No matter who is right or wrong, as long as there is a quarrel, the man must gently coax the woman once, and the woman can calm down immediately. Otherwise, when the woman sees the man crying, she can't help crying. Once serious consequences are caused, the man will be responsible for all this.
If you quarrel at home, don't leave. If you really want to leave, you are not allowed to leave the community. It is not allowed to leave the phone and turn it off.
4, respect each other's parents and elders, quarrel unhappy can't be rude to parents.
5. The fault party should take the initiative to apologize, and the fault-free party should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the fault party apologizes and compensates.
6. When both sides make mistakes, they should review each other. After realizing the mistake and apologizing, the man offered to take the woman out to play.
7. When you want to vent your anger, you are not allowed to smash things. Can only eat. It's really itchy. I can only hit the pillow.
8. Try not to quarrel all night. When sleeping at night, the man must take the initiative to hug the woman. When the woman is angry, she can't let the man give up. Be sure to put women to sleep and have a good dream. ...
9. Massage each other once a week, because it is hard for everyone to quarrel often. If the man's craft is not good, he can learn from the blind master, and it is forbidden to learn from the girls in the hair salon!
10. When quarreling, the man is not allowed to hang up. If he hangs up, he should call back immediately and apologize. If the woman hangs up during a quarrel, the man must call her within 1 minute. If the phone can't get through, you can't call again and again in a rage, but the woman should also give the man face, and the number of calls should not exceed 5 times each time.
(The provisions of the Convention are the above-mentioned provisions for the time being, and the woman can change them without reason or time limit. The man has the right to raise an objection, but the final interpretation right of whether the objection is adopted is in the woman's hand. )
Man's signature: YYY
Signature of woman: XXX
And the Convention on Married Life:
An economy
Considering that the existing bank deposits of both parties are almost zero, there will be debt management after marriage, and in line with the purpose of building a well-off family together, the following agreement is reached on the married economy.
Monthly deposit: after the salary is received, it will be taken out separately. After the water, electricity and miscellaneous fees for animal husbandry and the fixed living expenses are retained, the remaining 20% will be used as family funds to buy furniture, and the remaining 50% will be used to repay the loan. The family fund and the future fund will have separate accounts for special purposes. Large quarterly awards and year-end awards are treated equally. The monthly living expenses shall be kept and paid by the woman. If there is any surplus, it will be returned directly to the next month. The water, electricity and miscellaneous expenses of the property shall be paid by the man. Unplanned small extra expenses are saved from living expenses and other corresponding living expenses, and time deposits are not allowed. Large expenditures of more than 2,000 yuan need to be discussed and decided by both parties, and they can only be purchased after unanimous approval, and one vote is rejected.
Second, housework.
1, cooking, as long as you get off work normally, you must cook at home, go out every month to improve your food, and buy food once a week on weekends. In principle, the woman is responsible for cooking and the man is responsible for washing dishes. But the man learns to cook at least eight dishes so as not to make the woman hungry when she doesn't want to cook.
2, room cleaning, both sides * * * is responsible for, at least three days to ensure cleaning, both sides shall not use any excuse to shirk.
3, laundry, in principle, washing machine processing, laundry by both men and women to dry.
3. Family relations
Handle family relations with the attitude of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you".
1, the man's parents and relatives can come to Hangzhou for short-term residence by visiting relatives for a maximum of 3 months. During visiting relatives, children should be considerate and respectful, and get along well. Don't consider bringing your parents together until they are both 70 years old. I hope that both sides will do a good job of explanation.
Both parents have diseases, so they can't shirk their responsibilities. If they are hospitalized, they must take turns to take care of them.
3, other relatives in the family do not participate in chores. Especially when it comes to economic needs.
Fourth, the issue of children.
1, the time of giving birth, the age of giving birth is roughly set at 29 years old (27 years old this year), and the man may not force the woman to give birth early.
Men and women always treat each other equally, whether they are boys or girls. The man and his parents are not allowed to reveal any sexist offspring. Don't ask "Is it a boy or a girl" when you are waiting to see a doctor for the first time. Ask, "How are your adults?" .
3. Children's education belongs to their biological parents, and all other personnel shall not raise excessive objections.
How to deal with the contradiction of verb (abbreviation of verb)
1, don't quarrel in front of parents and friends, but give each other face in public.
2, quarreling at home is not allowed to go away, really want to go out of the community, not to turn it off without a mobile phone.
3. The fault party should apologize, and the fault-free party should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the fault party apologizes and compensates.
Both sides should review each other's mistakes. After realizing the mistake and apologizing, the man offered to take the woman out to play.
Don't say "divorce" easily on both sides of the quarrel. If you don't think about getting married, think twice.
Sixth, the circle of friends of both sides.
Respect each other's circle of friends. And give each other appropriate communication space, don't get to the bottom of everything. If both parties have entertainment, they need to inform each other in advance and agree on the time to go home. In principle, it should not be later than 12.