare with colleagues, fellow villagers, classmates, and friends. Although it is not enough, it is more than enough. Adjust your mentality in time to maintain mental balance. Don't lose confidence because of a small defeat, don't lose your energy because of a small setback.
Let it go for a while. If it is not an urgent matter, simply put it down and ignore it. If you talk about it in a few days, you may have a clearer understanding and a more reasonable and thorough plan.
Have fun and think about happy or funny things; or pick up an interesting book and read a few passages that make you laugh or be humorous.
Sing a beautiful lyrical song or a cheerful and relaxing dance music may evoke your memories of the beautiful past and inspire your longing for a bright future.
Give in, life is like driving on a narrow road. When it’s time to give in, you should have a higher attitude and a longer view, and don’t judge the pros and cons of one moment or one thing. Let people take one step, and the sea and the sky will be brighter.