As I grow up, if I encounter difficulties, the first time is when my father passed away, and the second time is now, when I encounter a bottleneck at work.

For the first time, there was no other way but to rely on time to slowly dilute the sadness in my heart. This cannot be overcome by hard work, and the harder I worked, the sadder it became. Maybe because my son was young at the time, I needed to I devoted most of my energy to taking care of him, so the painful time was relatively reduced, which also helped me gradually get out of the predicament to a certain extent.

This matter at work can be regarded as a moderate difficulty. There is no other way but to move forward step by step seriously. As long as the direction is right, there will probably be a day. I will slowly overcome the past, and I think maybe this is also a kind of self-comfort. However, at present, there is no other way except hard work and persistence.

Life has been full of hardships, and it is very difficult to live alone.

In 1999, the company went bankrupt and workers were laid off, and her husband’s company went bankrupt. Husband and wife are like birds in the forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly away separately. The man returns to his hometown to spend time with his lover, leaving his wife and children behind.

A laid-off woman took a child who was just in preschool. In order to survive and pay for the child's tuition, she did any hard and tiring work. She worked in the construction team, worked in ash buckets, and worked in cement. I cleared wasteland in the mountains to grow vegetables and grain, but in the end I was so tired that my back ached, so I set up a street stall again. I rushed to school before 11 o'clock to pick up my children and take them home for dinner. In the afternoon, I sent my children to school before class. After setting up a street stall on the street, the child went directly to the street to eat. At nine o'clock every night throughout the year, I went back with the child to cook and eat. After the child did his homework, I washed the clothes in the sink outside. I had to touch I can't sleep until twelve o'clock, and so on year after year until my child graduates from junior high school and then goes to high school. In order for the child to study with peace of mind, the child lives in school.

When setting up a street stall in Luotian, the temperature must be maintained all year round in spring, summer, autumn and winter. Until my child was admitted to college and graduated with a bachelor's degree in four years, I asked him to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but he refused to take the exam. He said that his mother was too tired and worked too hard, and asked him to find a job to make his mother more relaxed.

It is not easy to live a human life. The bitterness is added to the bitterness and a little sweet. The child lives up to his expectations and lives up to his mother’s hope for him. I have not been tired in vain for these nineteen years.

My cultural level is limited, so experts are welcome to comment.

No one’s life is smooth sailing. It is full of ups and downs. However, in the life of a poor man, he has to endure more difficult steep slopes, colder years, and more sleepless nights than ordinary people. Night...

Two unforgettable things gave me the motivation to never fall down at any time and to keep moving forward ----- In the 1970s, when I was carrying I had been hungry for several hours and ran home with my schoolbag on my back. My mother opened the lid of the pot and shoveled a handful of soft wheat grains. I held the wheat grains for a few times and put them in my stomach...My mother told me that there was no more. I want to keep an older brother and younger brother who haven’t returned home yet.

Although I wasn't full, I didn't feel panic. It was strange that it was not the wheat harvest season. Why did my mother give the wheat grains to our brothers to eat? It was more than a month later that we found out that our family had run out of food. The wheat grains we ate were dried wheat that my mother lent us the night before. We soaked it overnight and then cooked it until it was soft for us the next day... Knowing how difficult it was for our parents to raise us, after school No matter how hungry I was, I endured it, silently carrying my bamboo basket and going to the fields to look for pig food, and on the way I could find some lettuce to satisfy my hunger...

In the 1990s, a family of four went to a foreign country to survive, and a family of four got up early and stayed up late. Busy in a foreign country, but poor income! In the spring of 1992, I received a letter from my parents. In three days, I was going to erect a monument for my grandparents who had died young. I had planned that the travel expenses would be only a few dozen yuan. But when I got home, I realized that the date had been postponed for several days, so I had to I was waiting at home, and when I left home after finishing my work, I found out that the fare only covers two-thirds of the mileage. I really don’t know what to do? I walked out of the house silently. I was about to leave the village when I suddenly heard shouting. I turned around and saw my mother. She handed over fifty yuan. When I took the money from my mother's thin and wrinkled hands, tears hit my eyes and I hurriedly said goodbye to her kind eyes and went on the road. , Duihei arrived at the destination, and I was speechless for more than 300 miles...

