The most extravagant person in the world is someone who is willing to spend time with you. So, I want to say to you: please respect those who are willing to spend their time on you!

I don't know when Ms. X added WeChat. There are many readers on WeChat, and sometimes I don't care.

One day, Ms. X sent me a long paragraph describing her psychological problems, roughly saying that her boyfriend abused her and her family treated her badly.

I am very busy, busy preparing lessons and writing. So, I simply replied to her a few words, probably meaning that she should not rely on others and try to think independently.

A few days later, a stranger came to me. I thought my readers passed without thinking.

The first thing he said was: My mother, what did you say to my girlfriend? Believe it or not, I killed you! ?

Later, when I asked, I knew that this girlfriend was Ms. X. I quickly asked her on WeChat to ask what was going on.

I was surprised to find that.

I can't believe I was deleted by my friends!

Her boyfriend's side was still full of dirty words, but I blacked him out, so he left a message on the official WeChat account and began to swear.

This matter has a great influence on me, and I will not easily add friends from now on. Even if others ask for help again, I am not so enthusiastic.

I know this is wrong, but I'm really afraid it's too late. I am afraid that in this haunted world, life will disappear before I am young again.

Every university teacher has a sadness, that is, watching his students idle away their time.

Night classmates are not handsome but romantic. They make love on dating software every day, and they succeed about two or three times a month, which is already a brilliant record.

I asked him: DOG, many people signed it and said, "Don't disturb the gun." How did you succeed?

? Teacher, it is not necessarily what she really thinks. People are always hypocritical. You have to spend some time and energy on this! ?

I have a good relationship with my classmates at night. By the way, share his experience and skills. After listening patiently, I asked him.

? Carelessly, you spent two years of time and energy. Tell me, what else do you have besides physical stimulation? True love?

The night student was silent for a long time, and a month later he signed up for my elective course.

I have a lot of friends, all of whom are fans of over 100,000 tubas. One of their important activities every day is to fight with their fans.

I asked them if they would waste time, and my friend said that they needed to vent their emotions.

I told my friends that the official account number of WeChat is A? Intellectual exchange? Where I don't discuss things other than knowledge, how can I have emotions?

The friend smiled and said, yes!

Network is a double-edged sword, it is a crematorium and a huge treasure house.

There is a lot of rubbish on the Internet, as well as a lot of resources and wisdom, but resources and wisdom are often in the hands of big coffee and cows, so you should learn to ask for help correctly.

To be exact, asking for help is not a waste of time!

Similar? Hello? There won't be such meaningless questions, what's more? Hello? This is a false proposition in itself. Here? Are you online? Is it existentialism? Are you online? Really? Although I am not here, my soul is with you. Does that count?

Is it similar to it? Excuse me, can I bother you for a few minutes? Don't show up.

We all know that it is difficult to solve a problem in a few minutes at a time.

And if I put down what I'm doing and turn to your problem, it will take more than ten minutes to solve your problem, and then turn to what I just did.

Come straight to the point, and I'll answer you when I'm done. This is the best.

Therefore, effective communication is not beating around the bush. Respecting each other's time is the greatest courtesy to each other.

Many awesome people's time is precious, and they have also experienced the beauty of Ms. X and her boyfriend. Most of them are cautious on the Internet. If you want to acquire their knowledge, you must study? Comment on the help method? .

? Comment on the help method? That is, after you ask your own questions, put forward one or two solutions for the other party to comment on.

Comments for help method has the advantages of:

(1) Explain that the method is what I think, I make a decision, and you are not responsible for your suggestion. Obscure expression, if your suggestion is really lame, I won't bother you. In this way, the probability of others helping you is greatly improved.

(2) Now that the method has been given, I just need to comment. People like comments, but they don't like the active output scheme because the latter consumes more energy.

You will find this tendency when you observe Weibo and Zhihu. Comments are often more interesting than content, even more intelligent than content. The success rate of making suggestions is much higher than that of making suggestions, which not only saves time and cost, but also gains more wisdom.

(3) Criticism fully respects the personality of others, especially gives others room to pretend. Others can also be more clear about what you want me to say from the options you give.

(4) Let others feel that at least this matter is well thought out and everyone is willing to let you go? Get on the horse, have a ride? No one likes to be? Dedicated Zhuge Liang? .

Now you know, right? Fiona Fang, what do you think? In this sentence, it actually contains a kind of wisdom of De Renjie!

I know a leader who asks his subordinates for every meeting. What do you think of this problem? After the subordinates expressed their opinions, he summarized them and then sublimated them at will. After listening to the speech, everyone thought he was brilliant.

I hope this method is useful to you.

Some people say that time is the best healing medicine. That's not true. Anyway, time is not medicine, medicine is time. You can't make medicine by wasting time.

Lu Xun said: Time is life. Wasting other people's time for no reason is actually killing people for money.

Time is still there, but we are flying. So dear, if you really love me and care about me. Please don't waste my time, including yours.

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