If you break up, do you also have contact information with each other? Many people choose to delete their relevant information after breaking up and don't want to communicate with each other, but in the end, if you really like each other, you can't become a basin friend. Why did my predecessor keep his contact information after breaking up with him? In fact, from the perspective of boys, I think there are three key reasons why boys don't delete their predecessors' contact information after breaking up.
1. You, and plan to save you again.
Many boys took it back immediately after breaking up, but they chose to live quietly for a while. Everyone faces different emotions. If it's you, are you ready to take back the other person? Do you still want to save a relationship? Do you still love each other? Make it clear that you will save each other again in the future.
2. Married people will treat you as a spare tire.
A mobile phone WeChat directory probably has more than one ex-girlfriend. The reason why he can lie quietly on the friend list is because he is leaving space for himself, that is, keeping a spare tire for himself. Before he meets the most suitable and stronger one, the contact information of his ex-girlfriend can be deleted.
3. ok. There is a difference between keeping or deleting _.
Many times, when boys say separation, it is actually separation. That's not what girls say. Just for fun. If a boy decides to leave you, it's heartless. If you don't delete WeChat, it's not really effective. It's just that there's one more person on the friends list. If you don't love, you don't care about anything. No matter how hard you try to make it right, it won't help.
Many people say that a qualified ex should be like a dead body, even if he meets in the street, he will pretend not to see it and never touch it. People who keep your WeChat may have all kinds of ideas in their hearts, but in the final analysis, they really guarantee to get back together after breaking up and have a good ending. Even after the successful reunion, the same situation will lead to the separation of the two.
So, after breaking up, take a good look at yourself, and everything else has nothing to do with yourself. You just need to change the status quo and live a better life than others.
The development trend of emotion is not easy to achieve overnight, and we are constantly looking for mutual cooperation in the long-term influence to make each other more and more happy. The stronger the emotion, the stronger it is. As we all know, some girls who don't know how to communicate with their boyfriends have never changed their minds, but only consider and stipulate each other from their own perspective. You can naturally understand that your sense of belonging is extremely low and you must rely on others to improve it. But you often forget some simple things. Emotions are mutual. If you can't give the other person what you want, then the other person can't meet your needs.
For example, if you quarrel again and again and make trouble for no reason, he will satisfy you at first and make you feel that your sense of belonging has been guaranteed, but in the long run, his comfort will be shaken, and you need to expect your own comfort to satisfy your comfort every time, so _ he will be very tired.
He commented on your WeChat circle of friends because this situation made him very comfortable. He didn't choose to give you a private message or make up with you. You don't have to bear the pressure of work, but you can be appreciated from a fair perspective. This view is very pleasant.
What you need is to go back to your previous comfort zone and conform to your previous mode of getting along. Obviously, such a rule is a nightmare for him. So _ just _ have a chance to save it?
Naturally, all recovery will be based on getting rid of comfort. Because he is used to this kind of comfort, he must take the initiative to break through this kind of comfort, give him a different feeling, and let him immerse himself in his past characters and influences again.
Your opinions and methods are very important now. You can keep your charm and become your friend without moving. But you moved. It's probably dangerous. Maybe even my friends can't. What if you want to try to get him back, and then you go back in time?