Perhaps it was the experience of living in poverty since I was a child that gave me the courage and strength to overcome difficulties. Such difficult days are gone. Here we are, although the road is very steep now, and even if we don’t eat well, we are still full. Compared to yesterday when we were hungry and cold, it is nothing! What storms and difficulties are insurmountable?

During the most difficult times in life, I relied on adjusting my mentality to transcend myself and get through it!

I had cancer and had surgery. At that time, the words of comfort from my relatives and friends were like scratching the surface and did not have much effect on me. Fortunately, I love the poetry of Li Bai and Su Shi, and respect the Buddhist way of Zen enlightenment. Whenever I lose all hope, I read aloud the "Heart Sutra", Li Bai's "Sleepwalking Heavenly Mother Says Farewell", Su Shi's "The River Goes East" and other poems, and I suddenly feel meditative. Or be full of energy, and the spiritual world will rise again!

Tumors are not afraid of medicine, but they often turn away from optimism and Zen enlightenment.

If you are in the most difficult time of your life like me, please join me in singing -

"Linjiang Immortal? Singing to Heaven's Dream"

The fallen leaves can be broken by the westerly wind. Who can complain about the setting sun and me?

If you don’t kneel down in this life, you will be doomed.

Thousands of water willows dry up in autumn, and thousands of butterflies bloom in spring.

Why not sing about Tianmu’s dream? Taibai touched each other's hands.

Make an appointment with Xianfengdao bone wine.

The skin is thrown down from the world, and the roar reaches the sky.

(The composition is based on the style of Long Yu Sheng Su Shi, new rhyme)

(Postscript to the lyrics: When the first draft of the lyrics was made, it was just before the author had an operation to cut off his intestines, and the hospital and Xiangshan were across from each other. Far away, I walked alone to the park outside the courtyard and sang "Sleeping in Heaven's Farewell" several times. I was full of energy and forgot all the hardships in the world. I really want to say thank you to Taibai! I finished the revision today, and I am full of emotions again!

In the most difficult time, think about the most difficult times in this life.

When I first got married to my ex-husband, his family in the countryside was very poor, so he worked hard and opened a small shop. Life started to get a little better, and he suffered from the seven-year itch. After the extramarital affair, he cried bitterly and wrote a letter of guarantee, forgiving her and continuing to live his life.

After working hard to make money, I bought a store and three cars. However, during the second seven-year itch, I had an affair during my marriage and spent the night with my female client in a grand manner.

Those days of suffering and struggle were so painful that I finally decided that it was better to let go than to suffer.

If a person's heart is no longer there, it is useless even if he holds on to the person, it will only make him suffer deeply. We don't have to punish ourselves, torture ourselves, and make ourselves unhappy because of other people's mistakes. Letting go of others is also redeeming ourselves.

I struggled very hard in those years

Zuihuayin / Text

Looking at my son, sometimes I really envy his happiness and possessions, and sometimes I also I'm thinking, what kind of life and future will he have? Will he be able to take on such a sense of superiority in the future? Without the tempering of time, will he be strong enough to follow his own path? I often feel that I am a person who has experienced it, but such experience is not enough to give me the comfort of success. Will he not be able to surpass me?

I caught up with the assignment of the last bus to the university, and also caught up with the two-way choice of graduation. To be precise, there was no assignment, and I had to find a way to survive by myself. I remember that my first job was in the sales of a sanitary napkin brand. We were called tallies at the time. It was a strange city not far from home. Although it was not far, it was the beginning of my wandering journey. . The conditions there were very poor. My bed was made up of several boxes of sanitary napkins. It was a hot day and I suffered from mosquito bites every night. Maybe I was destined to be an ascetic. At that time, I felt confused. All my dreams and plans were drowned in the daily routine of leaving early and returning home late. I only knew that I should work and make money to support myself. The joy of the new job seems to have forgotten the hardship of the conditions. It was a very small unit, with only my supervisor and two people. When he got married that year, I took a month's vacation. Although I lived alone, I felt comfortable.

