Chatting with girls online, when we meet a girl we really like, we usually use some skills to impress her heart, so as to better understand each other and promote their feelings. Then let's introduce the online chat routines for everyone.

Chatting with girls online 1 1: Avoid aimless chatting.

What is the purpose of chatting? It is to upgrade your relationship with a girl and make her like you. The ultimate goal is to ask her out. Otherwise, what's the point of spending so much time and energy chatting with girls? Of course, if you just want to find someone to kill time, that's what you mean.

But if you want to establish a relationship with her, then the content and direction of the chat topic must serve your purpose. Even seemingly harmless topics are for what purpose, such as making girls feel comfortable and relaxed, paving the way for other topics with strong effects.

For example, when we talk to girls about our daily lives, we show them our living conditions and tastes, and describe our true image to her, which can help her better understand us and build trust. So even if we chat with our sister, we should talk about some topics that can help us improve our image in her heart.

For example, if you share your dinner with your sister today, tell her that you cooked it yourself, and everything looks great. Chatting in this way can show your ability to girls when telling them about daily life events, and make your image in her heart more valuable.

But if you tell Silas I'm going to dinner, who made it? Oh, mom made it. Does it taste good？ it doesn't matter ...

After talking like this for a long time, can you instill something useful in the girls? No, at most, it's a live broadcast of your daily life, as plain as boiled water. No amount of talking about this topic can improve your position in her heart.

It should be noted that girls' interest in boys is time-sensitive. After she realizes that she is interested in you, she should upgrade her relationship in time, or invite her instead of continuing to talk nonsense with her every day. Otherwise, if a girl's enthusiasm fades, if you can't get a meaningful attraction, then her good feelings for you will continue to drain.

Step 2 show your value

Show your value through chatting, and let the other person feel that you are a boy with very high value and good quality. That's what I usually tell girls, because I feel that you are a very sincere person.

And you are a girl, so I want to ask you a question. Then I will show my charm, singleness, friendship and kindness to my girlfriend through DHV's own story. Finally, I would like to add that no matter what happens to the girl I am with, I will take care of her for the rest of my life even if she is in a wheelchair. The girls are impressed by me and attracted by me. They want to be lovers with me. I tried to chat with hundreds of girls on QQ in these ways, and the other party was moved to death. Many of them and I have become true friends or lovers.

3. What if she is slow and cold?

I chatted with a girl with great interest, but she didn't reply a few words for a long time. The topics and lines that have been brewing for a long time are as frustrating as not seeing the splash.

This is the most common chat accident we have encountered, and it is also the trouble of many brothers. If this happens only occasionally, it means that girls may be busy and there is no need to worry about this situation. But if she does this often, you should be careful, which means that you have lost your attraction to her.

If this happens, if we do nothing and let it develop naturally, it is absolutely impossible to wait until the girls "wake up" before releasing their enthusiasm for you. The result of letting nature take its course is that you gradually disappear into each other's memories. Only when we take the initiative to do something can we get out of this embarrassing situation.

Don't question her directly!

"You don't want to talk to me recently?"

"You are a very busy man. It took you so long to reply. "

"You always come back so slowly. If you don't want to talk to me, just unplug it. "

Whatever the reason, this kind of dissatisfied questioning will cause a fatal blow to your image. If it is because you are less attractive that she is like this, then as you wish, girls are so excited, maybe it is really black you.

Now teach you a trick:

We can make fun of her, for example, the next time a girl replies to your message, send her a sentence like this: "Your reply is so slow, my patience has been ruthlessly destroyed by you, and I want to break up with you."

(Remember to use obviously exaggerated words such as breaking up, breaking up, divorce, etc. to produce a teasing effect. If you use the words goodbye, farewell and don't want to talk to you, it seems that you are still in the mood. )

The reason why I want to send this sentence after the girl replies to your message is because if I send this sentence to her without replying to your message for a long time, there is no guarantee that she can understand this sentence, so the effect of teasing is greatly reduced.

Don't talk again until she sends you a reply!

And after the girl replies to you, you have to ask her back every few minutes. When you reply, girls will have all kinds of associations in their hearts. "Does he mean he is not satisfied with me?" "He doesn't want to talk to me?" "It's not true that you haven't spoken for so long."

Her mood will fluctuate under various associations, and she can't help asking if you are still there. At this time, you will ridicule: "Don't you see that I am very angry?" Come and share the property. "In this way, no matter how stupid a girl is, she will know that you are joking.

Even if girls lose interest in you, after this wave of teasing, they can more or less recover some points, and then we will have enough time to rebuild our attraction.

Online Chat Routine 2 How to chat online in the chat routine 1;

Small videos can better describe the state of you or things around you. For example, I often send girls small videos of my cat being naughty, and then, chat, girls want me to take out my cat and pat it, and then. ......

Or if I buy delicious food in the supermarket, I will send a small video to my sister, telling her what the baby wants to eat, and I will buy it for you, or go directly to find her favorite snacks and send her a small video. These can be good ways to start a chat routine, let my sister reply to us, and then start a beautiful emotional conversation.

How to chat online with girls;

1, you can send a strange recording or a silent recording directly to a girl, and she will be curious about what you are doing or what you are sending, so there is a great chance for a girl to reply. For example, if you send her a recording of you taking drugs or singing in a bar, then after the girl replies to you, you can talk to her about the bar or sing.

If the other person doesn't go to the bar, then you can directly guide her to talk about other topics. For example, I heard that girls who don't like going to bars are all foodies, and let's talk about food. A girl is illogical. She can talk about anything she is interested in, or what suits her mood.

