2021-02-21
Seeing words is like meeting each other. After experiencing failure in love, if you ask me, what progress have I made? I will tell you: I learned to be friends with myself.
If you want to forget someone, the best way is to think bad about him.
I am different. I must love this world so much that I would want to take the initiative to reconcile after I was hurt.
If I had followed my previous thinking and approach, after reconciliation, I would have fallen into a deadlock again. Fortunately. I finally learned to be friends with myself.
Women are often more emotional in love and have many beautiful expectations and yearnings. Based on this, most women are actually more vulnerable than men. Learning to be friends with yourself is a skill that women must learn.
Looking back on the state of the past few days, I was confused, my heartbeat was racing, I was anxious, and I told so many people about my bad mood. In the end, my friends advised me to let go, but in the end, I was still so persistent. Even if we got back together, it might not necessarily be a happy ending. So there is some truth to that brief line, “Don’t make your uncertainties known.” Also, don't let the other person feel that he is everything to you, otherwise he will slowly lose interest in you and he will have no sense of crisis at all. And you have invested so much time, energy and emotion, so in this case, you are the one who gets hurt.
To learn to be friends with yourself, you must first love yourself. I went to the forum to find out what are the signs of loving myself? People expressed everything. People must remember not to blindly follow the trend. You must be yourself. You have to understand yourself and accept yourself. Take your emotions into your own hands. It doesn’t mean that you have to completely live your life as a person, but you have to do this: I can live a good life alone, but with you, it may be better. Without you, my life will not be greatly affected. This is the ideal state. Therefore, make decisions for yourself and solve problems for yourself. Learn to think independently and judge for yourself.
Listed points:
1. When you encounter something, you can talk to a trustworthy person. Don’t make it known to everyone. Let yourself calm down first and then solve it.
2. At any time, consider yourself first. Don't be a good old guy.
3. Learn to be alone. You are not living to follow anyone. You are precious, don’t force yourself, you always deserve to meet a better version of yourself.
Surround yourself with positive energy. After last night's nightmare, I changed to a positive wallpaper this morning and changed my signature: The person I like has light, light but not shining, and the same dust as light.
I love myself, I am my own friend, I will become better, I will explore the places where I can emit light and heat, and then release it to my heart's content.