My wife was a classmate in college and was my girlfriend at that time. Although we were separated, the happiest thing was that my girlfriend could visit me once a month. My salary at that time was 400 yuan, which I gave to my girlfriend every month. The traveling expenses were 200 yuan, and my living expenses were only 200 yuan. I had to eat something good once I came here. I remember I only had 5 yuan in my pocket at the end of that month. I had already eaten the noodles left by the supervisor in the office for a week. Fortunately, I still had two big bags. Sauce, the only stove used to light the fire to cook the noodles was an electric stove that kept blowing out the wires. Every time, I had to wait for the wires to cool down and reconnect them before cooking again. Sometimes it would break several times in a row; the noodles were cooked that night. Half of it was cut off as expected. I had mixed feelings. Looking at the lonely walls, I simply kicked it over. I used my only 5 yuan to buy a bottle of beer on the street and ate ten skewers of mutton (mutton at that time). It only costs 30 cents for a skewer), which feels very cheap now, but to me it’s like the extravagant wish I had during the Chinese New Year when I was a kid. I remember that I had a great meal that night, and the night was particularly beautiful. The hearty feeling was like a rare moment of freedom. Standing in the middle of the square late at night, looking at the passing traffic, looking into the distance, the flickering lights in the distance, I don’t know whether it is hope or darkness, the cold wind screams with lonely tears: "I will succeed"... …

Everyone is a small person, but small people can be mediocre, but they cannot be mediocre. This is the rule of my conduct. It is this kind of hard work that makes me feel that I have not wasted those years. I wonder if this principle also exists in other fields? Looking at my son again, I wonder if my efforts will make him happier or will he no longer have to walk such a difficult road?

When people encounter problems in the most difficult times, most people will not eat well, cannot sleep, and are worried. Only a small number of people will sleep when they should, and eat when they should. This is not only related to a person’s personality, but also to a person’s experience and cultivation. What should you do when you encounter the symptoms above?

1 Solve the problem

Go to the hospital for a check-up first to see if there are any organic diseases. It is nothing serious. Then don’t worry. Is it possible that you haven’t had enough rest? The doctor prescribes some medicine to relieve internal heat and calm the nerves. If you are under too much pressure or have unresolved worries, if you know where the root cause of your disease is and deal with the problem first, the symptoms will disappear.

2 Self-cultivation

People with a short temper are most likely to have the above symptoms. They want to solve some things immediately and finish some tasks immediately. If they are not completed, they will not eat well and sleep poorly. Unstable, so I suggest that people with this kind of personality practice yoga and embroider cross-stitch when they have nothing to do. This can sharpen your temperament. Over time, it will gradually change. People, don’t be anxious when encountering things. Move around. There will be a solution with your brain

3 Exercise

You can go out for a run in the morning, play badminton, take a walk with your family in the evening, or go square dancing and practice You can also practice Tai Chi and yoga in bed before going to bed. Exercise is everywhere. As long as you put your mind to it, you can exercise anytime and anywhere. Once you exercise, you will eat well, and your sleep quality will also improve. Those who are weak should not forget to exercise!

4 Be Positive and Optimistic

Face life with a positive and optimistic attitude every day. When we wake up, we will smile and say to ourselves, a new day has begun, and look at the sun that has just risen The sun and the cool breeze made us smile knowingly. We should have a grateful attitude towards nature, be friendly and caring towards our families, help each other towards our colleagues, be conscientious in our work, and be filled with sunshine in our hearts.

5. Be open-minded

Everyone will have troubles. When encountering things, think openly and you will be able to calm your emotions. You can chat with your friends or write a diary. , write down what is in your heart, or ask netizens to help you analyze it. After all, if more people participate, there will be more ideas. Sometimes, when you are upset, it is just one person's psychology that is causing trouble. If you can't think straight, it will be like this.

6. Face difficulties

Don’t be afraid of difficulties. The more challenging things are, the better exercise they are for people. You must face difficulties, stick to your original intention, move forward bravely, break through bit by bit, think of other ways, and you can also ask others for advice. Don't be impatient, stay calm, and make progress every day. There are no obstacles that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot overcome them. As long as you want it, you can definitely do it.

7 Live a fulfilling life

Arrange your time properly, do what at what time, have a plan, and have goals. When you do things in an orderly manner, you have no time to think about other things, and you don’t have to Worry about missing other things, so you only need to complete them one by one. After doing your usual work, you can chat, read, and listen to music in your free time. In the evening, you can go out for free activities, take a walk with your lover, and talk. The days passed easily and happily.