You can send her a strange photo, such as something beautiful but unusual, or delicious food or something else. This will also make her curious and have a desire to reply. A girl sent me a photo two days ago. It was a yellow mushroom. I haven't seen it, but she said it was delicious. Her mother often grows them in her hometown in the northeast, but rarely. Then I was curious, and we started talking about all kinds of food from mushrooms. .....

3, deliberately say the wrong thing, and then open the topic. For example, you can say that you are also watching a movie? Where do you play, too Where do you eat too? Or I can sit on your right and wait. Then she will be curious, and the girl may reply: What? No? Wait a minute.

How to chat online with girls;

Chatting is a combination of language and vocabulary, so it is necessary to summarize the elements of humor at present, such as meaningful paragraphs and some humorous online terms. Try to imitate first, figure out the deep meaning, associate more and create more. Coupled with the above changes, you will gradually become a humorous person, and you will be able to chat easily. For example, the following example

1, this puppy is so white. Let's call it Xiaohei from now on.

2. Another day has passed. How was your day? Are you farther away from your dream?

Don't use honey traps on me in the future, or I will play with you.

When people are quiet, I often ask myself if I knew you at the beginning.

I have nothing to say to you. I just want to kiss you.

6. Tell us what you are unhappy about and make us happy.

7. Don't be shy when a girl accidentally touches you. At the same time, you can tease and misinterpret each other. You say, "Don't you just want my body? Don't you just want my heart?" "

Routine one of grasping women's psychology:

Understand her and accept her little vanity, even the so-called snobbery and narrow-mindedness. There is no need for men to criticize women's vanity too much. Men should know that a woman's small vanity and small mind have nothing to do with her personality, but a manifestation of a woman's delicate mind or care about you. A vain man who can't treat women correctly and objectively certainly can't understand women's hearts.

Grasp the woman's psychology. Routine 2:

Understand her and cooperate with her little emotions. Many men are always dismissive of women's petty bourgeoisie and even attack them mercilessly, which will obviously disappoint women. Romance should be part of life. Without romance, life is boring. Only those who can survive can understand emotional appeal and romance, and it is more difficult to catch up with girls without understanding the romance of women.

Routine three of grasping women's psychology:

Understand her and create a sense of security for her. In love, women are more eager for security, so women will always unconsciously take you as the center, which is a sign that she cares about you. However, some men are disgusted with this practice. In fact, it is precisely because men don't understand women's hearts. A man who understands a woman's heart should give her a strong sense of security, so that you will be more relaxed and happy in this feeling.

Chatting with girls online 3 1. Design a beautiful image.

Here, don't call others vulgar. On WeChat, we basically look at other people's images at first sight. After you say hello to a girl, many girls will look at your photos for the first time. How can an unremarkable photo make her reply to you easily? Of course, don't just take a photo and post it. Try to beautify your photos.

Second, learn to make friends.

In real life, many women don't like men who talk too much, but on the internet, if you want to be a man who cherishes words like gold, I advise you not to pick up girls! You don't want to talk anyway! When greeting a woman for the first time, don't always say "hello" and "what are you doing?" "Where are you from?" .

It bothers everyone to see this, let alone women who are often harassed. So how to know a woman, even after several chats, can't leave a strong and deep impression on her. Only by giving her a surprise can she be attracted. The first greeting can be ambiguous. If I ignore you, send her a message. Anyway, you have nothing to do, just talk to yourself. Don't always think you're something. Don't chat and pick up girls! There is always a sentence that will move her.

Third, a signature with personality.

A good signature will make the other party remember you instantly and even try to figure out your mood and personality. Being curious about you will naturally reduce the probability of refusing to reply to your message.

Fourth, be prepared to be rejected.

Don't think it's cool to sign just because your avatar is set. Say hello to a strange girl, send a message, and others will ignore you. Stop dreaming! How can you make a friend you can talk to without experience or rejection and failure? Pick up girls on WeChat, so that she can't refuse you!

Fifth, have a sense of humor.

Humor, which is a big problem, needs flexible words, quick response to emergencies and leap-forward analysis of things. Humor is neither humorous nor humorous. Humor is another kind of understanding and cognition of people and things around them based on a cultural heritage;

There is a little self-mockery and a little cynicism, which can make the big things small and the small things small. Do the opposite, not against common sense. In the process of chatting, linking two unrelated things or theories in a reasonable language way is enough to win a smile from a beautiful woman. After all, women always have a good impression on humorous men, not for anything else, but because you can make her happy. I am afraid that only when we encounter practical problems and get practical solutions can we feel the mystery.

Chatting skills of wechat picking up girls

1, a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere

Many boys chat, because life is monotonous, so the content of the chat is mostly complaining. It's hard work, and I have to listen to your complaints. It is unrealistic to expect your sister to have a good reaction. So happy mood is very important, no matter how boring the chat content is, it is most important for two people to be happy.

Step 2 create mood swings

Emotion is the key to the key of WeChat. Whether in a good mood or a bad mood, as long as you are in a mood, your sister has emotional investment, but at least you should not be in a bad mood. Girls are emotional animals. When Taobao double eleven is on sale, buy buy will buy it, whether it will be used or not.

Step 3 create curiosity

Every time I chat with my sister, I say a word twice. I can't show your cards right away. If so, she will feel bored and have no curiosity about you. Curiosity is the beginning of interest, and interest is the beginning of attraction. When you can talk about a topic that girls are interested in, you can take the initiative to interrupt and say that the next time you meet or chat, tell her to continue to invest more in this curiosity, and it will become an interest.

4. Make yourself popular.

Occasionally reveal that there are other girls looking for you, to achieve such an effect, so that she began to worry. If you don't hurry up, other girls will take it away soon.