First, the original meaning of the word "bin":
In the oldest hieroglyphics in China, especially "Oracle Bone Inscriptions", the figure of "Bin" is like "Under the eaves, a man and a woman are standing and a woman is kneeling to wait on him". What does this mean? It turned out that it was a matriarchal society at that time, and only the woman had a fixed residence, and the woman was dominant and had absolute power. When both men and women have a crush on each other, the woman will invite the man to her residence, serve him, live a husband-and-wife life and reproduce. At this time, the relationship between men and women is "mutual respect and dynamic balance". Therefore, there is the meaning of "guest, respect" (Shuo Wen Jie Zi) and the idiom "respect each other as guests". Now some people misunderstand that "treating each other like guests" means that husband and wife are like guests, which is a misinterpretation of "guests".
Therefore, the word "customer" should be understood as follows: first, respect each other and maintain a dynamic and balanced relationship, such as "customer-oriented"; Second, people who are particularly respected, such as "state guests" and "distinguished guests"; The third is "surname", such as "bin Fei" and "Wu"
Second, the origin of Bin surname:
Bing family originated in the Xia Dynasty during the reign of King Shao Kang (BC 1905- 1884).
According to "Hunan Songpo Genealogy", in Xia Dynasty, Wei Bin was a mediocre minister, assisted in the founding of the country and became a hero of Xia Dynasty. There are stories of guests in Chapters 7, 8 and 10 of Xia Shang unofficial history (Xing Zhu). Therefore, it can be determined that the Bing family originated in the Xia Dynasty during the reign of King Shao Kang (BC 1905- 1884).
According to historical records, before the establishment of the Xia Dynasty, the Xia tribe and other surrounding tribes fought frequently for the leader of the alliance. Because of Yu's meritorious service in water control and the development of agricultural production, Xia tribe's power was strengthened and he became the leader of tribal alliance. In order to drive Sanmiao to Danjiang and Hanshui Valley, the imperial power was consolidated. After Yu died, his son succeeded to the throne. He abolished his abdication and inherited the throne handed down from generation to generation, which triggered a fierce battle for the throne in the Xia Dynasty. Boyi began to resist, and Boyi was defeated and killed after the war. Xia Qi established the hereditary system of the throne through struggle. The Xia Dynasty was established. Many national leaders went to Yangzhai and gave a banquet in Juntai (now Yuzhou, Henan). This is the enjoyment of Juntai. After the establishment of the Xia Dynasty, Hu, a noble in the Xia Dynasty, opposed the succession and began to suppress Hu's rebellion with the army, thus consolidating the rule of the Xia Dynasty. After Xia Qi's death, Zi Taikang succeeded to the throne. Because Taikang pursued a luxurious and lewd life, the five Taikang brothers fought for the throne first, and then there was the Wu Guan rebellion, which weakened the rule of Xia Dynasty. After Taikang's death, Zi Zhongkangli. After Zhong Kang's death, son and son stood side by side. At this time, Houyi, the leader of the poor family of Dongyi nationality, seized the throne by taking advantage of the internal kingship struggle in Xia Dynasty. But not long after, Yi was killed by Han Biao, a Boming ethnic group in Dongyi. Han Zhuo killed Xia Housang. Xia Hou's wife gave birth to Shao Kang.
Shao Kang was the King of Xia in BC 1905- 1884, and lived for 2 1 year. At that time, Bin Qiang was an old minister of Hou Yi. Shao Kang ended the 40-year rule of Hou Yi and Han Gang, restored the Xia regime, and appointed Bin Qiang, an old minister of Hou Yi, as the Xia Dynasty. (unofficial history in Xia and Shang Dynasties, the tenth time, "The King of Shao Kang worships Zen and catches the strange position and lets his brother go" records: According to legend, King Shao Kang ascended the pole at noon in the first year of the year, that is, he ordered Chongkai to be a Taishi, the foolish man Yao Si to be a Taifu, and Nina Dai to be a Taibao, and he became a Sima himself. After Zhao Qi, Yu Cao, the grandson of Xiangtu and the son of Chang 'e, became Stuart. Calling four ministers to Dongyi, he died three times in his life and was honored as a guest of honor, thinking that it was commonplace. )
According to the archaeological data recently unearthed in Oracle Bone Inscriptions for nearly a hundred years, there was an important town historian named "Bin" in the Wuding period in the late Shang Dynasty. Many Oracle Bone Inscriptions unearthed in Wuding period have his records and signatures.
According to the research of experts and scholars, "Bin" was the leader of "Bin" at that time, and held an important official position in Shang Dynasty, Wu Ding. At that time, the Bin clan had a fief name "Bin" and the leader had a title "Zi Bin".