It is true that good or bad fortunes are unpredictable in life, and people are prone to misfortune and misfortune. Three years ago, my child unfortunately passed away in a car accident. I was so devastated that I was so devastated that I cried all day long.

However, facing my eighty-year-old parents, who are getting older and need my care and concern. I feel that my responsibilities in life have not been fulfilled, so I still have to be strong. Only by choosing to look forward can I Go step by step.

Because of the support and encouragement from relatives and friends around me, my former students also paid attention to and cared about my family through various channels. Therefore, in order to prevent them from continuing to worry about me, my family and I chose to re-establish The confidence of life gave birth to a second child.

Now, there is laughter and laughter in our lives again, and every day has become colorful again. Although it is impossible for us to get rid of the pain and sorrow of losing a child in this life, after all, we have embarked on a new journey, and we must continue to make efforts, carefully cultivate and educate our second child, and guide her to become an adult.

All in all, to survive the most difficult moments in life, my understanding is to take responsibility and think more about others. In fact, everyone needs me too. If I become strong, everyone no longer has to worry about me. and worries.

When it comes to the most difficult moments in life, the most profound understanding is nothing more than three situations: one is life difficulty, the other is financial difficulty, and the third is difficult situation. When it comes to the difficulty of life, it can be simply referred to as "poor". Life is better now, but those poor days in the past still make me cringe every time I think about them. The elderly have to be supported and the children have to go to school. What they are most afraid of is getting sick. They have no money for treatment and no time to take care of them. They are afraid of delaying their earning and cannot afford to buy supplements.

But no matter how poor you are, you still have to live, right? The method is what people think of. If you can't afford daily necessities, use it on credit. When you need money urgently, borrow it. In daily life, use it frugally. No matter how poor you are, reputation is your capital.

Furthermore, there are financial difficulties, there is no very profitable career, and there is no money to invest. There are many professions that make money, but everyone's situation is different and their opportunities are different. Sometimes due to family constraints, and sometimes due to physical, academic and ability limitations, they can only engage in some hard-working and low-paying professions. Despite his ambitions, he has been unable to escape the quagmire of poverty. Even if you have superhuman intelligence, if you don't encounter good opportunities and don't have the funds to invest in promising projects, it's all in vain. There is a saying that if the poor can make a lot of money, then whose money will the rich make? At this time, we need to see hope and firmly believe that the patient will recover, the children will grow up, the industry will get better, and the status will improve. Only with confidence can you have the motivation to change. God is fair. As long as you work hard on the ground, believe in salted fish. There will also be times when you turn around.

The third situation is that you are in a difficult situation. The business you invest in will fail, the people you trust most will abandon you, and family changes will make it difficult for you. What to do, this is a test. Your time has come. Don't be discouraged, these are all temporary. If you fall down, it means you have failed completely. As long as you face it bravely and bear all the disappointments firmly, you will win not only success but also respect. As long as you don't admit defeat, success will only happen sooner or later.

Life is not easy, and the most difficult moment in life is losing the company, care, concern, and protection of your mother at a young age.

I vaguely remember that it was when I was still in elementary school. I should have been a carefree age. Unfortunately, life played a big joke on me. My parents quarreled and my mother left me. . At that time, I thought my mother would be back soon, but what I didn't expect was that it had been a week and there was no news from my mother. I know my mother is really gone. So I was no longer in the mood to play, and I no longer had a good meal. I found a place without people every day and cried alone. But this won't solve any problem, it will only torture yourself until you lose your humanity. So I started to cheer up, learn to take care of myself every day, and study hard. In this way, when I have the ability in the future, I can get my mother back.

When others pick me up after school, I don’t have them. When it rains, I don’t have an umbrella from my parents. When it’s cold, I don’t have parents to give me cotton-padded clothes. There is a saying that goes well, you will lose something one day. Come back in another way. When God closes a door for you, he will also open a window for you. This kind of environment makes me more independent and self-reliant, and makes me more mature and brave. Thank you for this time. I am also grateful to myself for not being defeated at that time!