I was busy correcting my thesis and looking for a job, but I didn't know that a grand and irreversible parting was coming. Never hear the teacher's serious ramble again; No more dormitory access control; When shopping online again, you must change the default delivery address; By autumn, the classroom will be full, but not us ... this is the graduation ceremony. I gave away a handbook about "things worth doing before graduation". Since parting is inevitable, at least, we can try our best to make this last college time more brilliant and less regrettable.
1. Clear your memory
Prepare a box and put it in your school badge, ID photo, university admission notice, notebook, favorite book, honorary certificate, commemorative photo, etc. These are your exclusive memories. Prepare a hard disk to store your papers, homework, photos, videos, etc. During college. These are your growth trajectories.
Take photos to commemorate
It is necessary to photograph graduation photo wearing a hat and a dress. Whether it's teachers, classmates, friends, aunts in dormitories, small security guards … take photos with everyone you will never forget, because they are all witnesses of your youth. Teaching building, canteen, playground, library, study lounge, avenue where kittens haunt, bed where you slept for four years ... take pictures of every unforgettable scene on campus, because your best years are here.
3. Graduation trip
Make an appointment with three or five friends for a graduation trip. What matters is not where you went, but who you were with. Because after graduation, you will soon find that traveling is also a luxury. There are always good times, but few people can accompany you.
View old photos
Look at the time. Where have you been? Look at the young self when I first entered school, the "non-mainstream" self, the self during military training, the self unintentionally captured by my classmates, and the embarrassing self ... Compared with the present self, what is missing and what is more. May you finally live up to your time and meet a better yourself.
Write a good paper
Graduation thesis or graduation design is the last answer paper you handed in in four years of college. Finish it carefully, show your ideas and talents, and draw a satisfactory full stop for this stage of learning.
6. The last lesson
Listen carefully or lecture again, even if you studied hard in the last class. Appreciate every class you have attended. It gives you confidence to pursue your inner desire and lays the foundation for your bright future.
7. Be grateful to your teachers and friends.
Say thank you to all the teachers, seniors and classmates who have helped you, and thank them for preaching and teaching for you. You might as well ask them to write you a message, maybe you will continue to draw energy from it in the future.
8. Be grateful to your parents
Maybe you can't remember how many couriers came from your hometown, maybe you can't remember how many phone calls you cared about, but the silent support and companionship of your parents in those years deserves our great gratitude. If possible, invite your parents to your graduation ceremony.
9. soak in the library
Go to the library again, smell the familiar books, then sit in the familiar seat and flip through the books you have been addicted to. Time in the library is always quiet and beautiful. I hope that no matter where you go in the future, you will also bring books and build a spiritual paradise for yourself.
10. Care for the younger generation
The significance of university lies in inheritance. How to succeed and how to fail are all experiences. Before I leave, I might as well send some teaching materials and notes to my brothers and sisters to talk about my study and life experience, my persistence and my regret, and encourage them to continue their efforts and live up to their original heart and youth.
1 1. Show your heart.
In retrospect, did you convey your thoughts to that person? Do you owe someone an apology? After graduation, you should untie the knot for yourself and look back without regret.
12. Xunwei canteen
Make an appointment with a few friends or roommates, and order some favorite foods in the canteen where you have teased and complained, such as special fried dishes, spicy hot dishes, iron plate beef tenderloin, chicken chops and milk tea, and count the memories on the tip of your tongue one by one. For many students, the most unforgettable thing is the meal cooked by my mother, and then the craft of my uncle and aunt in the canteen.
13. Walking on campus
Wandering aimlessly in the campus, chasing the sunrise on the playground, and counting the stars on the roof of the teaching building, see how different it will be to look at it with a parting eye. I left my footprints in every shady corner with deep affection, and printed every inch of loveliness of my alma mater in my heart.
14. Running on the playground
Let's run on the playground for the last time. On the familiar runway and green fields, I remember some sweaty early morning moments, and I remember the happy long-distance running with the sunset as a reward, running in the wind of June and running in the summer of parting.
15. Exchange gifts
Prepare a gift for a teacher, a good friend or someone special to you. It's not necessarily expensive, but you should be careful to leave each other a true and pure youth. If you are interested, you can make a graduation collection of the video materials of your classmates, which is also a special commemorative gift.
16. Sign as a souvenir
Find a white T-shirt, let each student sign it and keep it for himself. In this way, when you miss them and reminisce about your university, you can take them out and recall everyone's youthful appearance again.
17. Hold a farewell dinner
Before graduation, I had the last meal with my roommate's teacher and classmates, and finally had a good chat. Finally, I engraved their vivid appearance in my mind. After that, maybe it's the ends of the earth, and it's hard to meet again.
18. Clean the dormitory
When you leave, remember to give the dormitory a general cleaning. Thank you for this small harbor, which contains all your fatigue, joy and sadness. Then, you can attach a "leave note" and leave it to the next "destiny takes a hand". The reasons for leave are: graduation, leaving school on June X and returning to school on June X. ..
19. Sleeping in the dormitory
You must have had the experience of lying with your roommate after lights out. Talk to you before graduation! Talking about you in the eyes of roommates over the years, your memories of growing up and your future plans will amplify your feelings and deepen your fetters at night.
20. Take part in activities
Whether it's basketball, football, sports, singing, dancing, playing literature and art, I finally took part in a campus cultural and sports activity, and tried my best to run and bloom without regrets, which became the focus of attention at the graduation party and left the most handsome and amazing side in everyone's memories of youth.
2 1. Tracing school history
Maybe many students didn't know much about their alma mater until graduation. I suggest you visit the school history museum again before you leave, or read relevant school history materials, and then review the history of your alma mater and appreciate her youth.
22. Preparation materials
After graduation, everyone has their own plans, but regardless of employment or further education, it is recommended to sort out the materials needed in the later stage, do the relevant procedures and make preparations in advance.
23. Return goods
Remember to return borrowed books, dormitory keys, etc. Before graduation, leave these things intact for the next class. Honesty and self-cultivation are sometimes reflected in such small details.
24. Love activities
There are many things you can't take away after graduation. Participate in charitable donations organized by schools or societies, and donate clothes, books and daily necessities that cannot be taken away to those in need. In addition, you can also participate in a volunteer activity, which may be busy in the future. When you are free now, you can feel the happiness and significance of helping others.
25. write a letter
Write a letter to my future self, or send a postcard to the place where I will go, and tell my future self that I have a long road ahead from here, but the future can be expected.
26. Visit the city
Go to sightseeing bus, the city where your university is located. From the beginning to the end, look at the scenery, people and fireworks of this city. After several years, the beautiful scenery no longer exists.
27. Say goodbye to classmates
Say goodbye to every classmate as much as possible, because some people have never met again. If you are strong, play a special role: send your roommates and classmates out of school one by one, and make a curtain call for a generation's youth journey.
28. Graduation list
In addition to the above, you have to have your own graduation list to check. At this moment, it is time to make a plan for the day after graduation. Think about what unfinished wishes you have and what dreams you want to realize. Plan well, because graduation is the end and the starting point.
29. Don't move. See you later.
You can say goodbye calmly, casually, forcefully or tearfully ... Anyway, the moment you step out of school, you must turn around, take a good look at your alma mater and say goodbye to her and your college time seriously.
30. make an appointment
The station ahead is about to change and a new story is about to happen. Don't forget to make an appointment with your teachers and classmates. See you tomorrow. Goodbye must be as brilliant as today's teenagers! !
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There are some things you won't do after graduation.
Maybe I'll never do it again.
Producer Ma Wenjia Editor Wang Ruolu