I think this boy is neutral now. He should be a mature man at heart. You should create something to attract him. For example, he has a hobby of fencing. You can invite him to a famous fencing hall somewhere and have dinner with friends. If you want to improve the success rate, you must follow his personality and hobbies. After all, I like kittens. Will others take me to see the puppy? It is polite to go, but it is duty not to go! Finally, I wish you catch up with your beloved boy as soon as possible! Come on!